Ukwabelana ngocansi
Ephusheni, ungena ebuhlotsheni bobulili nabantu ababili ngesikhathi esisodwa, mhlawumbe kusho ukuthi empeleni awunawo "umoya" okwanele, uthonywa kakhulu ngabanye, uyanqabela kakhulu ezenzweni, uphoqelela ukunamathela kuhlelo oluthile futhi ungahambi ngaphezu kwalo , ukukhansela ngokuphelele izifiso zakho. Kunezindlela ezimbili ezivela kule nkinga. Okokuqala, zibuke futhi ucabange ngalokho okufunayo ngempela, bese uzama ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho, hhayi izihambi. Futhi, zizinakekele. Thola imizwelo emihle, uhlale umatasa ngalokho okudingayo ukuletha. Futhi lokhu kungaba yinto - kusukela ekuya enhle salon ukuhamba ngezinkuni emoyeni omusha.
Ubulili obungajwayelekile
Uma ephusheni ungena ebuhlotsheni obusondelene nomuntu ongajwayelekile, lokhu kungasho ukuthi ingqondo yakho engaphansi kwengqondo ihlanza, into ongayikusola ngisho nangempela. Cabanga ngakho, kungaba yini? Ungaphenduli ngempendulo, akudingeki ukuthi uxhumane nocansi, mhlawumbe kungenxa yemvelo yokuziphatha kwakho, ongathanda ukuguqula ngokungaqondakali, kodwa uma nje ungene ngemvume ku-subconscious yakho. Amaphupho alokhu okuqukethwe angatholakala kulabo abamele ubulili obuhle abazenzele umthwalo osindayo, bakholelwa ukuthi bancike kuphela kubo, futhi akekho ongakwazi ukuphazamisa, ngoba kungcono kunomunye umuntu ozokwenza. Futhi, kulokhu, leli phupho lithi sekuyisikhathi sokuma futhi ucabange ukuthi kufanelekile ukuzilayisha ngokwengeziwe, ungaba nabanye, futhi ukubaluleka kwakho ngeke kube khona.
Ubulili nommeleli wobulili bakho
Iphupho elinjalo akhulumi neze ukuthambekela kwakho noma kwesinye isondo ngokobuhlobo. Kungenzeka ukuthi impilo yakho ayitholi ukufudumala nokuthandwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani. Noma, mhlawumbe, konke kuhlelwe kakhulu empilweni yakho, konke kuhamba ngokuvumelana nalokho okuhleliwe, okungekho okungaphambuki ngaphansi kwezimo. Uma kunjalo, khona-ke leli phupho lithi kufanelekile ukucubungula imibono yakho bese wengeza inkululeko empilweni yakho.
Ubulili ngezingxenye ze-BDSM
Iphupho lapho ufaka khona ebuhlotsheni obusondelene nabo, ngesikhathi esifanayo inkosikazi enhle kakhulu, ehlonywe nazo zonke izinto ezithinta ezocansi emidlalweni esondelene nayo, ikhombisa ukuthi ungathunyelwa esigabeni sabantu abahlale beqaphela konke, ukuyala ngokuyinhloko, wena zama ukuzitholela ngokwakho, futhi ubeke abanye, konke kufanele kube ngaphansi kokulawulwa okuqinile, kodwa, mayelana nezenzo, lokhu akunjalo. Awukwazi ukuhumusha izifiso zakho zibe yiqiniso ngesizathu esithile. Khona-ke, la maphupho athi kufanelekile ukucabanga ukuthi udinga yini le nasamom isebenza ... ukulawula okuqinile, isiyalo. Mhlawumbe kubalulekile ukubuka umhlaba kusuka kolunye uhlangothi, ulethe ukukhanya ekuphileni.
Ubulili ngokumelene nentando
Uma kunesihluku ekuphusheni kwakho okukwenyukayo, isenzo somlingani ngokumelene nentando yakho, iphupho elinjalo lithi kungenalutho, umuntu uphula isikhala sakho siqu, akucindezele, avimbele yonke inkululeko yezenzo zakho. Lokhu kungahlobana kokubili ubuhlobo bakho bomuntu siqu, kanye nobuhlobo bakho emsebenzini. Zama ukukukhipha. Kukhona ukhetho lwesibili, impendulo igcinwe ngaphakathi kwakho. Mhlawumbe ucindezela ingxenye yakho. Kodwa manje cabanga, ngani? Ngempela, abantu abaphelele abakho, futhi ikhwalithi ongayithandi, akufanele icindezelwe, kufanele ithuthukiswe, futhi yenziwe kangcono.
Ubulili "emphakathini"
Ephusheni lakho lokuziphendulela, ingabe ungena ebuhlotsheni bobulili ngenkathi endaweni yomphakathi, futhi abantu babukela le nqubo? Umlingisi we-Snytakogo uvame ukuvulwa ngabantu. Nalapha, lapha akubhekiseli ebuhlotsheni bakho obuseduze, kodwa isimo sakho sengqondo ngokuphila ngokujwayelekile. Ukulala kusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuvalela ukufa nokugcina konke okukuwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwabelana nakho kwakho futhi ugweme ukuzungulelwa.