Izinsuku ezibaliwe zishiywa kuze kube yilapho ingane yakho ihlezi phansi idesksi lakhe lesikoleni sokuqala. Ukuziqhenya, ilukuluku, injabulo yokufunda okusha - imizwa ebalulekile yobuntwana. Awukwazi kanjani ukuguqulwa ubunzima obungalindelekile? Indlela yokuziphatha kwabazali? Othisha nabahlengikazi banikeza izincomo ezisebenzayo.
Gwema ukucindezela, ungadluli umthwalo wokuqeqesha. Ngokuvamile abazali bavame ukubeka ithempeli eliphakeme kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zesikole: ukulungiselela ngokucophelela izifundo, amakilasi engeziwe kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwemibuthano yonke imini. Ngisho noma umlingisi wakho wokuqala ehamba phambili futhi enamandla, uzodinga isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo ezingavamile. Futhi uma umntwana enesifiso sokwenza izinzwa nokukhathala, kodwa akukho okuhlangenwe nakho kokuba enkulisa - ukwandisa ngesibindi isikhathi sokulinganisa ngesigamu. Ezinyangeni zokuqala, yakha uhlelo lokunciphisa ingane, kancane kancane ukwandisa amahora amakilasi.
Hlela izinto ezibalulekile kuqala. Yiqiniso, ukutadisha kubalulekile. Kodwa ungenzi ube yindlela ebalulekile yokuphila komntwana, ukulinganisa konke okunye. "Okudingayo ukuthi ufunde kahle" yisimo esingalungile. Lungiselela ingane kusengaphambili ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba azame - kodwa uthando lwakho ngaye aluguquki futhi aluxhomekile empumelelweni. Futhi ulungele ukuqinisekisa amagama akho: uthando, ukumomotheka noma amagama akhuthazayo.
Ungalokothi uqonde izinga lokuthi "umuntu omdala" wengane. Izolo wayenamathela ebhokisini le-sandbox, futhi manje uzama ngunifomu yesikole - kodwa, noma kunjalo, usalokhu esemncane. Ungadingi kakhulu kuye ngaso leso sikhathi, ungasisusi njalo, ungesabi ngomthwalo wemfanelo - khuluma kaningi, uchaze, uhlabelele ngakho konke okukumkhathazayo.