Inkinga yokufunda embi ibhekene nabazali abaningi hhayi kuphela abafundi bebanga lokuqala no-2, kodwa ngisho nabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-10. Futhi ingabonakaliswa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene kakhulu: ngesivinini esiphansi sokufunda, ukudideka kwezinhlamvu nemisindo, ukungabi nentshisekelo ezincwadini. Kodwa ungasheshi ukusola ingane yakho ethandekayo ngobuvila kanye nokungahloniphi. Yonke into ingaba yingozi nakakhulu. Namuhla sizoqonda ukuthi yini okufanele yenze uma ingane ingafundi kahle.
Kungani ingane ifunda kabi?
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukulungisa izinkinga ngokufunda, udinga ukuqonda uhlobo lokubukeka kwazo. Izizathu zingaba eziningi, kodwa zonke zihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezimbili ezinkulu: ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Isigaba sokuqala sihlanganisa izinkinga zezempilo: amehlo angaboni, ukuzwa kwehlile, i-dyslexia (ubunzima bokufunda nokubhala ngenxa yezifo ze-neurophysiological). Izizathu ezingokwemvelo zihlanganisa izici zesakhiwo sezixhobo zokukhuluma, isimiso sezinzwa kanye nesimo sengqondo. Isibonelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima ukwandisa ijubane lokufunda ku-phlegmatic, lizoqhubeka lifunda kancane kunezontanga zakho ezizimele.
Isigaba sesibili sezizathu zengqondo singabandakanya: ukuphikisana, ukudlula, ukungabi nentshisekelo, ukwesaba, ukucindezeleka.
Kuthiwani uma ingane ingafundi kahle?
Okokuqala, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kungani kunezinkinga ngokufunda. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kungcono ukufuna usizo oluvela ochwepheshe: i-ophthalmologist, i-lor, isazi sezinzwa, isazi sezinkulumo, isazi sengqondo. Bazophendula umbuzo wokuthi ngabe kunezinto ezidingekayo zokufunda ukuze zifunde kahle.
Okwesibili, kubalulekile ukucabangela isici sokufa kanye nonyaka wengane. Uma wena noma isihlobo sakho esilandelayo sinenkinga yokufunda, kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho nayo idlule kuloluhlolo. Ungakhohlwa ngalokhu mqondo, njengenkathi ebucayi - isikhathi esiphelele ekuphileni ekuthuthukiseni ikhono elithile. Isibonelo, isikhathi esibucayi sokufunda siyiminyaka engu-5-8. Kule minyaka yobudala kanye nesilulumagama esebenzayo nokuvuthwa kwesistimu yezinzwa kakade kukuvumele ukuba ufunde kahle ama-alfabhethi nokufunda. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane ifunda kabi eminyakeni engu-3-4, lokhu akusona isizathu sokuzwakala i-alamu.
Okwesithathu, sinqume ngezindlela zokulungisa. Uma izinga lelwazi lakho lokufundisa livumela, khona-ke ungazama ukufunda amasu akhethekile ekuthuthukiseni ukufunda ekhaya. Uma kungenjalo, funa izikole zokuqeqeshwa nezokuthuthukiswa ezihileleke ekulungisweni okunjalo.
Ungasiza kanjani ingane uma engafundi kahle?
Okokuqala, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ukulawula okuqinile nobudlova ngeke kusize. Isikhulu esingafinyelelwa ukuqeqesha ijubane lokufunda, okuyinto empeleni akuyona inkomba yokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo. Kodwa ukudikibala ingane ekufundeni kanye nhlobo ngezindlela ezinjalo kungaba ngokushesha kakhulu.
Ikhalenda lakho eliyinhloko ekuthuthukiseni ukufunda, uma kunikezwa ukuthi akukho zinkinga zomzimba ezinganeni, yisisusa esifanele. Akekho owazi kangcono kunani okuzokusiza ukuthi ukhuthaze ingane yakho ukuthi ifunde: ithoyizi elinde isikhathi eside, uhambo oluya e-zoo noma ikhekhe eliyintandokazi. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ukugqugquzela kufanele kube okuhle: akukho ukujeziswa nokuncishwa kwencwadi engafundiwe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isibonelo somuntu siqu sibalulekile. Kubonakala ukuthi izingane, emindenini yabo abazali abazifundela njalo, zithola ubunzima obuncane ngokuqeqeshwa. Awu, ungakhohlwa ngokungazifuneli kwengane yemvelo. Zama ukungaqedi ukufunda inganekwane ethakazelisayo noma uthenge incwadi entsha nezinhlamvu zakho ozithandayo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ngokwayo izodonseka ekufundeni.