Futhi eJalimane, izwe elinomkhakha othuthukisiwe kakhulu wamafilimu abantu abadala, lapho kutholakala khona i-sexologist. Esikhathini sethu, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ziye zaba yinto yokudlala ngobulili. Ufuna ukuhlukahluka? Bheka izithombe ezingcolile. Ingabe ufuna into enqatshelwe? Bheka izithombe ezingcolile. Uke waba nesithukuthezi ndawonye? Bheka izithombe ezingcolile. Ingabe uyedwa? Hhayi, wena ngokwakho uyazi ukuthi wenzeni. Injabulo ehlanganisiwe - injengama-carbohydrate elula, okuthi, ngokweqile zonke izigaba eziningi zokugaya, ushukela olufisayo luwela ngqo egazini lethu. Futhi wenze ngomzimba ngokufanayo. Kulula kakhulu ukujwayela ukuthi yini efika ngokushesha futhi ifomu elenziwe lilungisiwe. Azikho izithiyo, akukho ukungabaza. Ungacindezela njalo futhi uphenduke emuva, phambili noma ubeke esikhundleni se-roller. Ingabe kuvamile uma umuntu ehambela amasayithi e-porn nsuku zonke noma cha?
Ubani othanda i-porn
Ubuchopho bomuntu bukhuni kakhulu futhi bubuqili, uma kukhona okungazuzwa ngendlela elula neyongena amandla, uzodinga lokho kuphela. Futhi i-porn igcina ingqondo, ingqondo, izinto ezibonakalayo zomuntu kanye ... nokulibaziseka. Uma ukuxhomeka okuyisisekelo sekuvele sekuvele, umbono wezobudlelwano bocansi uqala kancane kancane, ekuqaleni kokungaqondakali ngokuphelele, ukushintsha. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungenxa yokunciphisa ukuzwela komdwebo "womvuzo" wesistimu ye-limbic, isakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi sezinkolelo ezibandakanya ekulawuleni imizwelo, izisusa kanye nokulawula okuhambisana nezimo zemvelo. Okusho ukuthi, le ngxenye yobuchopho ibangela ukuthi sibona kanjani umhlaba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlwanyela ekuvuseleleni imizwa yokuzizwa (i-video eshukumisayo yobulili), siyayeka ukujabulela ukufudumala okuhle), kuze kube usuku, ukubukeka okuthandekayo komuntu othandekayo noma umsebenzi owenzile ngempumelelo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, siba nzima kakhulu: sidinga injabulo eyengeziwe. Kodwa ubuchopho buhlelwe ngale ndlela: ukuvuselela okuqhubekayo kwama-receptors kunciphisa ukuzwa kwethu. Futhi lokho umuntu akubona ku-pornoric kuyisisusa esingavamile kakhulu esikhungweni sokuzijabulisa. Futhi ayikwazi ukuphindaphindiwe empilweni yangempela: umbukeli uzohlala ephethe isikhathi esifushane, abalingani abambalwa, futhi okuwukuphela kokungakwazi ukuqeda amashumi angamashumi amane angakwazi ukuphazanyiswa futhi, cishe, akafuni ukubeka ibhola yebhola kuye.
Ixhunyiwe kusuka kwinethiwekhi
Amadoda amaningi (nokuxhomeka kobulili kuyinkinga kuphela kwezobulili obuqinile), abanjwe izitho zobulili ezingcolile, abone ukuthi kwenzekani kubo. Ngokuvamile bayaqonda: bahambe kakhulu kakhulu ekuthomeni kokuzilibazisa, lapho kunzima ukuqala ukulungiswa. Nazi izingcaphuno ezivela kumarekhodi kaRichard Grey, isiguli esaphathwa ngokulutha kabi kocansi e-Rehabilitation Center e-Colorado. Ngemva kwezinyanga eziningana "zokuzilahla," uRichard waphinde wabheka iziqeshana ezimbalwa: "Amafilimu wesithathu nowesine afana nalokho okwesibini: akekho omunye wabahlanganyeli ongenaso isithakazelo kulokho akwenzayo, wonke umuntu unobuso obunzima, obunzima. Okwesine, lapho konke kuthathwa khona ngokuseduze, kungenzeka kube nzima kakhulu kimi ngaphambili, kepha manje kukhunjulwa kakhulu ngombukiso wokudla, lapho umpheki esika khona inyama. Ukuya ocansini kwakuncane kakhulu ukukwenza ngakho. Ividiyo yesihlanu yiyona kuphela engayibheka kusukela ekuqaleni kuya ekupheleni: umfana wayedubula intombi yakhe (angizange ngithemba ngomkami) ngesikhathi sokulala. Uphikisana nokudubula okuningiliziwe, wacela ukuba athumele ikhamera eceleni futhi angasondeli kakhulu emzimbeni wakhe, kodwa wagcizelela. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kubudlova obusobala. Iqiniso lokuthi konke okwenziwe ngokumelene nentando yintombazane yangishaya indiva. Kodwa nakakhulu - iqiniso lokuthi ngangijwayele ukubukela la mafilimu ngaphambili futhi ngangibathande! "U-Yuri Prokopenko ukholelwa ukuthi izithameli zobulili ezingcolile zizama izindima ezingezona ezakhe - futhi umqondo wendabuko uyashintsha. Phela, izithombe ezingcolile zobulili zivame ukuboniswa isilinganiso esilinganiselwe, ngoba nje ukubuka ubulili obuvamile kubantu ababili abavamile kuyisicefe. Ngakho-ke, kukhona ukuguqula njalo inomboro kanye nokwakheka kobulili kwabahlanganyeli, kukhona ubudlova, ama-postures ayenamaqhinga futhi angasiwo emvelo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uNorman Doyd sithi abathengi be-porn-hardcore abakwazi ukujabulela ngaphandle kwezithombe eziholele kubo. Akuyona nje iphutha ukuthi amakhasi wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile agcwele izikhangisi zamathebhulethi ahlobo lwe-Viagra, okwakuhloswe ngaso ekuqaleni kubantu besigaba. Namuhla, abafana abasha abathandana ne-porn ngokuvamile bahlushwa ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile. Kodwa-ke, inkinga ayikho epeni, kodwa ekhanda, "kusho uDoyge. Ngenhlanhla, zixazululwe ngokuphelele ezinyangeni ezimbalwa emva kokuqedwa kokubuka izithombe ezibucayi ze-porn kanye nokulungiswa kokuziqhenya ngokufaneleka komfazi onothando nesothando. "
Ukusizwa kweHholo
Yiqiniso, ukuxazulula le nkinga yedwa, ukulahla amadiski nokususa izixhumanisi kusuka kwikhompyutha ukuya kumasayithi we-porn, indoda ayikwazi. Uma eqonda kangcono ukuthi uhlangana nomlingani wakhe, ngokushesha uzoqala ukujabulela injabulo yocansi ejwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kwezocansi, "hlala eduze futhi ubone bobabili," kufanele ukuba omagazini abaningi bacebise, kufanelekile kuphela uma intombazane inesithakazelo kulokho okwenzeka esikrinini. Ngamandla okukwenza lokhu akufanelekile. Futhi into esemqoka ukukhumbula: ngokwemvelo konke okujabulisa kakhulu kokubili. Kumuntu othile, ubulili obuyisiliva kuyisidingo, kwabanye - hhayi. Futhi nesikhathi sokuqala, ubude besenzo socansi. Ngendlela, uma ubukela izithombe ezingcolile hhayi ngenxa yokushintshwa, kodwa ezihlukahlukene kanye nesifiso - lokhu kuzoba okuyinhloko ukuthi akuyona into evamile.