Ngokwezibalo, wonke umuntu wesibili ngemuva kosuku olusebenzayo oluphuza uphuza ibhodlela noma amabhiya amabili. Kwabaningi, lokhu kuyinto evamile, ungaphuza iziphuzo ezinamandla okukodwa - kabili emavikini amabili. Uma umyeni wakho engafuni ukudakwa, akhulisi umthamo wotshwala (isibonelo, waqala ukuphuza ibhodlela elilodwa kusihlwa, kanti manje ngezinye izikhathi ezintathu zingase ziphuze), aziphathe kahle, ngakho konke kuhle. Awukwazi ukukhathazeka.
Wonke umuntu uyazi izingozi zokuphuza ngokweqile, hhayi ukubhekisa ubhiya kulokho. Kodwa kuyize kakhulu. Ukusetshenziswa njalo kwesiphuzo se-foam kunciphisa amandla, isifo sobuchopho sifika, isisu sikhula, ukucindezeleka kwegazi kuphakama, ukuvimbela ingculazi kunciphisa. Ungasho ukuthi utshwala obutshwala bungakhula.
Ukudakwa ngokweqile kuyisifo esiyinkimbinkimbi njengokudla ngokweqile. Umehluko kuphela ukuthi isikhathi sokwakheka kwayo isikhathi eside, njengesikhathi sokubuyiselwa. Njengomthetho, "ukulutha ukuphuza okuphuzayo" isikhathi eside kungabonakali yibo abasondelene nabo, noma abadakayo ngokwabo.
Ngokuqhubekayo konke kuhamba ngaphansi kwe-scheme ejwayelekile: ukuqeda ukuphuza utshwala ngokuzimela komuntu akakwazi futhi, kodwa, ngaleyo ndlela unenkani ngokuphika ukuthembela. "Ngiyakwazi ukuyeka noma kunini. Ngiphuza ngokulinganayo ngangifuna. Nginabhodlela okwanele neyodwa yebhiya, "- kusho amadoda asevele ahlakulela utshwala obudakayo. Hlola ukuziphatha komyeni wakhe. Ingabe uyaphelelwa ukuphuza? Uzizwa kanjani ngokuthi uhlale umtshela ukuthi ubhiya bubi?
Uma ufuna ukususa ngokushesha umyeni wakho kusuka ebhodleleni lokuphuza ubhiya ebusuku, ke okokuqala, faka umgomo phambi kwakho. Isibonelo, "Ngifuna umyeni wami ahambe nami epaki kusihlwa (wayehlezi nengane, engisize endlini)." Isifiso samadoda sokuphumula emva komsebenzi siyaqondakala futhi sinembile. Kodwa, kubalulekile yini ukwenza lokhu ngebhiya? Msize ukuba abaleke ukukhathazeka kwansuku zonke. Mema ukuhamba, uhlele ukumisa, ulungise isidlo sakusihlwa bese ukhuluma ngetafula elihlelwe kahle. Mhlawumbe le ndoda ayinayo induduzo eyanele nje muva nje?
Uma indoda yakho ingaphuzanga ubhiya ngaphambili, futhi manje ngokuzumayo waqala ukwenza lokho, ehlezi ku-TV ngobuso be-stony? Hlola, ingabe uzizwa sengathi unendoda ene-capital M? Ungakwazi yini ukhathele izikhalazo zakho "nokubona" futhi akakuboni ukuthi owesifazane obuthakathaka nowethenda, lapho athande khona? Ingabe ukhathalela ngokwanele naye? Uyayinaka yini impumelelo yakhe, izinkinga? Mhlawumbe udinga ukwesekwa nokuqonda?
Ukuphikisana! Isibonelo, ukuthi ngeke aphuze ubhiya inyanga, futhi ubone ukuthi uyaphumelela kanjani. Uma engakhumbuli ngebhodlela ngalinye lobusuku obuthandayo, izinkathazo zakho zazingelutho. Futhi uma le nqubo inikezwa kuye ngobunzima - kufanelekile ukucabangela ...
Mtshele indaba embi. Ukuthi emva kweminyaka embalwa ukuphuza njalo isiphuzo sakhe esiyintandokazi uyoqala ukuba nezinkinga zempilo, ikakhulukazi nge-potency (amadoda ngokuvamile ayesabisa kakhulu), ukuthi uzoba "nesisu", uzoyeka ukumthanda futhi uhambe. Tshela umyeni wakho ukuthi awuthandi ibhodlela lakhe lebusuku ebusuku, uthola ukukhathazeka ngalokhu.
Ubhiya omuhle awuthile. Ungahlela ukuhlolwa. Vumela okulingana nenani asebenzisa ngalo isiphuzo sokuphuza akunika yona. Ngemuva kwesonto noma ngenyanga, ungamkhombisa ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esingakanani "ukuphumula kusihlwa."
Uma ibhodlela lokuphuza ubhiya lingakhathazeki wena noma umyeni wakho, khona-ke ungashiya isimo sodwa, kodwa sigcine ngaphansi kokulawula. Uma kukhona utshwala ngokweqile, ukuziphatha okunganele, sekuyisikhathi sokuya emitholampilo ekhethekile ukuze uthole usizo.