Sonke sithandana futhi silahlekelwa amakhanda ethu - omunye umuntu esikhathini esiphila ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi kukhona izikhathi eziningana. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ungalahli ikhanda lakho ngesikhathi somshado. "Konke kuzoba kuhle, sithandana. Inkontileka yomshado ingenangqondo futhi ayihloniphi omunye nomunye "sonke sisho futhi sicabange kanjalo, besaba ukulimaza nokuhlambalaza ama-halves ethu. Ukuhamba kwesikhathi - uthando luyahamba, umuntu uphumula futhi ahlale emgodini ophukile. Ukwenza lokhu kwenzeke kancane kakhulu, namhlanje sizokhuluma "ngenkontileka yomshado nomshado".
Kulesi sihloko, sizobeka ukugcizelela ngokwengeziwe inkontileka yomshado, ukuthi singayiphetha kanjani nokuthi ngabe kufanele siphethe nhlobo. Namuhla ezweni lethu alithandwa kangaka isiphetho sezinkontileka zomshado, ngoba eRussia kuphela abantu abathambekele ekuthembeleni abantu abajwayele futhi abangajwayelekile.
Ngakho-ke, izigaba 40 no-42 zeKhowudi yoMndeni zichaza ukuthi inkontileka yomshado ingumqulu onomthetho omelela izintshisekelo zamaqembu amabili angena emshadweni noma echaza amalungelo empahla kanye nezibopho emshadweni nasemva kokuqedwa kwawo. Inkontileka yomshado ivimbela abashade ngezinkinga ezingadingekile ekuqedeni komshado. Inkontileka yomshado inquma ukuthi yikuphi okuzobe yindawo yomphakathi ngamunye lapho inyunyana ichitheka, isakaza amalungelo nezibopho zomuntu ngamunye, izindlela zokwabiwa kwemali kanye nezindleko. Ungangena noma yiziphi izimo esivumelwaneni ezihlobene nobuhlobo bomhlaba. Inkontileka yomshado inquma ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lomhlaba oluzosetshenziselwa emshadweni - okuhlanganyelwe, okwabiwe noma okuhlukile. Ubunikazi bohlangene - impahla ingena kubunikazi obuvamile, yilo mbuso osetshenziselwa, ngaphandle uma kuchazwe ngenye indlela. Yabelana nobunikazi - okungukuthi, amasheya wabashadile atholakala ekuqaleni. Kuphela ngaphansi kwalesi sibuso ngeke kwenzeke ukuthengisa, ukushintshanisa, ukubeka impahla ngaphandle kwemvume yenye inhlangano. Umbuso wendawo ehlukile ingasungulwa kubo bonke noma ngezinhlobo ezithile zempahla.
Amalungelo nezibopho ezichazwe kwinkontileka yomshado zingalinganiselwe ngemigomo noma izimo ezingase zithembeke ekutheni zikhona noma kungenzeki. Isibonelo, uma usesikhundleni futhi imali yakho engenayo iyancipha noma awunakukwazi ukuthola imali, unelungelo lokunikeza isigatshana lapho oshade naye ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ephoqelekile ukukugcina. Inkontileka yomshado ayiqedi amandla omthetho noma amandla abathandi, ilungelo lokufuna ukuvikelwa enkantolo. Futhi ayikwazi ukulawula ubuhlobo bomuntu phakathi kwakho, ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho nezingane, noma ngeke ukwazi ukubeka omunye wakho ezimweni ezimbi noma ezikhundleni.
Inkontileka yomshado ingenziwa ngaphambi komshado noma ngasiphi isikhathi ngemva komshado. Inkontileka yomshado iqala ukusebenza ngosuku lomshado, noma uma inkontileka iphetha emva komshado, khona-ke isikhathi sokuqala ukusebenza singumzuzu wokwazisa. Inkontileka iphethwe ngokubhala futhi kathathu, yiqembu ngalinye, futhi liphawulwe, ikhophi yesithathu ihlala ne-notary. Inkontileka ingaqedwa noma ichitshiyelwe ngesivumelwane esisodwa noma ngesinyathelo somunye wabo. Ukwenqaba ukwenza inkontileka yomshado yinye iqembu akuvumelekile. Ukusebenza kwenkontileka kuphela ngemva kokuqeda umshado, ngaphandle kwemibandela echazwe kwinkontileka yomshado esikhathini esilandelayo ngemuva kokuqedwa komshado.
Uma ufuna ukuphothula inkontileka yomshado, udinga ukufaka isicelo kunoma yimuphi ummeli wezomthetho, uzobonisana kuzo zonke izinkinga futhi uzonikezwa inkontileka yomshado evamile, imigomo ongayishintsha ngayo. "Themba, kodwa hlola" - kusho isaga, ngakho ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukulalela iseluleko esihlakaniphile.