Isimo lapho abantu abashadile beqhuba ibhizinisi lomndeni elihlangene noma basebenza emabhizinisini afanayo, ngokuvamile badideka. Ukuthandana kwezinsizakalo phakathi kwabasebenza nabo emsebenzini kuhlale kubonakala kungalungile, kodwa kuthiwani uma indoda nomkayo bebambisana? Ingabe umshado wakho uzomele uqine ngoba ungokoqobo usuku lonke, noma ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyoba luvivinyo olunzima kuye? Ayikho impendulo engafanele, nakuba kufanelekile ukucubungula zonke izinhlangothi ezinhle nezinhle.
Izinzuzo zomsebenzi nomlingani wakho
Ngakho-ke, endaweni yokuncintisana kakhulu abasebenzi basehhovisi, abayeni nabesifazane emsebenzini bazohlale benokwethenjelwa, osebenza nabo abangeke bazame ukusinda, bakhohlise, kodwa ngokuphambene nabo bayokweseka esimweni esinzima futhi ngeke basuse isivumelwano esilinde isikhathi eside.
Umndeni usebenza ndawonye, njengendlela eyodwa, lapho baqonda futhi basizana. Ngakho-ke, uzozizwa uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe emsebenzini wokubambisana, ngisho noma ungumuntu omusha.
Njengoba umndeni uyiqembu elilodwa, kuvamile eqenjini ukwabelana ngolwazi, kufaka phakathi ulwazi, futhi uma selulahlekile, ungathola izinzuzo eziningi. Ngesikhathi sasemini, awukwazi ukujabulela ukuphumula ndawonye kuphela, kodwa futhi uxoxe ngolwazi osebenza nabo abajwayelekile abavami ukuhlanganyela. Lokhu kungase kube izindaba zekonkontileka ezilungiselelwe noma mayelana nokunciphisa abasebenzi esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa ngisho nokwaziswa okujwayelekile mayelana nokuthi uzokhipha nini umholo noma ngamuphi umzwelo okwamanje iziphathimandla nazo zingaba usizo kakhulu.
Izinkinga zokusebenza ndawonye kanye nezindlela zokuzixazulula
Inkinga kungenzeka ukuthi umbhangqwana oshadile ohlala ndawonye futhi osebenza ndawonye ngokuvumelana ungaqonda njengomuntu owodwa.Uma impumelelo yomlingani iqala ukubizwa ngokuthi yi-willows, lokhu kuyinto eyodwa, kodwa ukuthi yini okumelwe ikwenze uma umyeni noma umfazi enza iphutha lobuchwepheshe. Ngempela, konke lokhu kuzodingeka kuhlukaniswe ngesigamu. Futhi uma umngane womngane onobungane engakwazi ukuba abangane bakho, abazondayo bayozama ukukubuyisela. Isimo esinjalo sithintela emsebenzini futhi sithola ukuvumelana kwengqondo. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, udinga ukukhombisa ithimba ukuthi wena, noma ngabe ungumndeni, kodwa namanje unomuntu ohlukene ohlukene ngokwanele. Vula embuthanweni wakho osondelene kahle, bese ubeka oxhumana nabo nozakwethu.
Izinkinga eziningi, uma lo mbhangqwana usebenza ndawonye, kungaletha umkhuba wabantu ukuxoxa nabo ngokugqilazwa. Kuyinto engathandeki ukulalela inhlebo mayelana nomyeni wakhe ngezilimi ezimbi emsebenzini futhi ngisho noma ulwazi lungelona iqiniso, kungaba vseravno kube ukuhlolwa kwangempela kokuthembelana komunye nomunye.
Kodwa uma nje ungakwazi ukulalela inhlebo, khona-ke amaphutha omngane wakho womshado, ngisho nezincane, emsebenzini wokubambisana omncane kunzima kakhulu ukungayinaki. Futhi akuyona nje imizwelo engcolile. Izazi zengqondo zithi abantu bahlangabezana nokukhangwa ngokocansi kumlingani ophumelelayo, futhi ngokushesha nje uma igunya labo liwela emehlweni ethu, isifiso singase siphume. Ngaphandle kokuqonda, thina, lapho sisebenza endaweni eyodwa, siqala ukulandelela impumelelo nokunqotshwa kwesigamu sethu sesibili. Futhi uma oshade naye enomsebenzi wokunciphisa umsebenzi, kunganciphisa ukukhangisa kwakhe ngokobulili futhi kubangele ukungavumelani embusweni obuseduze phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abashadile abasebenza ensimini eyodwa yobuchwepheshe bangase bathatheke kakhulu, bafinyelele impumelelo bese kuba khona ukuncintisana okunomthelela phakathi kwabo, okuyinto engozini yokuhambisa impilo yobuchwepheshe emkhayeni owodwa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphila komndeni ngokuphambene nakho kungalimaza ubuchwepheshe. Uma usu-loggerheads nomlingani wakho, khona-ke emsebenzini uzofihla ukucasuka kwakho nentukuthelo kuyakuba nzima kakhulu. Akukhipha eceleni ukuthi uzoqhubeka nokucaciswa kokuzwana kobudlelwane emsebenzini noma okubi nakakhulu, uzocasula umngane. Izindlela ezincane ezinjalo ezingcolile azikwazi nje ukulimaza isimo sengqondo, kodwa ukwehlisa ukusebenza kahle.
Uma umyeni nomfazi bebambisana, bafaka ingozi "ekuletheleni umsebenzi", okungukuthi, beza ekhaya, baqhubeke becabanga futhi baxoxisane kuphela ngezinto ezisebenzayo.
Ukuze uvimbele umthelela onjalo womsebenzi emkhathini emndenini wakho, kufanele uhlukanise ngokucacile phakathi kokuphila kwekhaya nokuqeqeshwa. Lapho iminyango yehhovisi iseduze nawe, zama ukuxhuma "ochwepheshe" enhloko yakho bese umisa ukubuka indoda, obuyela kuyo njengomuntu osebenza naye ongakunikeli omunye umbiko kuwe. Khuluma naye ngezihloko ezingabonakali - isimo sezulu, ezombangazwe, ukufudumala kwembulunga yonke, uma nje kungathinti umsebenzi. Iya esitolo ndawonye bese uxoxisana ngezinhlelo zokujoyina kusihlwa. Futhi okungcono nakakhulu - okungenani ngezikhathi ezithile ukuya ekhaya. Vumela ube nesikhathi sakho sokuphumula nokuxhumana nabangani ngokwehlukana. Akukubi, uma phakathi kwamaholide okungenani izinsuku ezimbalwa uzobe usuqedile. Emva kwakho konke, emva kwekhefu elifushane ekukhulumisaneni, ukubuyela ekhaya ndawonye, le-double iyamnandi kakhulu.