Ukuziphatha lapho uhlangana nendoda

Sonke siyazi ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani uma othile ethanda wena. Uqinisa ngokuqinile efonini bese ukhala usuku lonke ukuthi kungani engabizi. Uma uhlangana, ubheka ngokuzinikela nangothando. Uyeka ukuphendula ngokwanele. Ngenxa yalokho, abantu bayesaba futhi bayanyamalala ...

Kodwa uhlangabezane kuphela, awunaso isikhathi sokubambisana kahle, ukukhuluma, inzalo ... futhi usevele usabisa! Ungathandi le simo? Futhi yini engingayenza? Bheka enye indlela, ihlale ikhona! Ngakho-ke, funda amathiphu alandelayo okudingeka uwacabangele futhi uqaphele uma ufuna ukujabulisa, ngakho-ke lo muntu akalahlekelwa yinzalo kuwe.

1. Ungazigabisi ngokunqoba okudlule futhi lapho umhlangano ungabonakali isithakazelo kwamanye amadoda. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma uhlangene, umlingani kufanele abe phakathi nendawo yakho.

2. Kodwa ungabonakali isithakazelo sakho kusukela kumzuzu wokuqala. Amadoda afana nokuxoshwa nokushushiswa, bawabambe kancane!

3. Ungabhali okuningi. Khona-ke kuyoba nzima ukukhumbula ukuthi uthini ekuqaleni.

4. Uma uqhathanisa umlingani omusha nesoka lakho langaphambili, awulungele ukuqhubeka.

5. Ungadubuli amehlo akho ezinhlangothini ngosuku lokuqala futhi uqiniseke ukuthi akabukeli ngama-blondes amahle (obomvu nama-brunettes).

6. Funda ukudlala ngothando. Cha, ungadubuli amehlo akho, kodwa uholele ingxoxo ethakazelisayo, ubheke amehlo akho futhi ugcine uxhumano lomzimba olungathandeki. Kodwa kufanele kwenziwe ngokwemvelo futhi ngokulinganisela, ngaphandle kwalokho umuntu uthatha isinqumo sokuthi phambi kwakhe - isilungiselelo socansi lwe-psychopathic.

7. Yeka ukudlala imidlalo yakhe. Uma uyayithanda, vele uhambe ubone: konke lokhu ukubukwa, ukububula kwe-languid akusebenzi namadoda avamile.

8. Yiba nempumelelo. Bonke omama bacabanga ukuthi sizoshada nabamabhizinisi abakhulu abaphumelelayo / izikhulu zegazi. Kodwa nakhu okufanele ukwenze uma ngimfushane, nje ngimnandi futhi ngisebenza emsebenzini onentshisekelo kodwa ongenangqondo? Ngokushesha lapho siba khona, impilo izoba ngcono.

9. Ungenzi amaphuzu nezinhlelo ezifinyelela phambili, kungenjalo kuyoba buhlungu futhi buhlungu. Umhlangano owodwa noma emibili awusho ukuthi unomshado obalulekile.

10. Kungcono ukubeka ifoni ephathekayo ngosuku lokudlidliza, futhi uma kukhona umshini wokuphendula, ungathathi ifoni.

Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ungakhohlwa ukuthi uzohlangana nomuntu ofanelekile, lapho uzoba owesifazane ofanele-oziqhenye, ozimele, ozimele futhi onethemba!


Umbhali: LiNea