Wonke umntwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka engakanani, uzwa isidingo sangokwemvelo sokuphepha ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Umndeni kufanele udale izimo zokuziphatha okuphephile kwengane. Emndenini omkhulu, ngokuvamile izimo ezinjalo azidalwanga futhi ukukhuliswa kwezingane kubonakala ngezinga eliphansi kakhulu.
Imfundo emndenini omkhulu
Eminye imindeni emikhulu inganaki izingane, ezichitha isikhathi esingaphandle kwendlu. Ngenxa yalokho, kunezinkinga ekuqondisaneni phakathi kwabantu abadala kanye nezingane zabo.
Kweminye imindeni emikhulu, izinkinga ezingokwengqondo zivela ekukhuliseni izingane. Kukhona ukuntuleka kokuxhumana, abadala ababonisi ukukhathazeka ngomncinyane, akukho ukuhloniphana nokuhloniphana komuntu komunye nomunye.
Ukuzivocavoca kubonisa ukuthi iningi labazali abanabantwana abahlanu noma ngaphezulu abanolwazi olwanele futhi abangafundile ezindabeni zokukhuliswa kwabantwana.
Izinkinga zezingane ezivela emindenini emikhulu yukuthi zikhula kakhulu zigcinwe futhi zingalondekile, zibe nokuzethemba okungenakuqhathaniswa. Izingane ezindala zishiya abazali bazo futhi ezimweni eziningi azixhumani nabo.
Ukungahloniphi nokunganakwa kwabazali
Lezi zimfanelo ezivela kubazali abavela emindeni emikhulu ziholela eqinisweni lokuthi izingane, ngokuvamile ezilahliwe ngenxa yesihe, zihlala zingalindelekile, zihambe zodwa emgwaqweni (abazali abalawuli ukuphathwa kwenkampani lapho ingane ikhona khona). Ngenxa yesimo sengqondo sokunganaki kwabazali ezimweni ezinjalo, kunezinkinga ekuziphatheni kwezingane, ezingalandelwa ukulimala, izimo ezingalindelekile, ukungahambisani nokuphuza noma ukuphuza utshwala.
Izingane ezivela emindenini emikhulu kwezinye izimo ziyesaba abazali bazo, zifuna ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwekhaya (zibalekele ekhaya, ziwele emaqenjini lapho izingane ezingaphumeleli zibutha kanye nezimo ezihlukahlukene zokuziphatha). Kodwa abantu abadala kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi izingane kanye nomgwaqo kukhona imiqondo engavumelani. Abazali banesibopho sezingane zabo, njalo futhi yonke indawo. Endabeni yokuhlela nokwakha umndeni, ukukhulisa ingane eyodwa noma ezimbili, kodwa izingane eziningi, kufanele ziphathwe ngokungathí sina ngendlela elinganiselayo.
Imiphumela yengane yokukhathalela ukunakwa
Emindenini eminingi emikhulu enemindeni engasebenzi, izingane zikhula zisencane ngaphandle kokunakekelwa nokunakekelwa okudingekayo. Izidingo zezingane zihlangene kancane. Ngokuvamile izingane zishiywa zingalindelwe futhi zingadliwa, noma yisiphi isifo siyatholakala futhi siphathwe ngokulibaziseka. Ngakho izinkinga zezingane ezinezempilo empilweni yamuva.
Izingane ezinjalo ezinjengemindeni zizwa ukungabi nokufudumala komzwelo nokunakwa. Ukubeletha kwenzeka ngesimo sokujeziswa futhi ezimweni eziningi ukusetshenziswa komuntu omdala kusetshenziselwa ukuhlukumezeka nenzondo kumntwana. Umntwana uzizwa engathandwa, obuthakathaka futhi omubi. Le mizwa ayishiyi isikhathi eside. Ingane engalondekile, evame ukucasuka, ikhula ibe umuntu onobudlova futhi ophikisanayo.
Ngokuvamile kukhona imindeni emikhulu, lapho omunye wabazali noma kokubili ukuphuza utshwala. Izingane ezikhulela esimweni esinjalo zivame ukuhlukumezeka ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo noma zibe yizibonelo zezimo ezinjalo. Bathukuthela kalula futhi bacasule abanye, abakwazi ukuzwelana nosizi lomuntu kanye nenkinga.
Ukuze ugweme izinkinga ekukhulisweni kwezingane, abazali akufanele bakhe ubuhlobo babo nengane kusuka esimweni samandla - kubhubhisa ukwethembeka kwabantu abadala futhi akukhuthazi ubudlelwano obuzinzile emndenini.
Ukuze ugweme izinkinga ezinganeni ezivela emindenini emikhulu, abazali kufanele babonise inhlonipho, ukubekezela kwemizwa yezingane nezenzo zabo, bachithe isikhathi sabo esikhululekile nabantwana nemindeni. Umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali ukufundisa izingane nokudala ubuhlobo bomndeni ngendlela yokuqinisekisa ukuthuthukiswa okuphelele komuntu ngamunye. Lena yindlela eya ekuzinzeni kwengane nokuzinza komndeni.
Inkinga yengane, eyakhulela emndenini omkhulu, ayiyona inkinga kuphela emndenini, kodwa emphakathini wonke.
Izinkinga zezingane ezivela emndenini omkhulu namuhla kufanele zixazululwe ezingeni lomndeni, isikole, umbuso.