Umfana oneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili kufanele akhethe ngokucophelela isipho. Ikakhulukazi, uma kungekho isikhathi esiningi esisele sokuzindla nokulungiselela, njengoba omunye angathanda. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukumane uthenge isipho somfana akuyona umsebenzi olula, kodwa ukukhetha isipho esihle kakhulu kuye umsebenzi obunzima kakhulu. Ngakho, ukuqala kuphi? Uma lokhu kungesiyo ingane yakho, okokuqala kufanele uxoxe nabazali bakhe. Xhumana nabo ngempela, ngoba bayazi izidingo nezintandokazi zezingane zabo kunabo bonke. Ngokwemvelo, bayazi ukuthi umfana uyaphupha ngani, lokho angathanda ukukwenza uma enethuba. Lolu khetho luphephile ngokuphelele, kodwa kuphela uma abazali bomntwana bengewona oligarchs. Ngomqondo wokuthi uma umndeni uhlala ekuchumeni futhi noma yikuphi okwenziwe ingane ngesikhathi sokuqala, isipho sizoba nzima kakhulu ukwenza. Kodwa-ke, okufanayo kusebenza emindenini enemali engenayo eyesabekayo futhi engathobekile ngosayizi. Kusemacaleni ambalwa "okweqile" okubalulekile ukuthi angenzi iphutha futhi angenzi umfana iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili esikhundleni sejaji entsha ebalulekile noma ibhayisikili ibhokisi elikhulu lama-chocolates noma enye into enhle kodwa engelusizo kakhulu.
Isipho esibhekiswe kumntwana kufanele sikhethwe ngokuvumelana nezithakazelo zakhe nokuzilibazisa. Phela, i-vosmiletka isivele iyakwazi ukuchaza ngokucacile lokho okuthakazelisayo kuye nokuthi yini engekho, okubangela ukuhlwithwa, futhi okushiya ngokuphelele ukunganaki. Ngakho-ke, uma abazali bengakwazi ukubiza isipho esikufisayo ngokucacile, khona-ke bababuze mayelana nezithakazelo zendoda encane. Lokhu kubalulekile ekukhetheni isipho. Uma ingane isifisa ukufanisa i-plasticin noma ubumba, cishe cishe kuyoba nesithakazelo kulokhu kusethelwe ubuciko, hhayi enye. Yiqiniso, kunokwenzeka ukuthi umfana uzojabula kakhulu ngomlando azokukhohlwa mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwangaphambilini. Kuyinto emnandi kakhulu ekukhetheni isipho kumfana oneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ngezikhathi ezithile.
Okuthandayo kanye nezibikezelo zengane kuphela ukucacisa ukuthi yisiphi isipho esizoba ngcono kuye. Othile othanda "abakwa-Lego" futhi bakhetha ukugcwalisa iqoqo labo, omunye umuntu unesithakazelo kunoma yimuphi umklami ngokujwayelekile, othile uthanda ukuqoqa amapuzzli namapuzzli. Izintshisekelo zishintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngaphambilini, abafana balesi sizukulwane baphupha ngezimoto ekulawuleni umsakazo, izindiza zezindiza, izidakamizwa zezemidlalo, futhi manje lokhu akukona okungajwayelekile.
Nokho, kwabanye, amasiko ahlala engashintshi, futhi ingane "ilele futhi ibone" indiza eqondisiwe noma imoto entsha. Kodwa kusobala ukuthi izingane zanamuhla zikhula ngokushesha, futhi zinesithakazelo ezintweni zanamuhla, ezifana nomakhalekhukhwini omusha, "ikhompyutha, amadiski nabadubuli abanzi," njll.
Kodwa kusekhona izinto ezithinta umfana oneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala. Kuyinto ibhayisikili noma ama-darts, nemikhumbi ehlukahlukene yomhlangano, zonke izinhlobo zamarobhothi, izinkinobho ezinjenge "isazi samakhemikhali encane", njll. Futhi, ingane eyodwa ifika ekujabuliseni okungenakuqhathaniswa lapho ibona ibhuloho elisha "langempela", kanti enye ithanda "abantu abadala" ubukele noma isikhwama "njengobaba." Ukuthola indlela eya kuzo zonke izingane akuyona umsebenzi olula. Kodwa akunakwenzeka!
Uma umndeni unomholo ophansi, kufanele udinga izikhathi eziyisikhombisa futhi uxoxe ngokuqondile ngesipho kumfana nabazali bakhe. Emva kwakho konke, uma kukhona ukuwa okujulile egcekeni, futhi akukho jacket ebusika yengane, umklami omusha akuyona isipho esibaluleke kakhulu. Mhlawumbe kulokhu kungaba ngcono ukuthi zonke izihambeli "zibophe" futhi zithenge isipho kumfana, into edingeka ngempela. Amathoyizi, eqinisweni, aletha injabulo enkulu, kodwa lokho kungukuphela komkhuhlane akusindisiwe.
Yini okufanele uyenze kulabo abanesimo esihlukile? Uma ingane ithola izipho ezibizayo njalo? Kulesi simo, akujabuli neze ukuthi ijaji elisha, kodwa i-scooter entsha noma iselula ngeke ibe mnandi kakhulu. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ingane kufanele imangale. Ungabonakali ngempela isimangaliso noma imilingo, kodwa umane ubonise lokho engakaze akubone ngaphambili. Hhayi, mhlawumbe, kuphela ku-TV. Hlela ukumangala okunjalo kumfana oneminyaka engu-8 yomsebenzi omuhle ngeke kube. Omunye wokuvuvukala ngokomzwelo okwenyukayo kuzothola okwanele futhi amabhokisi enomusa, futhi othile uzodinga okuthile ngokungazelelwe. Isibonelo, hlela ukuthi ahambe ngendiza ene-instructor. Lesi yisipho esihle kakhulu somfana, ozokhumbula ngakho ngokuphila.
Ngomgomo ofanayo ngeke kube nzima ukukhetha isipho kunoma imuphi umfana. Omunye angadluliselwa ukugibela amahhashi, enye - kudokotela we-dolphinarium, okwesithathu ukubhalela esigabeni sebhola, indaba yesine ukubukela "ama-movie," njll. Yebo, inhlangano yezokuzijabulisa okunjalo ayiyinto eshibhile, kuzodingeka ibangele abantu abengeziwe, kodwa umphumela kuwufanele.
Uma usuku lokuzalwa lomfana lusehlobo, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi uhlele ukuqaliswa kokuboniswa kwe-kite, uhambe ekamelweni ngamatende nomlilo, udlale izigebengu ngokufuna ingcebo yangempela ebalazweni, njll. Futhi uma umkhosi uwela ebusika, izinketho ezifana nalezi: kwi-skis, ukugibela e-ice rink noma ukwakhiwa kweqhwa leqhwa kanye nokugubha usuku lokuzalwa olulandelayo ngqo kulo.
Ukukhetha isipho somfana iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili akunzima nakancane. Ngikholelwa, sidinga kuphela ukukhuluma ngobuhlakani - futhi konke kuzovela. Uzoba lula futhi uzolile, futhi umntanakho-ujabule.