Yeka ukuthi ungaqothuli kanjani othandekayo?
Labo abazithandayo, baphumelela kakhulu ebuhlotsheni. Lokhu kuyiqiniso. Zama esikhundleni sokunamathisela ukushintsha okungenani ingxenye yamandla akho angenakuqhathaniswa kuwe futhi ubonise umyeni wakho ukuthi awuyena ukuqhubeka kwakhe okunengqondo noma-ngisho nakakhulu - isicelo samahhala, nomuntu ngamunye. Mbuze ngomsebenzi wakhe nemihlangano, ungakhohlwa ukungitshela ukuthi usuku lwakho luhambe kanjani (ngisho noma umlingani wakho engathandeki kulo mkhuba). Noma yimuphi umcimbi ungachazwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Zama ukuqaphela inqubekelaphambili yakho nempumelelo yosuku, izophakamisa ukuzethemba kwethu - futhi wenze oshade naye abukeke ngokuhlukile. Ungalindeli ukuphelelwa ithemba, lapho uzophinde asebenzise yonke iMgqibelo nabangani egaraji, isihlalo sobukhosi noma ukudoba. Shintsha indlela evamile yezinto: uyakutshela mayelana nezinhlelo zakhe, futhi wenza inhlamba. Umsebenzi wakho ukuhamba phambili! Hamba nentombazane yakho kumabhayisikobho, ukuyothenga noma ku-cafe bese ubeka oshade naye isaziso: "Namuhla ngeke ngibe ekhaya usuku lonke, lungiselela okuthile / ukuhlala nengane / ukugeza, sicela, phansi." Umyeni wakho uzomangala futhi angeke akuphikise. Umndeni, indoda, izingane - kuhle! Umsebenzi wakho, ukuzilibazisa, ukuphumula (hhayi kuphela emndenini womndeni) kufanele kukulethela injabulo. Yingakho akufanele uthathe izinkinga zonke zansuku zonke, uzikhulule ngokuphelele kumuntu (ngemuva kwakho konke, unezinto eziningi ongayenza ngaphandle kokuhlanza, ukufaka izinsimbi nokupheka). Sabalalisa imithwalo yemfanelo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuzizwa uzwela. Akukho okuzokwenzeka uma ungagezi phansi ekhishini bese uzinikezela lesi sikhathi kuwe (isibonelo, yenza imaski noma ugeze). Umoya wakho omuhle uzodluliselwa kumyeni wakho futhi, cishe kungenzeka, ngeke kudingeke umbuze isikhathi sekhulu: "Sasha, uyangithanda?"
Futhi, ekugcineni, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqeda ukuthembela ngokomzwelo kumuntu nokunamathela kuye ukuthola ukuthola imbangela yakhe. Kungani udinga ukuzizwa udingeka njalo? Mhlawumbe, kungenxa yokungalapheki kwakho (awukwazi ukuthatha izinqumo ngokwakho, ngakho-ke uhlale ushintsha zonke izinkinga kumahlombe omlingani). Kungenzeka ukuthi ukwesaba ukuhlala wedwa futhi ukuziphatha kwakho empeleni kuyindlela yokuvikela: ngakho-ke, uzama ukubopha umuntu. Noma mhlawumbe into ephelele yukuthi uvuswa yisimiso somama osithumela kumyeni wakho ("Uyadla?", "Gqoka ngokufudumele emgwaqweni ubanda!", "Ngibize lapho ufika emsebenzini") noma, ngokuphambene nalokho , isizathu asikho kuwe, kodwa kumlingani wakho (unomkhuhlane ngokomzwelo, futhi kufanele ucele isabelo sakho sokuncoma, ukwamukela amagama amnandi)? Njengoba wazi, ukuqonda inkinga kuyisihluthulelo sokuxazululwa.
Okunamathiselwe Okunamathiselwe Okuvinjelwe
- Akufanele ubize umsebenzi womyeni wakho izikhathi ezingu-7-10 ngosuku ukukutshela ukuthi unesizungu noma usuthandane naye (ukubonisa okunjalo imizwa kubonakala kumnandi kuphela okokuqala futhi kungenjalo kubo bonke abantu).
- Izikhalazo "i-pussy yami", "ikati", "bunny" ne "kukushech" yamukeleka kuphela ekhaya. Akufanele ubize umyeni wakho onjalo nabalingani bakhe noma abangani bakhe.
- Imisho efana ne "Ngiyazi ukuthi uzizwa ungalungile", "Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi kuyoba ngcono kuwe uma ..." zizohluleka ukuhluleka. Okokuqala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingana, awukwazi ngempela ukuthi imiphi imizwelo indoda yakho ehlangabezana nayo okwamanje. Futhi okwesibili, umyeni uzoqala ukukubona njengowesifazane nomfazi othandekayo, kodwa njengomama (futhi lokhu kuyisiqalo sokuphela kobuhlobo bobulili).
- Imizwa yecala ayiyona isisekelo esihle somshado. Izinkokhelo; "Nganikele konke ngenxa yomndeni, futhi awukwazi ukuyeka ukudoba!", "Asinakukubona sonke isonto ngenxa yomsebenzi wakho, ngithembele ngempelasonto, futhi futhi uzoya endaweni ethile nabangani bakho!", " Izingane zikhohliwe igama lakho! "- cishe, zizoholela ekuthukeni, ukuhlambalaza nokuphikisana. Umsebenzi wakho awukona ukukhombisa ukuthi umyeni wakho usolwa kanjani nakho konke ngaphambi kwakho (noma ngisho nakakhulu - ngaphambi kwezingane zakho nezihlobo) futhi umtshele ngemizwa yakho ("Ngizobe ngidabukile uma uhamba", "Ngesaba ukuthi ngeke ngibhekane nezingane zodwa. .. "," Ngingathanda ukuchitha leliveki kuphela! ").
Ukunciphisa okunengqondo esikhundleni sothando
Yebo, bobabili umyeni wakho kanye nawe (futhi ngempela) kufanele babe nabangane babo, isikhathi sangasese, amaholidi ahlangene futhi ahlukene, ilungelo lokuba yedwa, nokuthulisa nokubiza ummeli. Akufanelekile ama-shutters, ngokungangabazi. Ukuba nezenzo zakho zokuzilibazisa, ukuvezwa kanye nolwazi, uthole isizathu kanye nezihloko zengxoxo, zithandeka kakhulu komunye nomunye, futhi uphinde uthole ibhonasi enkulu (phakathi nalesi sikhathi unesikhathi esiningi sokuphuthelwa, ukuthi kuphinde kube khona ukukhathazeka kubuya futhi). Kodwa-ke, kwenzeka nakwezinye izindlela: Ngokwenzayo, umdlalo wenkululeko ngokweqile ("woza lapho ufuna khona", "yenza okufunayo") uvame ukuphenduka ukungabi nandaba, futhi manje ngaphansi kwemigqa yendlu eyodwa asisaphila nendoda nomfazi, kodwa ngokuphelele abangabazi komunye nomunye abantu. Ukuzwa ngesilinganiso nesivumelwane esifanayo, futhi induduzo yizona ndlela eziyinhloko ekunikezeni inkululeko yomuntu womshado. Kuyinto eyodwa uma umyeni wakho echitha isonto elilodwa eholidini lakhe e-Karelia nabangani bakhe abadoba, kanti abanye abathathu - kanye nawe nabantwana olwandle, kanti omunye - uma ehamba yedwa nomngani wakhe ongashadile ehhotela laseYurophu (ngenkathi uhlezi ezweni pheka borsch). Okufanayo kuya ezithakazelweni zomuntu siqu. Uma umyeni wakho echitha yonke impelasonto nabangani bakhe, emsebenzini noma kwikhompyutha - lesi yisikhathi sokuzindla, ukukhuluma ngokujulile futhi ubuyekeze ubuhlobo bakho. Ngokuqinisekile kwakungeyona njalo njalo! Ngakho-ke, ngandlela-thile into ethile ishintshile empilweni yakho, ezinye izimo, inkulumo engafakazi ngokuphambene, isimo sephukile lokho okuhlangene nawe. Umsebenzi wakho ukufika phansi bese uyisusa.