Kulesi simo, kunezindlela eziningi zokuxazulula le nkinga, isibonelo, omunye wabo, wenze inoveli ngakwesokunene, futhi uthole ngokuhlukumezeka okushiwo ebuhlotsheni bomndeni wakho. Kulesi sihloko, sizocabangela ukuthi kufanelekile ukushintsha kumyeni wakhe.
Okokuqala, kuzodingeka ukuthi sixoxe ngemingcele embalwa, ngeke sithinte ohlangothini lokuziphatha nokuziphatha kwalolu daba. Futhi, asicabangi isikhathi esisodwa, izinguquko ezingahleliwe (ngemuva kokupheka ama-cocktails emcimbini noma ukuphikisana nokuziphindiselela, njengoba kunzima ukuzibiza ngokuzibophezela), sizocabangela lobo buhlobo nomuntu esikuthandayo esiya kuye futhi engagcini kumunye noma amabili izikhathi.
Ngakho, ngaphambi kokuba uphendule umbuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kudingeke ushintshe noma cha, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini imbangela yokukhaphela, njengoba, njengoba kubhaliwe ngenhla, sicabangela labo abangakholwayo oya kuwo ngokucophelela. Ngokujwayelekile, isizathu sokuqhubekela phambili, kukhona okulandelayo: isifiso sokukhipha izinzwa zakho, ukungabi nobulili empilweni yakho yomndeni nomyeni wakho, ukunganakwa nokufudumala kumyeni wakhe. Ake sibheke ngayinye yalezi zizathu ngokuningiliziwe bese uzama ukubona ukuthi kufanelekile ukushintsha kuye.
Isifiso sokukhipha izinzwa zakho.
Njengoba siqonda, isithelo esivinjelwe sinomnandi. Futhi esimeni sokungathengiswa, ikakhulukazi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kucatshangwa kanjani futhi kuhlelwe, kuhlale kuyingxenye yengozi, akekho owedlulele. Yonke le nkulumo eyimfihlakalo, izingcingo, imihlangano, izindlu ezifihliwe, njll, konke lokhu kungakhonsa izinzwa zakho, futhi abesifazane abaningi bathanda lokhu. Ungayitholi injabulo kuphela, kodwa futhi nesabelo se-adrenaline, ngenxa yokuqaphela ukuthi wenza isenzo esinqatshelwe, futhi lokhu kuyilutha. Kodwa umbuzo uwukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenxa yokuntuleka kokuthakazelisa empilweni ukushintsha umyeni, ngokombono wami, impendulo isobala - akufanelekile. Phela, i-adrenaline efanayo ingatholakala ngezinye izindlela (imidlalo eyingozi, isibonelo) futhi akudingeki ukukopela umyeni wakho futhi uyishintshe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ngeke isathathe futhi, futhi izinsongo emshadweni wakho zizoba ngaphansi.
Ukungabi nobuhlobo obuseduze.
Maye, ah, akuwona konke okukhona kulokhu kuphila okuphakade, futhi amandla omzimba womyeni wakho, futhi, nakanjani, kuyadabukisa, ngoba, njengoba kwaziwa, ubudlelwane obuvumelana ngokuphelele, akukho ukuvumelana embhede. Yini okufanele uyenze kulokhu? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubhekene nokuntuleka kobulili empilweni yakho, noma uzame ukukugcwalisa. Kulesi simo, umuntu ongasondelene naye, ojwayele, indoda engashadile enezindlu ezihlukene kanye ne-potency enhle kakhulu kufanelekile. Kule ukuphinga akukho lutho ngaphandle kokusondelana ngokomzimba, imihlangano ingase ibe yinto enhle kakhulu, izikhathi eziningana ngenyanga, kungabi khona. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ubuhlobo bakho nomyeni wakho buzogcinwa, futhi ukungabi nalutho kwemizwelo kuyabuyiselwa. Ngakho ngalesi sibonelo kuvunyelwe ukukhaphela umyeni wakho.
Kodwa lapha kufanele sigcizelele ukuthi ungaya kulesi sinyathelo kuphela uma ungakwazi ukubuyisela ifomu lakho elivamile lokulwa kumyeni wakho, noma kudinga ukwelashwa eside (ke ngesikhathi sokuphulukiswa, ungaba noveli ngakwesokunene).
Ukungabi nobuhlobo obungokomoya kanye nokunakwa.
Njengoba siqonda, konke kuyenzeka empilweni, futhi uma ushada, umyeni wakho wayengumphathi ojwayelekile futhi anganikeza isikhathi esiningi kuwe, ngakho-ke lapho ekhuphuka emkhakheni wemisebenzi, kwaba nzima nakakhulu. Futhi kulokhu, abesifazane abaningi bafuna ukuthandana ohlangothini, lokhu ngokuvamile akuzona amanoveli anomnandi kakhulu, kodwa bakunika imfudumalo ongayitholi emndenini. Ukuhlambalaza ngalesi sizathu, ngombono wami, kuvunyelwe, kepha lobu buhlobo akufanele buhlale isikhathi eside, isibonelo, ngesimo senkundla encane yokubhuka.
Ukufingqa konke okungenhla, singaphetha ngokuthi kwezinye izimo, izinguquko zivumelekile, kodwa akufanele usebenzise kabi lokhu.