1. Fast
Emadodeni anjalo, ubusuku bukhulu, busebenza futhi buyesaba kakhulu. Izindebe zakhe zinde kakhulu, ulimi luhlala ezindebeni ngaphezu kokudingekile. Lo mlingani uthanda ngisho nokuluma, ngezinye izikhathi ukungahloniphi kwakhe kunomqondo wokuhlambalaza. Ngesifiso esifanele, uthando olunjalo lomkhuhlane lungase lujabulise kakhulu. Kodwa umehluko phakathi kwala madoda ukuthi unesithakazelo sokwesaba okungaphezu kwesimo sengqondo.
Okokuqala umuntu onjalo uzokujabulela ukunikeza umngane wakhe. Ubheka ibhizinisi lakhe ukujabulisa lo wesifazane ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi kufanele abeke kakade ithoni yobuhlobo futhi alahle yonke into. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubhekile kangakanani, imithetho iyohlale isungulwa nowesifazane. Ingabe ufuna ukujabula naye? Yiba kuye ngempela umngane omuhle, inkosikazi, "oda" ukuzijabulisa okuhlangene, okwakuthandwa nguye. Uyathandeka kakhulu ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ngakho-ke kufanele wamukele njengendlela evamile "eyeshashalazi eyodwa yomdlalo". Esimweni sokuqala, ngokuqinisekile uzoyilungiselela ubuhle obuhle. Izenzo zakhe zokuzilibazisa zivame ukuhlala isikhathi esifushane. I-sobutnitsa yakhe yesikhathi esizayo kudingeka sikhumbule lokhu lapho eqala ukukhuluma ngothando olungunaphakade. Kungcono ukuhlola imizwa yakhe ngesikhathi. Ungaba umbhangqwana ongcono uma ulinganisela, uqiniseka futhi uzobusa ngobumnene futhi ungenakuqonda. Uma unomhawu futhi ungazi ukuthi ungathethelela kanjani izibopho ohlangothini, khona-ke lo muntu akayenawe.
2. Ukuqiniseka
Uyabanga kanzima. Ukunyakaza kwawo kunesigqi, kodwa kunesizotha, ngaso sonke isikhathi senza ngamandla futhi sinqume ngokucophelela. Abesifazane abathile abanomqondo olinganiselwe bangaqhathanisa ukumanga kwakhe nge-spoon aluminium emlonyeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke umqondo onzima wokumanga ushiya umuntu onjalo.
Ngokuphila, ngokuqinisekile uyophephile, ungaqiniseka. Lokhu kuyathembeka kakhulu, okusho ukuthi, "umuntu wangempela". Kodwa ungalindeli kuye imibala emihle yemizwa, okunye okuhlangenwe nakho okuthandana nokuthandana. Uhlale engumdabuliko emibonweni yakhe. Akakwazi ngisho nokucatshangelwa ngalezi "ziphambeko" ezifana nobulili obufana, noma, isibonelo, imidlalo eyingozi. Ngeke aqonde futhi ngeke ayamukele.
Budytotovs empilweni elinganisiwe nebushelelekayo bomshado. Umuntu onjalo ekuphileni ufika ezintweni zonke ngokugcwele futhi uzophatha zonke izinkinga zansuku zonke. Yena ngokwakhe uzomemezela emshadweni, njengoba ekhetha ukucaca nokusemthethweni ebuhlotsheni. Wena ufanelane kahle nomunye nomunye, uma i-uvlas ibuye ibe nesipiliyoni semisindo yomndeni elula, futhi kusuka kumuntu owokuqala udinga ukwesekwa kokuziphatha nokuthula kwengqondo. Kodwa ubalekele uma ufuna i-waterfall yezinkanuko, imizwelo nokuzijabulisa.
3. Ubumnene
Ubamba umuntu onjalo ngokucophelela, cishe ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ulimi. Ukumanga kwakhe kumanzi, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuningi. Ngesikhathi sokumanga, izindebe zakhe zinjengokungathi zincane. Uyamamukela ngothando lo wesifazane, njengesikebhe esingajwayelekile. Ebudlelwaneni futhi ngaphandle kokumanga kunomusa futhi kunomzimba.
Uzoba ngumlingani othandekayo, othandekayo nomthandayo. Ngeke kube yi-volcano ekhanyayo, kodwa ulwandle olufudumele lobubele. Uzoyithola njalo emphefumulweni wakhe. With muzhchina olunjalo kudingeka uzame ukukhalipha nokucophelela, hhayi ukudlala nemizwa yakhe. Ngesinye isikhathi kudingeka ngisho nokuthatha isinyathelo kuqala, ukuwufaka kancane emadolweni ukuze wenze isinyathelo esinesibindi futhi uhambise ubudlelwane nezinga elisha. Ukuphila kwakho kuyoba yimpumelelo enkulu uma uhola futhi uyisekela kukho konke - ukwesekwa kubalulekile kunoma ubani omunye. Okuyinhloko kanye nobuhlobo ukuthi uzoyilandela yonke indawo nge-zaves, ethwala kokubili izinkimbandlela zakho. Uthando lwakhe luzokukhanyisa ebumnyameni. Kodwa masinyane umshiye uma uthanda ukubhekana nabamadoda-fighters abazethemba.
4. Ukuzwela
Ukubamba umuntu oqothileyo - indlela yokuzama ama-candies ngokuthanda okuhlukile. Uhlanganisa zonke izindlela ezintathu ezichazwe ngenhla zokumanga, ukuhamba kalula ukusuka kwesinye kuya kwesinye isimo. Uzama njalo ukuzivumelanisa nomlingani wakhe, okwenza kube lula ukuzibandakanya. Uzwa isifiso sowesifazane ngokunembile, ebamba isimo sakhe sengqondo nje umzuzwana nje.
Uma kukhona lolu hlobo lomuntu - unenhlanhla kakhulu! Yiqiniso, inhlanhla yakho ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside, mhlawumbe amahora ambalwa noma izinsuku ezimbalwa. Uthanda abantu abaningi futhi uyazi ngakho. Ngakho-ke, ukubambelela kuye kumele kube namandla. Mhlawumbe, lo muntu uzobusa ubuhlobo, kodwa ezintweni eziyinhloko uzobumbana ndawonye njengozakwethu ogcwele. Uthando nokuqonda yizimpawu eziyinhloko ebuhlotsheni bakho. Kodwa owesifazane wakhe kuzodingeka afane nokulindela okungalindelekile. Khumbula: ibha yakhe yokufuna iphakeme kakhulu. Uzoba ndawonye kalula futhi, uma ugcwele ukuveza nokuqiniseka. Kodwa ubalekele kuye uma ungenelisekile ngethemba lokuhlala ufakazela ukuthi ungowesifazane ongcono.