Kudingekile ukuthi uthathe izinyathelo ezithile ezokusiza ukuba wenze inqubo yokufundisa, ngisho nokude, futhi nokugcina ubuhlobo obethembayo nengane yakho. Iseluleko sososayensi wezengqondo sizokusiza kulokhu.
Okokuqala, kudingeka ucabange ngokucophelela ngalokho okufanele ukwenze nengane ekungabikho kwakho uma ungenayo isikhathi esanele. Izingane, ikakhulukazi intsha, zilukhuni ukubekezelela isizungu kanye nokukhathazeka - sisondelene nenkampani embi, izinto ezimbi. Ehhala kusukela enkulisa noma esikoleni nokwenza umsebenzi wesikole, ingane ingavakashela ama-mugs noma izigaba zemidlalo. Unesikhathi sokuhamba naye lapho? Ngakho ake izihlobo zisize! Ugogo nomkhulu, omncanekazi, omalume noma izingane ezindala akufanele bashiye abazali babo ngaphandle kosizo olufika ngesikhathi. Uma usekhaya, kodwa imisebenzi yasekhaya ayikuniki ithuba lokudlala noma ukukhuluma nengane, kuyokwenza kahle ukucela usizo. Menze enze umsebenzi ongcono kakhulu - okubaluleke kakhulu, eduze kwakho. Akukho okuletha ndawonye njengebhizinisi elihlangene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kulula ukukhuluma emsebenzini.
Okwesibili, ungalimazi ingane. Abazali abaningi abazizwa benecala ngokunikeza isikhathi esincane izingane, baqala, "ukukhokha" ngezipho ezibizayo. Lokhu akuyona into eyingozi - ngisho eyingozi! Njengoba ejwayele kulezi zindaba, ingane izothola ukugcwaliseka kwazo zonke izifiso zakhe njengesibopho sakho esiqondile futhi ngeke sithathe kalula. Manje ake ucabange ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma kungazelelwe ungakwazi ukufeza enye into? Ngokwethembeka, izinga lezinhlekelele kunzima ukulihlola! Ekujuleni komphefumulo, wonke ingane uyaqonda: akuyona yonke into ayifunayo, idinga futhi iyasiza. Izidingo ezikhulayo - ukuhlolwa okungaqondakali kwabazali ngokuvumelana nokufundisa.
Okwesithathu, ungenzi izithembiso ezingenangqondo. "Namuhla angikwazi ukudlala i-hockey yetafula nawe, kodwa ngizokwenza nakanjani kusasa," ngokuvamile imishwana enjalo isuka ezilimini zazo. Kodwa kuza lapha kusasa futhi usephuzile emsebenzini, unesikhathi esincane sezingane, ngakho-ke, ngemva kokugijima ekhaya, uthola izinto eziningi eziphuthumayo, futhi ugijima ... Futhi ubusuku buza ngokuthula. Futhi umntwana walinda. Uma lesi simo siphinda izikhathi eziningana, ingane yakho ilahlekelwa ukholo hhayi kuphela kubazali, kodwa futhi eqinisweni nasebusweni.
Enye iphuzu: ungathinti ukubaluleka kakhulu emazwini omntwana onjengokuthi "Ngikuzonda." Izingane azisho lokho okuvame ukushiwo lawa magama. Bafuna nje ukuzisola ngesenzo esenziwe.
Ngaso sonke isikhathi thola isikhathi, inyamazane uma unento encane, nesibindi sokuphendula imibuzo enembile kakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi uma uzama ukugwema izingxoxo ezinjalo, ingane izothola ulwazi oluyidingayo, isibonelo, emgwaqweni noma kwi-intanethi. Akunzima ukuqagela ukuthi kungakanani umbono ohlanekeziwe wezinto eziningi ezibucayi ezingakha!
Ungacabangi ukuthi kungaba mnandi kakhulu ukuba ingane ihlale ingaphansi kokulawula kwakho ngokucophelela. Ufuna futhi ukuzimela. Gcizelela ukubaluleka kwamakhono ingane ayenayo mayelana nesidingo sokuba ekhaya yedwa - empeleni, ikhono lokusebenzisa i-microwave noma isitofu segesi kuhlale liwusizo.
Into esemqoka akuyona isikhathi esichithwa enganeni, kodwa indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo. Noma yimuphi umzuzu owengeziwe ndawonye, sebenzisa kahle. Masibe inkulumo yenhliziyo-inhliziyo noma umdlalo omfushane ohlangene, ubukele ifilimu ethakazelisayo noma uhambahamba esigcawini esiseduze. Ingabe usuku luvuliwe? Qalisa ukuhamba! Ngikholelwa, izinkumbulo zamazambane abhakabhaka noma i-shish kebab ephekwe futhi idliwe ngobuningi ngenkampani kanye nabazali bayohlala njalo enkumbulweni yengane, kanye nokubonga isikhathi esiningi esichithwa! Ngosuku lwebusika, uhlele ukuthungatha noma ukushushuluza, ukudlala i-snowballs noma ukudweba iqhwa leqhwa - futhi kuyasiza empilweni, futhi kuqinisa ubungane bomndeni!
Futhi, ekugcineni, ungazihlambalazi ngokuba ungakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nengane yakho. Mane nje azwe uthando lwakho, abonise inhlonipho ngemizwa yakhe kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. I-Caress, umusa, ubulungiswa, isimo sengqondo esinobuhlobo, ikhono lokulalela nokusekela ngesikhathi esibucayi kufanele sibe abangane bakho abathembekile endabeni yokukhulisa umuntu okhulayo.
Sithemba ukuthi uzothatha izeluleko zengqondo kwengqondo kubazali abanesikhathi esincane sezingane, kodwa abafuna ukuhlanganyela enkambweni yokufundisa ingane yabo.