Wena "uphahla" ngamandla akho okugcina, futhi yini okwenzayo ngalesi sikhathi? Yebo, kusebenza, kwenza umsebenzi! Yiqiniso, kuphela inhlalakahle yomndeni wakho - eyakho nezingane. Futhi uhlala emihlanganweni yebhizinisi enezakhiwo okufanele zigcinwe ezindaweni zokudlela ezibizayo kakhulu, amaqembu e-saunas amaqembu, emvelo - ngesikhathi sokudoba noma ukuzingela hhayi njalo kuphela kubameleli bezilwane! Ngakho-ke isifiso salo wesifazane sinembile.
Izinzuzo zayo. Kodwa kungani ungashintshi izindawo, okungukuthi, uthethelele - ubulili? Okungenani isikhashana. Ngakho-ke, ngifuna ukuba ngumuntu, ukuthi ngizokwenza uma ngingazelelwe ngibe ... ngizokuthola ukuthi yini abafuna kithi besifazane. Ngenxa yokuthi ziyimfihlo, zingaphazamiseki futhi zibandayo, ngezinye izikhathi zikhumbuza i-Stirlitz ngemuva kwesitha. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi awuphikisanga ngokuphikelela ukuthi: "Othandekayo wami, kungani ususizi kakhulu namuhla (ujabule, ucabange, ujabule ...)? - ngenkathi ubheka ngobumnene futhi ngobumnene amehlo akhe, nokho ekuphenduleni impendulo uzozwa okuthile okungaqondakali. Ngingathanda, ngokushesha noma kamuva, ngibe ngumphathi omkhulu. Noma ngabe yini ongayisho, kulula ukuba umuntu athole umsebenzi othembisayo: angeke abuzwe engxoxweni: "Uzongikhulelwa nini ngesikhathi esizayo futhi uzobhekana kanjani nomsebenzi onomthwalo wemfanelo onomthwalo wemfanelo uma unomntwana omncane?". Futhi uphethe ingxoxo ngokunqaba ngokuhloniphekile: "Yiqiniso, ungumchwepheshe omuhle, kodwa uqonda ..." Ngakho isifiso sowesifazane akufanele sithathwe. Kungani ungaphuzi, okungenani! Ngingenza imali eningi. Akuyona imfihlo yokuthi amadoda athola abesifazane abaningi ezindaweni ezifanayo. Okuningi - lokhu akwanele?
Futhi konke ngoba abaqashi bethu abaningi banomqondo womhume. Ngakho-ke, nginenhlanhla, sengisengumengameli wangaphambili, wangiphendula ngesicelo sami esivumelanisiwe sokukhula kweholo: "Kungani udinga imali? Awunayo umyeni noma akakwazi ukukunikeza yini? "Wabe esikisela ukuba angithathe zonke izinkathazo zami nezinkinga zami.
Akuyona mahhala, yebo. Ngazama ukusho ukuthi mina ngokwami ngisebenza kabili, futhi ngcono kunabasebenzi abaningi besilisa, kodwa "ingqondo" yakhe yayingenakunyakaziswa. Kodwa uma ngingumuntu, wayezophakamisa umholo wami ngenxa yokuthi ngingumuntu. Futhi kudingeka ngilungiselele umndeni wami. Ngakho ngitshele ukuthi isifiso somfazi sokuba ngumuntu ubuwula.
Ukungcola kwamadoda. Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto ezingenalutho futhi ezinhle ezweni labesilisa. Amadoda awazi ukuphumula ngokomzwelo. Kumele bazizwe bebaholi bayo yonke indawo nasemsebenzini, emndenini, ngaphandle kwalokho, bacabanga ukuthi, impilo ihlulekile. Mhlawumbe yingakho baphila ngaphansi kwabesifazane. Ziyizikhulu ezinkulu, ngokuvamile zithola kunzima ukulungisa futhi zivumelane nezimo ezintsha zokuphila. Cishe njalo ekuseni kudingeka aphuce. Indoda ayikwazi ukuzwa ukuthi kuyisimangaliso ukukhuthazela nokubeletha ingane. Amadoda angase ahlupheke ngenxa yezifo ezihlukahlukene zocansi kanye nezindlela zabo zokuthi "zithandwa". Futhi, ngokusho kwezibalo, amadoda ayenabo ubuqhawe ekutholeni, abesifazane banokubaluleka ekuthuthukiseni lokho amadoda akutholile. Ngakho, madodana, ake, mhlawumbe, siphile ndawonye!