Usufunde incwadi yothando isikhathi eside emehlweni omunye nomunye, ehlaba umxhwele ngomzuzu ngamunye owenziwe ndawonye. Uqoqe zonke izinkumbulo zakho kancane, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa okuthile, ukulahlekelwa, ukukhohlwa. Ngakho ama-albhamu ahlotshiswe ngokucophelela ngezithombe, ephupha ukuwabonisa ezinganeni zabo kuleso sikhathi esiqhakazile futhi esiseduze. Wena wabamba izandla futhi awudingi amazwi amnandi - ukuzwelana ngokweqile kugeleza ngemithanjeni yakho, ukushayela nokudlulisa kusuka enhliziyweni eyodwa kuya kwenye. Kubonakala sengathi leli zwe lenzelwe wena kuphela, akukho lutho futhi akekho oyoliphula, ngeke aliphule. Ukhanya kakhulu ngokukhanya kwelanga, ngisho nangosuku oluvuthayo kakhulu lwekwindla, lapho imvelo ithululela imvula yayo izinyembezi ngaphandle kwefasitela, futhi izihlahla zazihlahlela amaqabunga. Uthole i-charter ekhethekile ngisho nakule mvula ephuzi: ngemuva kwakho konke, wakunikezwa umuzwa wenduduzo nokufudumala, lapho uhlanganiswe ngengubo yezinwele ezimbili, ubukele njengoba umswakama udonsa ingilazi emaphethini akhe emangalisayo. Ukwazi ukuhlala wedwa esixukwini, hhayi ukubona abadlula, ukungaboni izimoto, kodwa nje ukujabulela iqiniso lokuthi unomunye nomunye. Kodwa kwaduma ukuduma. Okuthile akuhambanga kahle - futhi umhlaba uphendukile. Yena, othandekayo futhi othandekayo, uyangxolisa okuthile endlebeni yakho, uhlabe ngokusheshisa futhi ngokushesha, esaba ukulahlekelwa yiwo wonke amagama adingekayo. Futhi wena, ujwayele ukuthi le nkumbulo ihlale ikutshele ngothando, awukwazi ukukholelwa izindlebe zakho futhi uqaphele ukuthi izwe lakho liye lalingenalutho lamabili. Futhi lapho umnyango ugoba ngemuva kwakhe, uzothuthulisa phansi udonga phansi phansi ebandayo, uphume ipakethe yegwayi, ukhanyise isandla sokuzamazama uzibuze: "Futhi ngithini? Ungaqala kanjani ukuhlala kabusha ngemva kokuhlukanisa nomfana engangikuthanda kakhulu kunokuphila? Yikuphi ukuphila kwami uqobo? " Ukugcoba izinyembezi, uzohlala isikhathi eside uthula, ulalele inhliziyo yakho, okuzobe ishaya njalo futhi ihamba kancane ...
Vumelana: isimo esibuhlungu kakhulu. Makungabikho izintambo ezinjalo, kodwa kwakukhona abanye, okungabalulekile. Futhi umbuzo owodwa othela emithanjeni: "Ungaqala kanjani ukuphila kabusha? Futhi kufanelekile ukuba siphile phambili? ". Kodwa kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi emva kokuhlukanisa, ngisho nokuphila komuntu othandekayo kakhulu akupheli, ake manje futhi kubonakale kungenjalo. Kumelwe uzihlanganise ndawonye, ususe izinyembezi bese ugijimela empini.
Ngempela, ukuthi yini isihogo asiyikuhleka, mhlawumbe unethuba elihle lokubuyela kulowo oshiye? Mhlawumbe ubuhlobo bakho buqhekekile, hhayi ngoba uthando ludlulile, hhayi ngoba wathola elinye. Mhlawumbe isizathu sisebuhlotsheni bakho, mhlawumbe ngisho nawe. Ngisho nothando oluqine kakhulu lunikezwa ukulingwa, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukusinda. Sidinga ukulungele lokhu. Futhi eminye imibhangqwana ayinakukwazi lokhu - ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kokuhlukanisa, abaza. Ngakho ucabange: kwakukhona yini konke okuzolile futhi kube mnene ebuhlotsheni bakho? Noma, mhlawumbe uke waba nezingxabano nezinkathazo ezibhubhisa i-crystal ethembekile yothando lwakho? Futhi, uma uzama ukulungisa konke futhi uthole ukuyekethisa, usakwazi ukubuyela emuva kwesigcawu esisodwa?
Ukusiza kulokhu kungakwenza, isibonelo, umsebenzi ozithandayo. Unayo i-hobby? Yisebenze eduze, uphumule, uthuthuke, ujabulele okwenzayo. Shintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi - akukho okukukhumbuza impilo yangaphambilini. Dlulisa umphefumulo wakho ngemibala engxoxweni, uhlobise usizi lwakho ngezintambo ezinemibala, udlale indaba yothando lwakho entweni yakho oyintandokazi - futhi inhliziyo izoqhubeka kancane ekuphileni futhi iyoguqulwa.
Uma konke okukuzungezile kukukhumbuza ngakho, zama ukushintsha isimo ngokufishane. Uma unabangane abakhulu kwelinye idolobha - elimangalisayo! Thola ukuthi bazokusiza yini inyanga nengxenye? Ngenkampani yalabo abakuwe kulula futhi kumnandi, uzophinde uphinde uhlobise ngayo yonke imibala bese uqala ukukhohlwa ngalokho okwenzeke esikhathini esedlule. Yiqiniso, lapho ubuyela ekhaya, izinkumbulo nokulangazelela kuzokuvuselela kuwe, kodwa lokhu kungenakugwemeka - kuyabangela umoya wakho. Mane nje niwaphulukise, nijabule ngakho konke okukuhle, futhi ningakhathazeki ngokubi. Kancane kancane, izinkumbulo zizoshiya ikhaya lakho - futhi ungakwazi ukuphefumula ngokukhululekile ezindongeni zakho zasendlini.
Uyazi lesi saga: "Umgogodla uphulwa ngaphandle"? Amagama afanele kakhulu, ikakhulukazi esimweni sethu. Zama udlame oluncane ngendoda enhle, hamba ku-cafe nomfana, mvumeleke kancane kancane. Into eyinhloko ukuthi akayidluli emizamweni yakhe futhi akubanga ukuthi ube nesifiso esinzima sokubalekela kulokhu kukhishwa. Kodwa-ke, indlela yokuziphatha yesoka esisha incike kakhulu ekutheni uziphatha kanjani nokuthi ungamvumela kangakanani. Ungacabangi ukuthi bonke abantu bangabakhohlisi, mhlawumbe kukhona umfana ofanelekile futhi othembekile phambi kwakho manje, ngakho smile smile futhi ujabulele lokho okuthandayo. Lokhu kuyadingeka nokuzihlonipha, okuyinto ewela phansi kakhulu ngemuva kokuhlukana okukhulu nomfana othandekayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, siqala ukucabanga: yini engalungile kithi futhi kungani ehamba? Futhi sithola amaphutha amaningi, siwabulala ngekhanda lethu elikhanyayo futhi sicabanga ukuthi ngalezi minuses ngeke sibe nenjabulo yomuntu ekuphileni. Futhi okuyize kakhulu - ukufakwa komuntu siqu okungaphumeleli kuyoba yileli phutha elingenakwenzeka.
Ukuqeda ukuhlukanisana nomuntu esikukhulekele nokuthanda okungaphezu kokuphila kwethu kunzima kakhulu, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi impilo yakho lapha ibeka iphuzu elikhulu lamafutha. Khumbula, kungumhlahlandlela ngaphambi kwesigatshana esisha esingaphansi, vumela ukuthi kwenzeke - futhi ngeke ubone noma yimaphi amaphuzu amakhombandlela wokuphila kwakho konke. Phela, ngubani owaziyo, ngokuzumayo, kusasa uzothola uthando lwangempela, oluzokuletha injabulo?