Lapho ungathola khona indoda ngomama emva kweminyaka engama-40 ubudala

Ngakho-ke, ake sicabange isimo - kuwe umngane othile, umngane wakho, umngane, umakhelwane, owazi umngane noma umakhelwane womakhelwane ubelokhu ekunakekela isikhathi eside futhi engaphumeleli. Futhi, ngenxa yesizathu esisodwa noma esinye, ukuthandana kwakhe kukucindezela. Mhlawumbe umlingani wakho uphatha lezi zimo ngaphandle kokuqonda.

Mhlawumbe wena ngokwakho ungacabangi lokhu kuvunyelwe. Noma unobuso obunamahloni, amasokisi ebhokisini eliphuzi kanye nomkhiqizo wombala ongalungile. Ungakhathazeki. Into eyinhloko ukuthi unqume ekugcineni ukuxazulula lesi simo bese umtshela uNombono onqumayo. Futhi lapha umbuzo uvela - ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani?

Kuphi ongathola umyeni? Le nkinga iyakhathaza hhayi kuphela amantombazane amancane, kodwa futhi namantombazane "yobudala obuhle". Ukuzijwayeza okhethiweyo wakhe bese ushada okokuqala eminyakeni yakhe encane kuyinto elula. Kodwa ukuthi bangabe besifazane asebekhulile, ngubani ongase ashada kakade, wakhulisa izingane futhi waba nabazukulu? Isifiso sokujabula asixhomeki eminyakeni yobudala. Futhi uma ufuna ukushada, kudingeka wenze okuthile. Vuka kusuka embhedeni wakho ogcwele kahle futhi uhambe lapho amadoda angomuso angatholakala khona. Akudingekile, ukuthi, ukufaka isibonakaliso esithi "Ngifuna ukushada" noma ukubeka imigomo "yokushada nombolo enjalo noma enjalo noma engxenyeni enjalo" - ukuthi uzokwesaba kuphela abaqeqeshi bakho, kodwa kufanele ulungele ukulindela injabulo. Lesi simo sengqondo sizokwenzela i-charm ekhethekile, i-flying gait ne-glitter emehlweni.

Zihlomile ngokugcwele, ngisho nalapho uwedwa ekhaya, ngisho nalapho ugijimela esitolo esiseduze sesinkwa. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ube ne-make-up, izithende kanye nezembatho zakho ezinhle kakhulu, kodwa abesifazane bangakwazi ukuhlala behle uma befuna, futhi akuxhomeki ekugqoka izingubo, ubucwebe noma izimonyo. Into esemqoka ukuhlala ulungiswe kahle, unambitha futhi ugqoke kahle futhi nethemba lenjabulo emphefumulweni. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokudlala ngothando okudala, ukudlala ngothando, kungenjalo ukuthi umuntu uzoqonda kanjani ukuthi awuhambisani nokuxhumana. Futhi ungaxhomeki eqinisweni lokuthi akanayo amadoda anele ezweni lakithi, angeke akwanele kubo bonke, bonke abantu abasha bayashadile. Akukhona okwanele kulabo abangafuni ukuthatha izinyathelo ekutholeni injabulo yabo.

Ngakho ungazama ukuhlangabezana nesiphetho sakho, isibonelo:

• endaweni yokudlela futhi mhlawumbe ntambama lapho umuntu ephuza ikhofi noma efunda iphephandaba.
• endizeni noma egumbini lesitimela, ngoba ukuhlala endaweni evaliwe kwenza kube lula ukuzijwayeza.
• e-gym, echibini - kukhona njalo indaba ejwayelekile yengxoxo, uma bobabili besendleleni yokufeza umzimba nomoya.
• ngezifundo zolimi lwangaphandle, ukushayela, ezinkampanini ngezintshisekelo - izinto ezithandwayo zokuzijabulisa noma imigomo zihlanganisa ndawonye.
• ezitolo zokuthenga - esikhathini sethu iziwula azijabulisi kunoma ubani.
• ezitolo ezikhethekile ngezidingo, lapho amadoda awazi kahle, isibonelo, ezitolo zekhompyutha noma ezitolo zeselula. Abamele ubulili obunamandla bayokujabulela ukuphendula imibuzo yakho.
• ezindaweni zokuvakasha ezokuvakashelwa, izindawo zokuhlala, izindlu zokuhlala nezindlu zokuphumula - lokhu ngokuvamile indawo enhle kunazo zonke kubantu ababaziyo.
• e-polyclinics - ukuhlala isikhathi eside emgqeni kubangela abantu ukuba bakhulume,
• emitapo yolwazi - ungakwazi nje ukuwela egumbini lokufunda, bheka ngezikhathi bese ukhuluma nomuntu ongaziwayo.
• ezincwadini zomsebenzi ngezikhathi ezithile futhi ngezinye izikhathi ziholela emshadweni.
• emgwaqweni - ngani, abazange bazame ukukhuluma nawe emgwaqweni?
• ezokuthutha zomphakathi - asikhohlwa leli hero A. Batalov kule filimu "UMoscow akakholelwa izinyembezi".
• ekugcineni, bheka ngokusebenzisa i-notebook yakho endala, mhlawumbe ozakwafunda nabo ekilasini noma ofunda naye ekilasini balindele ukuxhumana nawe, ukuqala, ukukhuluma nje, futhi lapho kuzobonakala.
• Buza abangani bakho mayelana nabangani abathintekayo noma amadoda ahlukanisile - ukuphola kunconywa yisikhathi. Ungathukutheli futhi ungayeki, uma kungenjalo ngenhlanhla, awuyena umuntu wokuqala okuzokuhlangabeza, nengxenye yakho.

Siphetha ngokuthi kunezinketho eziningi zokuthandana futhi akuzona zonke eziboniswa kulesi sihloko. Umbhangqwana ngamunye oshadile uyojabula, ngaphansi kweziphi izimo zothando nezingavamile abazijwayele.

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