Izinguquko zanamuhla zokuzijwayeza ngokweqile

Kanjani, kuphi futhi ungahlangana nobani - kunezinketho eziningi. Ezweni lanamuhla, kukhona ukuthambekela nokukhula kwenani lezinhlobo ezingavamile zokuhlangana okuphawulekayo. Ukuthandana ngokweqile kwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi, kukhona nje okukhona okucacile okushiwo yisikhathi, okushiya impendulo yakho kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu, kulokhu, ngokuthandana.

Kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukuthi ukuphelela, njengalokhu, kungumqondo ohlobene.

Ukuhlaziya ukuhlukahluka kwamanje kokuzijwayele kakhulu, kubalulekile ukwenza isichibiyelo lokuthi uma abantu abathile bekhuluma nomfokazi ekuthuthweni kuyinto evamile, abanye abanye sebevele beqile, bezingela, beba adrenaline.

Ukuthandana kwanamuhla kungenzeka kunoma iyiphi indlela yokuthutha: emadolobheni, ezitimeleni ezikude futhi ezingalandeli kakhulu, ezindizeni. Futhi bangaki ababili ababuthana eziteshini, ezikhungweni zezindiza, ngesikhathi sokulindela okubuhlungu kwendiza yabo.

Indawo enhle kakhulu yokujwayela i-rink yokudoba. Uma ukhumbula ukuthandwa kwamanje nokuphindaphindiwe kwemidlalo enjalo njengokubheka i-skating, ungathumela abafazi abasha abancane futhi banamahloni ukuthi bathenge izikwele bese befuna izakhiwo zezemidlalo ezihloniphekile. Ukukwazi nabo kuqinisekisiwe.

Izindlela zokuthandana zanamuhla zokuphola ngokweqile zingacatshangwa ukuthi zithandana, okwenzekile emigwaqeni yezimoto. Kuzo, abantu bachitha isikhathi esiningi. Omunye uyethusa futhi engasebenzi, othile uhlanganyela kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi elingenziwa ezimweni ezinzima kangaka. Awu, omunye umuntu akalahlekile, futhi wenza othintana nabo.

Futhi manje mayelana "Oxhumana nabo". Okuthandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabantu bethu kungokuxhumana nomphakathi. Bakha abaningi kakhulu kwi-Intanethi. Abantu baqinisekisa ukugcwaliswa kahle kwamasayithi ngobukhulu bawo, ukubhalisa ngesikhathi esisodwa kumanethiwekhi amanengi anjalo. Lapha kunemishayo yabo, futhi, ngaphezu kokuzijwayela okulula noma ukudlala ngothando ku-intanethi kungase kuphele, kwaziwa ngisho nasomfundi wesikole. Ngakho-ke, ngeke sihlanganise ngokuningiliziwe lesi sihloko esishayisiwe, sizokhipha nje kuphela njengenye yezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuzijwayeza okwedlulele.

Ungase futhi uzame inhlanhla yakho ukuze wenze abangane abalungile, abantu abafana nomqondo, noma ukuhlangabezana nothando, emibonisweni ehlukahlukene, kumamyuziyamu, emakhonsathini, ezinkulumweni, ngamafuphi, ezindaweni lapho izakhamizi zinokuzilibazisa kwamasiko. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lezi kwakuyizindawo "eziphezulu" zabangane, kodwa esikhathini samanje, isihloko esiqondile salezi zenzakalo, ngokuhambisana nezidingo zanamuhla, sinikeza ukuthinta okwedlulele kakhulu.

Ngokuqhubekayo ohlwini, kukhona abantu ababaziyo abangaba khona kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo, ezithandwa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi phakathi kokuthiwa "i-office plankton". Noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukucabanga ukuthi ubani oya kulezi zifundo - ikakhulukazi ngabanye, ngezinye noma ezinye izinkinga. Konke kuncike kumuntu, ngokuzimisela kwakhe ukungena ebuhlotsheni obuseduze nabantu abanomthwalo wezinkinga zengqondo. Lokhu mhlawumbe ungenye yezinhlobo ezidlulele kakhulu zokuthandana.

Okuhluke kakhulu endabeni yengxoxo yethu yizinhlobo ezahlukene zezifundo zokuqeqesha. Ungafunda noma yiliphi inombolo nenombolo, into esemqoka ukukhetha isihloko esifanele sokutadisha, ngokuvumelana namathuba, izithakazelo nalabo ofuna ukujwayelana nabo.

Ungabuye ucabange ngale ndlela ongakhetha ngayo yokuphola ngokweqile, njengoba uhambo lwezitolo lugxila ekuhloleni kwamadoda. Iqiniso kubo ngokuvamile uvame ukuhlangabezana namadoda omndeni ahloniphekile futhi, enobungozi kakhulu, hhayi ahloniphekile. Kodwa kukhona ama-bachelors anele, into esemqoka akumele ibuke.

Omunye wanconywa ukuba azijwayele kumasayithi, ezinja ezihambayo. Lapha awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nesiphetho esizayo kuphela kubantu abanomqondo ofanayo, kodwa futhi ukwakha kalula, inzuzo (ngaphakathi kohlelo lwe-canine injabulo) ukuxhumana nomphakathi.

Imithombo yezindaba enkulu nayo ifaka isandla ekwakhiweni kobudlelwane bomphakathi. Yiziphi izinkambo ezibucayi ezikhangiswa ngokuzikhandla kwabesifazane. I-Cruises, i-Afrika, i-safari ... Yathembisa ulwandle olusha, okuvezwa ngaphambili, okungabonakali, nokuzwela futhi, okuyiqiniso, ukuthandana: kungaba ngabantu bakithi, abahambahamba-abavakasha abafanayo, kahle, abanye bangayinaki nombala wendawo.

Zonke izinketho ezingenhla zokuphola ngokweqile ngeke ziphelele ngaphandle kokungeza okunjalo njengokuphola okwenamuhla ngenkathi kudlala imidlalo engathí sina. Lolu hlobo lokuzilibazisa luye lwazuza kakhulu, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwamabhizinisi. Lokhu kuchazwa ukuthi abantu abanomdlandla wokukhukhumeza nokuhlukunyezwa, ngosizo lwezemidlalo, baqondisa ukuhlukumezeka kwabo emgwaqweni onokuthula. Ukuba nesomabhizinisi omuhle kuyinto iphupho eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka iningi labantu besifazane. Ngakho-ke, amantombazane abathandekayo, imigqa emincane ayidonsela ezindizeni zezindiza ukuze afunde indlela yokuhlehla kahle ngeparachute esandleni esihle sokuhweba osomabhizinisi. Abaningi bayakuthanda ukudubula, i-paintball, i-snowboarding, ukudilika nokuningi. Uhlu lungaba lude kakhulu futhi lucebile, inzuzo yesimanjemanje idale amafomu amaningi nezinhlobo zokuzijabulisa okusebenzayo.

Akuyona imfihlo esiphila kuzo ezimweni zokucindezeleka okuqhubekayo. Lokhu kungenziwa kuwe uma ukhumbula ukuthi ukucindezeleka kuvuselela izinsizakalo ezifihlekile zabantu. Ngakho-ke, imvelo ngokwayo ivulela amathuba amaningi, kubalulekile ukuthi sifunde ukuwasebenzisa ngendlela efanele.

Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi izinketho zanamuhla zokuphola ukuphola ngokweqile zingacatshangwa noma yikuphi ukuphola, ngoba siphila esikhathini esithakazelisayo kakhulu futhi esikude kakhulu, okuyinto ngokuqinisekile icindezela indlela yonke yokuphila. Kudingekile ukukhombisa ukuhlakanipha, ukubheka, nokubona, futhi noma yikuphi indawo, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, kungaba yinto ejabulisayo, kuletha injabulo yokuzijwayeza nokuxhumana nabantu abahlukene.