Umlando omncane
Lokho esikubiza ngokuthi u-mat namhlanje, eqinisweni, kwakuyisici esibophezelayo esimisweni sokuzala esikhathini sobuqaba futhi sabonakala ngokwemvelo. Ukuqinisekiswa kwalokhu kuyinani elikhulu lamadolobha ahlukene, amadolobhana, amadolobha nemifula, okwakusukela ngaleso sikhathi kwaqala ukukhwabanisa, ngamazinga ethu, amagama. Kodwa-ke, ngokusakazwa kobuKristu eRussia, amazwi omkhosi wamaqaba adluliselwa esigabeni sokuhlazeka futhi kancane kancane aqala ukushintshwa isonto, ngoba babebizwa ngokuthi "ukungcola." Kodwa ukufunga ngamazwi isikhathi eside akuzange kulahlekelwe ukuthandwa phakathi kwe-Old Believer stratum yabantu. Futhi ngokusemthethweni bavinjelwe emibhalweni ebhaliwe kuphela ngekhulu le-18.
Ukusetshenziswa kolimi oluhlukumezayo
Futhi namuhla, njengamanje eminyakeni eminingi edlule, ukuqalekisa akuzona nje amagama. Ososayensi abathintekayo ekufundeni ulimi, babalwa ukuthi ulwazimagama oluhlukumezayo lwenza imisebenzi engaphezu kuka-15 ehlukene. Ngakho-ke, ngosizo lokufunga, ungavusa ukuziphatha kwakho kuphela, kodwa futhi ukhuthaze ekufezeni abanye. Ngezinye izikhathi izinkulumo ezihlambalaza zivumela umuntu ukuba akwazi ukukhulula ukucindezeleka futhi athole uhlobo lwe-detente. Ngakho-ke, uma into enzima, njengensimbi, iwa phansi ngokuzumayo ezinyaweni zakho, khona-ke uma usho okuthi "oh, kubuhlungu into ethize ...", uzobe usuzwa ukucindezeleka isikhathi eside, futhi uma wena ngalesi sikhashana ufunga kahle, uzozizwa ukhululekile ngokushesha.
Izinkulumo ezingcolile zisebenza njengento yokubonisa intukuthelo nokuhlukumezeka kubantu abangathandeki futhi zisetshenziselwa ukwesaba nokuphikisana nomphikisi. Njengasemhlabeni wezilwane, izilwane ziyakhala, zakha ama-grimaces ezimbi futhi zibopha izinwele zazo njengoba isitha sisondela.
Omunye umsebenzi wolimi olungcolile yikhono lokubhekana nokumesaba nokwesaba ngakho. Echazwa njengamazwi "amabi", umuntu njengoba edala uhlobo lokuzivikela azungeze yena futhi uzizwa eqiniseka kakhulu.
Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi leziqalekiso ziyinto ebonakalayo engokwemvelo futhi ewusizo, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi akubona bonke abasebenzisa ngendlela efanayo. Ngisho nasesikhathini samanje, lapho isiko lesisindo sinezinhlanzi (singakuzwa ulimi olubi emsakazweni, esibukweni se-TV, sifunde emakhasini amaphephandaba), abanye abantu abanalo umkhuba wokuziveza, kodwa kukhona labo abangafungi nje kuphela, kodwa nje ekhuluma njalo ngolimi oluhlukumezayo.
Kuncike ekukhanyeni kokuqala emfundweni. Uma abazali befake isimo sengqondo esifanele ebusheni babo, ke-ke, emva kokukhula, umuntu uzozilandela esikhathini esizayo. Okungabalulekile kakhulu uhlobo lomlingiswa kanye nesistimu yezinzwa zomuntu. Abantu abathandekayo - abasheshayo futhi bajabule kalula, sebenzisa izinkulumo ezihlambalaza ngokuvamile kaningi kuneziguli ze-phlegmatic ezilinganisiwe. Kodwa-ke, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi umuntu okhuliswe emkhayeni wemikhuba ohlakaniphile futhi ongahambisani nesithombe samahhotela angama-motherfucker angamazwi ahlambalazayo. Intombazane enesizotha, ethandekayo, ethandekayo, egqoke ngokungahloniphi futhi enomsoco obuncane ebusweni bakhe ngokuzumayo inika ukuthi izindlebe zakhe ziqhubekele ngaphakathi kwipayipi. Akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa ukuthi ngokuvamile uyazi izinkulumo ezinjalo! Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi wazifunda ngokuqondile, ukuze azizwe eqiniseka futhi ekhululekile ezimweni ezithile. Noma kwenzeka ukuthi isisebenzi sisebenze konke ukuphila kwakhe eqenjini eliyinkimbinkimbi, lapho ngaphandle kwamagama aqinile, akukho msebenzi noma iphrojekthi ezokwenziwa ngesikhathi. Ithimba liye lashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi umkhuba wokukhuluma okubi ugcinwa.
Uma kuqhathaniswa namadoda, abesifazane ngokuvamile basebenzisa ulimi oluhlambalaza kaningi. Futhi hhayi nje ngoba emzimbeni wesifazane i-hormone ye-testosterone ayitholakali kancane, okuyiyona eyabangela ukuhlukunyezwa, kodwa futhi ngoba yamukelwa kuphela ezinkampanini zamadoda. Uma umfana osemusha engazi izithuko ezingcolile, kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukujoyina inkampani. Indoda ekhulile engakwazi ukuveza ukuthi ingxoxo yonke ingamazwi ambalwa, cishe ngeke ikwazi ukuba umholi. Ngokuvamile, imiphakathi yonke iyiphutha ngokusetshenziswa kwempi. Futhi uma ukugeleza kwamazwi angcolile kuqondiswa kithi, kubonakala kungabi nabuhlungu futhi kuthathwa njengokungahloniphi okukhulu.
Indlela yokukhipha imikhuba emibi
Kukhona ingozi eyodwa: kubonakala ukuthi inkulumo yethu namakhono ethu okuqonda asebenzisana kakhulu. Uma sinomkhuba wokukhuluma ngezimo ezifanayo ngezimo ze-template (futhi izibalo ngokuqondile lezi zimaphethini), lokhu akuvumeli ubuchopho bethu ukuba buhlakulele.
Izazi zengqondo zeBrithani ziye zahlaziya inkulumo yabesifazane abangamakhulu amaningana futhi zathola ukuthi izinkulumo zezintombi zilungile kakhulu, ziphumelela nakakhulu nangomsebenzi wakhe. Ngisho nezifundo ezikhethekile ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo zihlelekile, lapho kusetshenziselwa khona imizimba ehlukahlukene yokuqeda ukukhuluma ngamazwi amancane, kuhlanganise nokungaqiniseki. Ngakho, esikhundleni segama elibi "udinga" ukubiza okungenangqondo, hhayi okuhlobene nengxoxo igama, isibonelo "gypsumff", esikhundleni se "e-klmn", "devil" noma "pancake". Umuntu, lapho enza lokho, uqonda ukuthi le nkulumo izwakala ingenangqondo futhi ihlekisa, njengoba nje iziqalekiso enkulumweni yakhe zingalungile. Enye indlela yokuqeda ukuvala i-lexicon ukuthula. Ngemuva kokusebenzisa ulimi oluhlambalaza, abantu bavame ukumboza ukungakwazi kwabo ukwakha inkulumo, izindawo zokumisa kanye nokuyeka isikhashana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ufunde ukuthula, abantu bafunda ukulalela umxhumanisi, okuzovuma, ukuthi uyigugu elibaluleke kakhulu futhi eliyigugu.
Amanye amaqiniso mayelana nezici ezinhle nezimbi zokuhlukunyezwa.
Umthelela omuhle
- Ukusetshenziswa kwezinkulumo ezinamandla kwandisa impilo. Iziphetho ezinjalo zenziwa odokotela baseMelika nabahlengikazi. Ngemva kokufunda indlela yokuphila yabantu abangu-230, bathole ukuthi: ukukhuluma ngokucacile kuyasiza empilweni. Labo abenzayo, banezinga eliphansi le-cortisol ("i-hormone yokucindezeleka") ne-endorphin ephakeme ("ihomoni yenjabulo").
- Inkulumo engaqinisekisiwe iqinisa umoya wokubambisana. Ochwepheshe beYunivesithi yaseMpumalanga Anglia bathola ukuthi ukuhlambalaza kusiza abasebenzi ukuxhumana, kudala isimo esikhethekile sokuqonda nokuthembela. Futhi akukhathazi nje kuphela amadoda, kodwa nawo amaqembu ahlangene.
- Iziqalekiso zinciphisa ukuheha komuntu. Izengqondo zezenhlalakahle zembula ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa enkulumweni yobulili obuhle kubathinta kakhulu ukuhlolwa kwabo ngamadoda. Bonke abesifazane abathola amaphuzu aphezulu ngesisekelo sezithombe bawa emehlweni abantu emva kokubonisa (kumavidyo kliphu) amandla okuziveza ngendlela engafanele.
- Iqalekisa nciphisa isimo sengqondo. Kudla amahlandla amahlanu ukuzwa amagama angcolile ku-TV, indlela ukuwa kwemizwa - kukhona i-alamu, umuzwa wokuthi "kukhona okungalungile." Izazi zengqondo zezingane ezisuka e-United States zikholelwa ukuthi umsebenzi wokufaka umzali. Sonke safunda kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi kubi ukufunga.