Leli akulona igama lesayense elungile: lilula futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo lichaza ngokunembile ukucaca kwengane engasebenzi noma ephuzile kakhulu. Lezi zimfanelo zigqamile kakhulu ezineminyaka engama-3 kuya kwengu-7, ezikoleni zasenkulisa. Ngeshwa, ayikho indlela yokufundisa izingane ezinjalo, noma imithetho ehlukene yokuziphatha nabo. Kodwa ngeze. Abazali nabafundisi kufanele babhekane nabo njengoba bechazwe ngokwabo nesimo sabo. Ngakho-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, "ukugubha" kuyaba yinto evamile, ukuthi uyisiqhwaga, futhi "ukuhamba", ukuthi uhlale egcina. Ngakho-ke bakhula, behlakulela ngokwabo ubunzima obuphansi, kanti ukuzithoba kwabo ekuziphatheni okunjalo akunjalo. Lokhu kungokwemvelo kokuziphatha kwabo kanye nomlingiswa, futhi kuphela ukugcina - imfundo. Kuzoba usizo ukucubungula ngayinye yalezi zinhlobo zezinhlamvu zabantwana ngokuningiliziwe.
Okokuqala udinga ukubhekana "namantombazane amancane" (lawa angabantwana abangasebenzi). Kuzo zonke akulula, ikakhulukazi kubazali: izingane ezinjalo azihlali phansi okwesibili, akunakwenzeka ukuzigcina okuthile, kunzima ukulungisa ngesikhathi nesikhala. Uma ngibheka ingane enjalo, ngifuna ukukuqhathanisa ne-mercury ehambayo, lapho iwa khona, ihamba futhi iphule izinto ngokwazo. Izizathu zalokhu kuziphatha zingaba izici eziningana: kusuka ekucindezelekeni okulula nokuphela kokulimala komqondo.
Abazali kudingeka baqonde into esemqoka: akulula nje kuphela, kunzima ingane ukuba ibhekane nokucindezeleka kwayo kuphela. Izazi zengqondo ezibhekana nenkinga yezingane ezingasebenzi, zakha uhlelo lonke lwezeluleko ezingokoqobo kubazali baka "Shustriki." Nazi okuyinhloko:
1. Yiba njalo futhi njalo;
2. Zama uhlale ukhuluma ngokuthula futhi kancane;
3. Ungesabi ukwethuka noma intukuthelo yakho. Konke lokhu kuvamile, uma kuhlolwe kahle. Uma uqala ukuthukuthela kakhulu, akusho ukuthi ulahlekelwe uthando lwakho ngomntwana wakho ongenalutho. Kudingeka nje ufunde ukuhlukanisa indlela yokuziphatha kwakhe, okukucasula, kusukela ebuntwini bakhe. Tshela ingane: "Ngiyakuthanda. Angikuthandi uma uphula amathoyizi akho bese uwaphonsa ekamelweni ";
4. Zama ukugwema ukuvinjelwa nokuvimbela njalo - "yeka," "ungaboni," "awukwazi," njalo njalo;
5. Qinisekisa ukuthi unikeza ingane ngombuso oqinile kanye nomsebenzi wansuku zonke. Ukuqamba (kangcono kanye nengane) uhlelo oluningiliziwe lokulala, ukudla, ukuhamba, imidlalo, amakilasi kanye nemisebenzi evamile yasendlini. Zama ukuhambisana nalesi simiso, naphezu kwesifiso somntwana sokungahambi ngaso sonke isikhathi kuye. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzojwayele ukulinganisa, angene ohlelweni lokuphila.
6. Ungamniki ingane zonke izinathoyizi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Nika eyodwa noma ezimbili bese uvumela ukuba badlale ngokwanele, bese unika omunye. Uma ehlezi etafuleni ukudweba, ake uhlale etafuleni ngeke kube khona into engafanele, ngoba ingane engasebenzi kahle ayikwazi ukuziqeda konke okuyivimbela okwamanje.
7. Njengoba kunikezwe ukukhuphuka kwengane yakho, zama ukuqiniseka ukuthi izingane ezingaphezu kuka 2-3 zihlanganyela kulo mdlalo ngesikhathi.
Kudingekile ukuthi umdlalo wegeyimu wengane engasebenzi kahle iqukethe abaklami abahlukene, amapuzzli, imidlalo yebhodi ejwayelekile. Ungakhathazeki uma ingane ingakwazi ukuhlala ngokushesha phezu kwabo isikhathi eside. Yiba nesineke futhi ngezinye izikhathi udlale nayo hhayi kuphela kwibhola, kodwa, isibonelo, ku-chess. Ekugcineni uzofunda ukudlala imidlalo isikhathi eside. Sivame ukwehlisa amandla amandla okukhuthaza - ukuvuma kwabazali ukudlala kanye nengane. Kodwa empeleni ngenxa yalokhu uzobe ekulungele ukukhohlwa ngebhola, futhi mayelana nokugijima ezungeze umgwaqo, kanye nemimoya. Ochwepheshe bathi, ngemfundo efanele, ingane engasebenzi kahle ibe yilapho ishumi nambili ikhula ibe yintsha evamile.
Manje kancane mayelana "nezivunguvungu". Mayelana nabo, ochwepheshe bathi kaningi kakhulu, ngoba kuze kube sesikhathini esithile, izingane ezincane, njengombuso, ungakhathazeki abazali. Bayabhala konke okweminyaka yobudala: bathi, kuseseyingcosana, kuyokhula, ufunde ukuthi ungayenza kanjani ngokushesha. Okwamanje, "ama-turtles", lolu uhlobo oluhlukile, olukhetheke kakhulu lwezingane, lapho ingane idinga khona kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala kunazo zonke ekuqondiseni okukhulu - isiguli kanye nosuku zonke. Ikakhulukazi ukuphuza kwalezi zingane kuvinjelwe lapho bephuma endlini - esikoleni, enkulisa, ngokumelene nesizinda sontanga yabo, imithetho ethile nemidlalo. Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zefomu lezinhlamvu azigcini nje ukuhamba kancane, kodwa futhi zithinteka emfundweni yamamama angaphezu kwamandla futhi anamandla kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, thina singabazali, singabasiza kanjani "izintuthu" zethu ezithandekayo?
Kakade uneminyaka engama-4 ubudala, udinga ukwethula umntwana, ukuthi yiziphi amahora nesikhathi esithile. Ngakho uzokwakha isisekelo sokubona isikhathi. Ingane izofunda ukuqonda ukuthi yini engakwazi futhi engenakwenziwa ngehora, isigamu sehora. Kungcono ukuthenga nge-hourglasses ehlukahlukene. Futhi uvame ukuwasebenzisa - ngesikhathi ugqoka ukuhamba, ngenkathi udla noma uthatha amathoyizi. Njalo ukhuthaze ingane kuleso simo ngasinye: "Bheka, namhlanje usuvele ugqoke imizuzu eyishumi, kodwa yonke isihlabathi asizange silale ngokwanele! "Ngesikhathi esilandelayo ingane iqala ukuqondanisa izenzo zakhe ezilukhuni ngesikhathi sangempela. Okunye okuzuzisa kakhulu kukhona nezinhlobonhlobo zemincintiswano phakathi kwezingane nabantu abadala ngesihloko: ngubani osheshayo. Yiqiniso, abantu abadala kumele banikeze kancane, kodwa ingane izothola isabelo sayo sokudumisa ngokunqoba, ithuba lokuba ngowokuqala nokusheshisa. Izingane - "ama-turtles" azwela kakhulu umahluko wabo oontanga abagibela ibhayisikili noma badlala ibhola. Ngenxa yokuphuza kwabo, bakhetha imidlalo yokuhlala. Yingakho base befunda kahle futhi bhala kahle. Kodwa inkinga yukuthi imicabango yabo ingaphambi kokunyakaza. Lokhu kudala izinkinga esikoleni, lapho ingane ikwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi, kodwa ayikwazi ukulawula ngokomzimba ukuyenza.
Njengoba ubona, abazali bayakwazi kakhulu ukusiza "amantombazane amancane" kanye "nezivunguvungu". Vele ungabathuli ngeze, kodwa, zama ukuqonda lezi zinhlobo zezingane. Dala izimo ezijabulisayo ukuze zikwazi ukukhokhela izici zobungqabavu nokuziphatha kwazo.