Ukushintsha isibongo sabo ngemuva kokushada, wonke owesifazane kufanele azi ukuthi ushintsho olunjalo empilweni yakhe lungabangela kokubili izikhathi ezimbi nezihle. Futhi kungcono ukwazi ngalo mlobokazi ngaphambi komshado wakhe.
Ngokungangabazeki, okunye kulolu shintsho kungaba ukuthi igama elilodwa lababili libahlanganisa futhi lidale umphakathi womzwelo wabashadile. Kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukuzizwa njengengxenye yomndeni kumuntu othandekayo, hhayi kuphela eqinisweni, kodwa futhi nasekuqinisekisweni okubukwayo, futhi lo mdwebo omusha.
Yiqiniso, futhi ekuzalweni kwengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo, uzokwazi ukwethula amalungelo akho esizindeni kumpahla yakho ejwayelekile, kodwa futhi, lokhu akukona maduzane kakhulu, kodwa akusiyo ikusasa elide kakhulu. Futhi izihlobo eziningi, abangane bakho, abajwayele ukujwayele, akudingeki ukukubuza ngalokhu, ngoba kubonakala kuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi ushadile ngokusemthethweni.
Manje ake sicabange ngalokhu okushiwo, okungaholela ekushintsheni egameni lakho. Lezi zinkinga zingase zingabonakali nhlobo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka kanjalo empilweni yokuthi umfazi ongazange asole noma angazi ngalezi zingqinamba angabangela ukwesaba futhi angakwazi ukuzwakalisa izinyembezi.
Umzuzu wokuqala wokuphila kombhangqwana osanda kushada, ongabhekana nabo, ngaphambi kokuba banqume ukuya enyangeni ngemuva kokubhalisa umshado wabo. Inkinga yokuqala ingavela ngqo emngceleni, ngoba umthetho wethu waseRussia awulawuli isikhathi sokushintshwa kwamaphasipoti angaphandle angashintsha igama lakho. Kodwa uma igama lakho epasipoti lingavumelani nesibongo kuphasiphothi yakho yaseRussia, ngakho-ke, lapho uhambo oluya kwelinye izwe, kuzodingeka unikeze ipasipoti yakho yezakhamuzi ukuze unikeze i-visa, kodwa lokhu ngeke kwenzeke. Bese kufika ukuguqulwa kwepasipoti yakho yaseRussia. Yiqiniso, le nqubo ingase ingaba yinde kakhulu, kodwa ingathandeki kakhulu, njengoba ulindele futhi, kodwa kunezinkinga nezinhlobo zamaPassports aseRashiya, kungenzeka ukuthi ayitholakali. Futhi kwezinye izimo, lokhu kungaba umzuzu othakazelisayo futhi ophazamisayo, isibonelo, lapho ingane izalwa maduzane, uma kunezinkinga ezingabangela ukungabi khona kwepasipoti lomama wesikhathi esizayo.
Ukushintsha kwepasipoti kungukuqala kwazo zonke izinkinga zobungcweti ezilindele umlingani omusha. Ngemva kokuba umlingani omusha athole incwadi yakhe ebomvu ngesibongo esisha, uzoqala nje ukuhamba nxazonke ekuhlushwa. Isibonelo, uma engumfundi eyunivesithi, udinga ukushintsha isibongo sakhe emadokhumweni emva komshado wakhe. Futhi nakwezinye izimo eziningi, ngokwesibonelo, kumanethiwekhi omgogodla, ekuhlolweni kwentela, nasezindaweni eziningi kakhulu, futhi lokhu kuzodingeka, hhayi isikhathi esincane kakhulu nokuhlukunyezwa. Futhi uma intombazane inomsebenzi wayo, izoholela ekuguqulweni kwemibhalo esemthethweni neminye. Futhi ngaphezu kwazo zonke lezi zinjabulo, kukhona ukuphazamiseka namakhasimende lapho bekhuluma nenhlangano lapho umfazi esebenza khona. Ngemuva kwalokho, wonke umuntu kuzodingeka achaze ukuthi igama elinyamalale emaqondana nemibhalo alisho neze ukuthi isisebenzi sichithwe, kodwa nje kushintshwe isibongo sesibongo esisha.
Uma uhlanganyele, umsebenzi wokudala futhi kufanele usayine ngaphansi kwamadokhumenti noma ngaphansi kwezincwadi ezithile, khona-ke uzoba nezinkinga ezintsha. Futhi izikhathi ezinjalo zingakusiza ukuba uthande ukuthatha igama elimangazayo noma uqale ukungena ngemvume ngegama lakho lentombazane.
Futhi uma oshade naye esevele enezingane kusukela emshadweni wangaphambili futhi ufuna ukushintsha isibongo sakhe, khona-ke kuyoba nzima nakakhulu. Kumele ngithwale yonke indawo imibono yami ngomshado, ukuze wonke umuntu angabonisa ubuhlobo babo nabantwana. Futhi uma owesifazane eshadile engazange abe ngowokuqala, kodwa kakade eyesibili noma yesithathu, khona-ke kuyoba nzima kakhulu kuye empilweni yakhe uma ushintsha isibongo sakhe.
Yingakho ucabange ngakho konke, kahle kakhulu futhi uhlonipha zonke izinzuzo nezingozi, kufanele uzikhethele ukuthi ufuna ukushintsha igama lakho lentombazane kwisibongo somyeni wakhe. Ngemva kokwenza lokhu kukhetha, uma unezingane, kufanele ucabange ngazo. Futhi ungahlala ushintsha igama lakho kumyeni wakho futhi ngeke neze liphuze kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho, kungcono ukuphumula kunanini ngaphambili.
Manje siyazi uma kudingeka sishintshe igama lesizwa ngemuva komshado. Sithemba ukuthi isihloko sethu sizokusiza ukwenze okulungile.