Ngakho, izinto ezintathu indoda yangempela okufanele iyenze. Ngaphambili, indoda kwakudingeka yakha indlu. Kwakusho ukuthini lokhu? Eqinisweni, indlu, kwaba yithuba lokuzivikela emakhazeni nokuhlaselwa kwezitha. Phela, indlu ingabuye ibizwe ngokuthi inqaba, iqine futhi ivikeleke kuzo zonke izitha zangaphandle. Ngempela, indlu enamandla futhi enhle ngaphambilini, yayihlonishwa kakhulu, ngoba, lapho indlu ethembeke khona, abantu abaningi bakwazi ukuzisindisa ezinhlobonhlobo zezinhlekelele ezehlukene futhi bazivikele ezikhungweni ezimbi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akuwona wonke umuntu owayengakwazi ukukwakhela indawo yokuhlala yangempela, hhayi i-hovel engazange ihlukane nomoya omncane womoya. Yingakho amadoda aye azama njalo ukwakha indlu yangempela ukuthola umakoti omuhle. Phela, ngaso sonke isikhathi, abazali bazama ukushada nendodakazi yabo kumfana onokwethenjelwa kakhulu. Indlu eqinile kwakuwubufakazi bokuqala bokuthembeka kwayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi le ndoda yakwazi ukuqoqa izimali ngokuzimela futhi yakha indlu yakhe, eyayibuye yafakazela amandla akhe emzimbeni.
Yeka isakhiwo esinamandla nesinamandla esikushoyo emhlabeni wanamuhla. Hhayi, mhlawumbe, ukuthi le ndoda inamathuba okuthola imali noma ukuqasha abasebenzi ekwakhiweni. Manje bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazokwakha indlu ngezandla zabo. Futhi, uma lokhu kwenzeka, kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu akanayo imali eyanele yokukhokha isisebenzi somsebenzi sabakhi. Ukwakhiwa kwendlu ngesandla sakhe kuzothatha okungaphezu konyaka owodwa, ngakho-ke, ezweni lanamuhla, indoda kufanele ingabi ukwakha indlu, kodwa ithengise ikhaya elihle. Lokhu, hhayi ngempela, kufanele kube yindlu yokuhlala noma indlu. Futhi, njenge "ikhaya" kungaba yindlu yokuhlala ehle endaweni enhle yedolobha. Mhlawumbe, umqondo wendlu, empeleni, awusashintshi okuningi kusukela esikhathini esidlule. Abazali bomakoti basalokhu bekhathazekile ngendawo yokuphila yomkhwenyana omusha. Kuphela manje abakhathazekile ngenxa yokuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abangabambalwa kanye nobusika obubandayo, kodwa amathuba okuhlala kwelinye ifulethi nabantu abasha, okuyinto engekho neze, noma kungenzeka ukuqasha indawo yokuhlala engeke ilahleke kakhulu, okuyokwenza ukuthi isabelomali semindeni yabo sithinteke . Ngakho-ke, singaphetha ngokuthi into yokuqala umuntu okufanele akwenze manje ukuthola indawo yokuphila. Futhi makube isipho, ifa noma indawo yokuhlala ngokuthembeka, into eyinhloko ukuthi umfana wayenendawo yokuhlala nomkakhe wesikhathi esizayo.
Owesibili ukutshala umuthi. Kwakusho ukuthini ngalo ngesikhathi esisodwa? Izinkuni, lokhu kungukuthi, kuqala, ubelethe. Futhi uma kukhona isivuno, khona-ke ebusika umndeni ngeke ulambile. Khona-ke, ngaphansi kokutshala kwesihlahla, kwakusho ukuthi le nsizwa inomhlaba ongayenza futhi ingakhula isinkwa, imifino nezithelo. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuthi ezolimo ngaphambili kwakuyodwa yezisebenzi eziyinhloko. Uma umuntu engumlimi omuhle, wayenokudla endlini, ngaphandle kwalokho, imikhiqizo eminingi yayithengiswa. Imali leyo mfana wayenethuba lokuthenga izingubo, izitsha zasendlini kanye nezinkuni ebusika, ukuze kungabi amakhaza endlini ebandayo.
Khona-ke kuvela ukuthi kumuntu wanamuhla, ukutshala isihlahla kusho ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle. Manje, uma ungathenga cishe yonke into, imali enkulu ayiyona isinkwa, kodwa imali. Futhi izidingo zabantu banamuhla ziyi-oda eliphakeme kakhulu kunelakhokho babo. Ngakho-ke, ukuze uphile kahle ezweni lanamuhla, kuyadingeka ukuba ube nemali eyanele, eyaziwa, iletha umsebenzi okhokhela okhokhelwayo othembisayo. Yingakho, abafana banamuhla akufanele nje bafunde ukuphatha kahle umhlaba wabo. Kudingeka babe nokuhlakanipha okuphakeme futhi bathole imfundo enhle enyuvesi, lapho ungathola khona umsebenzi ofanelekayo. Futhi, ukuze uthole amaholo aphezulu. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nesibindi futhi ube nesibindi, ukwazi ukuthola izixazululo ezingajwayelekile futhi ungayeki. Ngakho-ke, ngezinga elithile, amadoda esimanje athola kunzima kakhulu ukufeza umthetho wesibili.
Futhi owesithathu ukuvusa indodana. Mhlawumbe, lena yodwa into engeke ishintshe. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuqhubeka nomndeni wakhe, ukubona izingane zakhe izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu azibeka kuzo kusukela ebuntwaneni. Yiqiniso, izikhathi zishintsha, futhi izindlela zokukhulisa nazo zihlukile, kepha, nokho, kukhona into eyodwa kuphela esele - ukukhulisa ilungu elifanele lomphakathi kusuka kumntanakho. Yilokho wonke umuntu wangempela ozama ukukwenza. Ngeke ashiye inzalo yakhe futhi ngeke azame ukubalekela izibopho. Indoda yangempela nobaba wangempela bayofundisa ingane yabo futhi bangalokothi bathi akanayo isikhathi. Amadoda anjalo akwazi ukukwakha izindlu nokukhulisa izihlahla, kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, izingane zabo azizange zihlale ngaphandle kwemfundo yamadoda. Imfundo yabantu abanjalo inzima futhi ayinhle, futhi ngokuqinisekile bayayithanda kakhulu izingane zabo. Ngenxa yengane, laba bantu bakha ikhaya elifudumele futhi elihle futhi bakhulisa umuthi ode kakhulu. Benza konke abakwaziyo futhi bazame ukwenza okungenakwenzeka.
Ngakho-ke, izinto ezintathu indoda yangempela ezweni lanamuhla okufanele yenze ukuthola indawo yokuphila enhle, inomsebenzi okhokhelwayo futhi wenze konke ukuze izingane zakhe zingadingi uthando, ukunakekelwa nokukhuliswa ngendlela efanele. Uma umuntu ekwazi ukufeza lokhu, angazibonela ngokugcwele ekuphileni kwakhe. Kodwa, eqinisweni, akulula ukufeza le mithetho emithathu. Kuthatha umzamo omkhulu. Ngakho-ke, akumangalisi ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abafezekisa imiphumela enjalo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuziqaphela. Kodwa uma isoka lakho linekhaya elihle noma ifulethi, umsebenzi ongamniki imali engenayo nje kuphela kodwa futhi ujabule, futhi futhi, uyabathanda izingane futhi ulungele ukutshala imali kuwo wonke umphefumulo kanye nazo zonke izimali - indoda efanelwe wena.