Bobabili izingane nabazali balinde lo mcimbi ngokulingana okulinganayo. "Siya esikoleni maduzane!" - omama nabazali, ugogo nogogo bayaziqhenya ngokusho. "Sengiya ekilasini lokuqala!" - ngentshiseko ukwazisa bonke emgqeni, eseduzane futhi engavunyelwanga, ingane yakho.
Ekugcineni kufika usuku lwe- "X" - okokuqala ngo-September. Umntanakho uhamba ngokuthokoza nangokuziqhenya phambi kwakho, ehudula ehlombe lakhe epakethe lakhe lokuqala, egijimini emkhawulweni wezinto zokuqala esikoleni. Insimbi yokuqala igcina. futhi lapha abakwa-first-graders bahlala phansi emaholidini ... mhlawumbe, ngalesi sikhathi nje baqala ukuqonda ukuthi kuyingozi kangakanani - isikole. Ngesinye isikhathi, ekude kakhulu nosuku oluphelele, ingane yethu yesikole enezinyembezi emehlweni akhe ithi "Angisayi esikoleni!". Ulahlekile, ingane i-sobs iphinde inqabe ukulungela esikoleni. Yisiphi isizathu?
Kungaba nezincazelo eziningi ngalokhu - ukwesaba ukushiywa yedwa, ngaphandle kokusekelwa kwabazali, ukuxhumana nobudlelwane nabalingani nabo ekilasini nabothisha. Kodwa isizathu esivamile kakhulu sokungafuni izingane ukuba zihambe esikoleni ukuthi zisezindaweni ezingajwayelekile, azikwazi ukuzivumelanisa nazo, zithole indawo yazo eqenjini elisha.
Ngakho-ke umphumela ovame ukwesaba kwabo ukuya esikoleni, izingane ziyenkani ngenkani ukuya khona. Lapha. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthola isizathu sangempela sokwenqaba. Kodwa, nakanjani, akufanele neze uvumele ingane ihlale ekhaya. Ngisho noma izizathu zokuthi kungani engafuni ukuya esikoleni zingokoqobo futhi zihlose. Ukwesaba kwakhe kuzomele kuqiniswe kuphela, futhi kungase kwengezwe ekulandeleni uhlelo, okuyinto engathandeki kakhulu.
Kufanele uqine futhi ukhuthaze ekufuneni kwakho ukubuyisela ingane yakho ekilasini esikoleni. Ingane, ikakhulukazi ingane, ayikho isisusa esingaba nesizathu sokuya esikoleni. Izingane ziya esikoleni, zilalele abazali bazo. Ngakho-ke, uma kungenandaba nokuya esikoleni, abazali kufanele bachaze isidingo sokuvakashelwa kwakhe. Ingane yezingane zasenkulisa kufanele ichaze ukuthi uzokwazi ukufunda izinto eziningi ezintsha nezithakazelisayo. Izingane ezindala zingachazwa ukuthi ngaphandle kwemfundo, indlela yokuya esikhathini esizayo izovalwa kubo, noma ibhekisele emthethweni, ngokusho ukuthi yiziphi izingane ezidingekayo ukuthola okungenani imfundo eyisisekelo.
Yiqiniso, abazali kufanele bavakashele esikoleni lapho ingane yabo ifunda khona. Emandleni wabazali ukukhuthaza ingane ngesihawu ngothisha. Ungamtshela kahle ukuthi wena uqobo uzwela kakhulu umqeqeshi wakhe. Izingane zivame ukunciphisa imizwa emihle. Uma beqiniseka endaweni yothisha, kuzobasiza ukuba banqobe umkhawulo ovela ekukhulumeni kwabo nomuntu omusha.
Ngenkathi ingane yakho encane, ungamshiyi esikoleni, uqhubekele ekilasini, ake ehlangane nothisha. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukusabela okungalungile esikoleni kuzokwehlisa. Qiniseka ukuthi ubuze uthisha ukuthi uziphathe kanjani ngemuva kokuhamba. Uma izinyembezi zakhe ziphela ngemuva kokuba ushonele emkhakheni wombono, ungayeka ukukhathazeka - ukulungiswa kwezimo kuphumelele.
Kodwa futhi kwenzeka ukuthi izingane zenqaba ukuya esikoleni, ezizimisele ukuya khona iminyaka eminingana. Kule nkinga, ingxoxo enhliziyweni kuya ekungenakwenzeka. Udinga ukuthola ukuthi yini ehlupha ingane. Lapha, ingxoxo nomfundisi ngeke iphazamise. Uthisha olalelisayo nakanjani uzobona into engalungile futhi uzokwabelana nawe imicabango yakhe ngesizathu sokungathandi komntwana wakho ukuya esikoleni. Kukhona noma yini oyithandayo-kokubili intuthuko empofu ezifundweni, nokuphikisana phakathi kwabafundi, nothando lokuqala . Kunezinhlobo ezingenakubalwa. Okubaluleke kakhulu yindawo yokuhlala. Izinkinga zomndeni, isahlukaniso sabazali, ukufa komuntu oseduze - konke lokho kuthinta amakhono nesifiso somntwana ukufunda. Qinisekisa ukuthi umtshela iqiniso lonke - amanga angangcwina nje isimo. Chaza ukuthi izindaba zomndeni ziyinto eyodwa, futhi ukutadisha kuyinto ehlukile, ukuthi uzobhekana nokubhekana nobunzima, futhi into engcono kakhulu engayenza ngesikhathi esiyinkimbinkimbi yomndeni ukukukhulula ukukhathazeka ngokusebenza kwakhe kwezemfundo.
Kodwa-ke, abazali kufanele bazi ukuthi indlela ingane yakho efunda ngayo injabulo futhi ayijabuli kanjani kuphela ekuhlakanipheni kwakhe. Isimo sengqondo sabazali kumfundisi wakhe sinquma kakhulu impumelelo yesikole yengane. Phela, lo muntu unokuningi okumele akufunde kuye, isimo sengane esikoleni, isifiso sakhe sokufunda, sincike kuye.
Ungalokothi, futhi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, vumela ukuba unganakwa mayelana nomeluleki wengane yakho. Zama ukusungula ubuhlobo obufudumele nabothisha, funa ukuqonda okufanayo nabo. Ekugcineni, bafuna into efanayo nawe - ukuze ingane yakho ibe umuntu ofunde kahle. Bonisa ukuqonda ngokuphathelene nabafundisi bengane yakho. uyazi ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuhleleka nokuqondisa, ngisho nokubhekana nezingane ezimbili, futhi ekilasini azikho ezimbili, futhi hhayi ezine, kodwa okuningi.
Ingane izoba lula ukugxeka emlonyeni wothisha, uma eyazi ukuthi uyamhlonipha futhi uyasabela kahle kuye. Izingane zihlale ziqaphelisisa ukugxeka kumuntu abathandayo, bese uzama ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Othisha nabo bangabantu. Bazoqonda ukugxeka kwabazali ngokuqonda okukhulu uma bebona ukuthi baphathwa ngobungane futhi ngaphandle kokubandlulula. Zama ukuphatha izindaba zezingane zakho ngokulandelana - zivame ukumnyamaza "othisha ongalungile" futhi zizimhlophe ngokwabo - "isisulu esingenacala." Zama ukuqonda nokuthola iqiniso. Njengomthetho, kunendawo ethile phakathi. Yiba nobungane, uvumelanise, zama ukungenzi izimangalo ngendlela evuthayo, kungcono ukumboza imizwa yakho, ukuveza izidingo ngendlela yezifiso kanye nezicelo. Ngokuvamile udumise uthisha, umbonge ngemfundiso emangalisayo. uthi ingane yakho ijabule ngezindlela zokuveza indaba - konke lokho kuzomenza kube mnandi futhi kumenze abe nomoya omuhle kuwe nomntanakho. futhi eqinisweni, ngenxa yokuthi abantu abanjalo abanomusa, ingane ayikwazi ukusizwa, akunjalo? Ngesimo sengqondo esihle, uthisha uzohamba ukukuhlangabeza.