Kuyaziwa ukuthi uthando luyinkinga ebucayi. Sonke siyazi ukuthi kunjalo. Mayelana naye bhala izinkondlo, izincwadi. Ngenxa yothando, benza izenzo zokuhlambalaza, futhi esikhathini esidala, ngisho nezimpi zize ngenxa yalo. Ngakho-ke, luyini uthando ezweni lanamuhla? Enye yezinhlobo ezivame kakhulu uthando ngukude. Ungabonisa kanjani uthando kude?
Asisoze sabikezela ukuthi siphi isiphetho esizosihlela, nini futhi kuphi lapho singakwazi khona ukuhlangabezana nomngane wethu womshado. Kungaba njengomgwaqo, ezokuthutha, eholidini, njll. Lapha, isibonelo, icala elinjalo. Sonke siyazi ukuthi into enhle yiWeb Web Wide. Yebo kunezindawo zokuphola, amakamelo okuxoxa, amaforamu namabhulogi, ngokuvamile, eziningi izindawo lapho ungahlangana khona nomuntu ongaziwa kahle. Nguwe kuphela, yena nesigqoko esibukweni esikuhlukanisayo. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ngempela, ingozi inkulu, angathumela isithombe somngani, kodwa empeleni akazange ahlale eduze no-Alain Delon. Khona-ke kukhona inketho, into efana nengxoxo yewebhu, kodwa akuyona iqiniso lokuthi unenhlanhla. Ngakho-ke ungaba kanjani? Okokuqala, udinga ukuhlangabezana.
Okulandelayo, uzobona okubaluleke kakhulu komunye wenu. Kumele uqonde ukuthi uthando aluyona isibopho, ngakho-ke, umuntu kufanele aziphathe ngokuthula futhi isizathu kufanele sibe nesibindi. Ngemuva kwalokho, uzohlangana nomuntu ongajwayelekile ngokuphelele. Inombolo ye-Tip eyodwa - ngaphambi kokuya ukuhlangabezana nomuntu ongaziwayo, zizinakekele, thatha umngane (noma umngane). Ngempela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungahambisani naye isikhathi esingakanani, noma ungaxhumana naye, umhlangano ungumhlangano. Futhi akekho owaziyo ukuthi yini engqondweni yakhe. Isinyathelo esilandelayo isilungiselelo esikhulu, esukela eziqhumini, ekuqedeni nge-hairdo entsha kanye nezingubo. Ubani owaziyo, ingabe kungaba ngempela yini ikusasa lakho? Futhi ekugcineni, umhlangano. Lapha into esemqoka akufanele ilahleke futhi iphathe ngokwemvelo. Futhi uma konke okubi kakhulu sekuphelile, ungathembela emhlanganweni olandelayo.
Manje, into kuphela ehlukana nawe ibanga. Yebo, lokhu kuyiqiniso iphuzu elibi. Emva kwakho konke, kungaba khona izimo ezahlukene kanye nokucabangela. Kuphi inkolelo yokuthi ngeke kube khona ukukhwabaniswa nokunye okunjalo? Ngakho-ke, isimo kufanele sihlolwe ngokuqondile. Ukulungele ukuqhubeka ubuhlobo, kuze kube yilapho usuhlala ndawonye.
Kunesinye isimo. Konke kwaziwa ukuthi ihlobo akuyona nje isikhathi sokuphumula, kodwa futhi i-holiday romance. Futhi nangu wena, isibonelo, uhlangane nomfokazi. Ubunzima obubomvu, ama-swarthy macho, owakuphumelela ekuboneni kuqala. Kukho okusele ukuthembela kwizinto ezilula noma ezinye izinhlelo zekusasa. Lapha udinga ukuhlala unengqondo. Futhi iseluleko esisodwa, ujabulele ngalomzuzu. Ngemuva kwalokho, awukwazi, futhi kubanga kunzima kakhulu ukubona ukuthi umngane wakhe uzovela yini.
Hhayi, ekugcineni, ake sibhale umugqa futhi sinqume ukuthi yikuphi konke okufanayo nakubuhlobo obuseduze, ungayichaza kanjani nokuthi ubuzwe bakho buzobonakala kanjani?
1 st. Uma uhlangana kude, empeleni awukwazi ukukhathala, noma ukuxabana. Ngelinye igama, uzohlale unesithakazelo kulo muntu. Okunye okunye, kuyohlale kwamukelekile kuwe, ngoba ngenxa yemihlangano engavamile uzoba nesithukuthezi kakhulu.
I-2 nd. Nakhu noma kunjalo, kodwa imithetho yefilosofi ithatha eyabo - engaphezulu komuntu othandekayo, lapho efuna ukumbamba khona emhlanganweni. Ngakho-ke, i-doping enhle kakhulu uzosebenza njengomlilo wokushisa.
Yesithathu. Kunoma yikuphi, ubuhlobo obusha buyinto entsha kuwe nomlingani wakho. Futhi lokhu, eqinisweni, kubaluleke ngempela futhi kuyigugu.
4th. Enye, okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi ubudlelwane obunjalo buzokunika ithuba lokujwayela amazwe amasha, abantu, ukuya emadolobheni ahlukene. Ngelinye igama, ukuthuthukisa. Ngenxa yokuthi abantu bahlala emazweni ahlukene, ngezinye izikhathi imihlangano ibanjwa ngendlela elula, kokubili. Ngakho-ke, njengoba bethi, uthando lukude luvula ama-horizons amaningi futhi lukwazi wena ngamasiko ahlukene, amasiko namasiko kwamanye amazwe nabantu. Ngendlela, lokhu kungenye isizathu sokuhlola ukuthi wazi kanjani isiNgisi sakho.
5th. Azikho izingxabano zasekhaya, ukungavumelani, izingxabano kanye nokuphazamiseka kwesihloko esithi: "Kungani ungazange uchithe udoti?", "Awuzange yini ugeze amasokisi ami?" Nokunye okunjalo.
Futhi ekugcineni, ubudlelwane obunjalo buhlola ngempela abathandi, bebavumela ukuthi baqonde ukuthi bathandeka kangakanani komunye nomunye, futhi banikeze ithuba lokuhlangana nalabo esibathandayo ngempela. Ngakho-ke, uthando olunjalo - luvusa imizwa kuphela.