Wena, njenganoma imuphi umama ovamile, awukwazi ukuhlala uzolile, ulalele ukukhala kwezinqwaba zakhe. Ngifuna ukuza ngokushesha ukugijima kuye ukusiza, wenze konke ukwenza izinyembezi zakhe zimise ukuthulula! Ukudlula izinyembezi zokuqala zengane esanda kuzalwa kungaphelelwa kalula noMama, kanye nomntwana. Ngokuvamile ukuthatha isandla somntwana ukuze ayeke ukukhala, kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi akukho tricks ayikwazi ukuzolahla i-karapuza elibubulayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, uyamnika isifuba noma ibhodlela, futhi izinyane lijika kuye, lichithe i-pacifier, lilahla ithoyizi. Ungenza kanjani ukumomotheka? Khumbula: umntwana akalokothi akhale ngaphandle kwesizathu. Futhi uma ubona, kuzoba lula kuwe ukududuza ingcebo yakho. Ngakho-ke, sizozama ukukusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi kungani izinyembezi zezinyembezi zezingane, ngoba i-crumb ithemba wena!
I-ANIMAL PATIENT!
Ukukhala okubukhali, okubuhlungu, nokukhala okukhulu, njengomthetho, kungase kwenzeke eduze nobusuku. Ingane iqala ukucindezela imilenze yayo, ibuye iguqe yonke indawo, ibuyele emuva. Ngalokhu kuziphatha, qaphela - lobu bufakazi be-colic. Ungashiyi ingane yedwa ngale nhlekelele! Njengesizo ekusizeni, ungabeka isisindo sokushisa okomile esiswini sakhe, isibonelo, esine-hot iron diaper (efudumele, kodwa engashisi!). Futhi, ukusikhipha isisu esincane kungasebenza. Yenza izinyathelo eziyindilinga, ziqondiswe ekwenzeni iwashi (zama ukungathinti indawo yesibindi). Ungacela udokotela wezingane ukuthi amnike amaconsi e-colic. Uma ingane ibelethwe ngamabele futhi uphikisana nokuphathwa okunjalo, ungakwazi ukuphuza amaconsi anjalo. Umuthi uzothathwa ngumntwana kanye nobisi. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, musa ukubeka izidakamizwa wena ngokwakho!
Ngifisa ukugwaza!
Ingane iqala ukukhala ngaphandle kwezinyembezi, ibeke isibhamu emlonyeni wayo, imsondele, futhi iqala ukukhala okukhulu. Uvame ukukhalipha, ngokushesha uphendukela ukukhala. Ezimweni ezinjalo, uyaqonda ukuthi umntwana ucela ukudla! Lesi yisizathu esivame kakhulu sezinyembezi zokuqala zengane esanda kuzalwa. Izingane ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila zisakwazi ukuqoqa izimali zamanzi, yingakho zidinga ukudla njalo. Awudingi ukunamathela esimisweni sokudla: ezinyangeni zokuqala, yondla ingane yakho, ngoba ingane elambile ingahle ikhale amahora! Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzokwakha ukudla okulungile kuye.
Ngishisa!
Uma umntwana ekhala futhi esaphefumula ngokushesha, futhi isikhumba sakhe sibomvu futhi sithuthukile, kusho ukuthi uphelile. Okubalulekile: izinga lokushisa lomoya elisezingeni eliphezulu lapho kutholakala khona umntwana, kufanele kube ngu-21-22 C. Uma ingane yakho ikhukhumezeka, yishintshe ibe izingubo ezomile (zibe izinto ezikhanyayo ezivela emikhanyeni yemvelo).
Ngifisa wena ngezikhwepha!
Ingane iqala ukuqhuma kancane, ikhala, ikhipha amehlo akho. Futhi uma engaphumelelanga, uqala ukudlula ukukhala okukhulu nokukhala. Ungavimbela kalula ukugeleza kwezinyembezi, ikakhulukazi ngoba akudingekile ukuba uthathe ingane ngokushesha. Ungakwazi nje ukukhuluma naye, pat ngemuva, ekhanda. Ngandlela-thile, izingane eziningi ziyancipha ukuzitholela komama emkhakheni wabo wombono.
IMIBUZO YAMI
I-crutch iqala ukuzungeza, sonke isikhathi sizama ukushintsha isimo somzimba, konke lokhu kuhambisana nokukhala okude nokuphikelela. Konke kucacile, ngoba ukungahambi kahle kwe-diaper engcolile akujabulisi kubo bonke abantu, ngaphandle kwalokho kungaba yisizathu sokuthuthukisa i-diaper dermatitis nokushaywa kwe-diaper. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusebenzisa i-diapers elahlayo ayikwazi ukukhipha izinzwa ezingathandeki. Uma i-crumb ihambile, zama ukushintsha ngokushesha i-diaper uphinde uhlanze imbongolo ihlanzekile.
Angikwazi ukukhuluma
Ekuboneni kuqala, izinyembezi zezingane ezisanda kuzalwa azikho isizathu? Uvele nje ekhalela ngezinyembezi esihlahleni? Bheka, ngokungazelelwe umhlane wakhe unqabile kusukela ekude isikhathi eside endaweni eyodwa noma ihembe laqhamuka futhi lingenakulungiswa. Phakathi nezinyanga ezintathu zokuqala umntwana akakwazi ukuziphendulela. Ngakho konke okusele kuye ukuthembela kosizo kumama. Ngakho-ke, ungayinaki izinyembezi zokuqala zengane, kungcono ukusabalalisa ngesisu sakho kaningi.
IZINDAWO ZOKUPHILA
Ingane iyadingeka, njengomoya, ukunakekelwa komama, ukunakekelwa nothando. Futhi lokhu, njalo, kubangelwa ukukhala okukhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo izingcingo ezikhalayo nokukhala. Njalo uthatha umntwana ezandleni zakhe, uma ebuza ngalokhu: ezandleni zakho umntwana uzizwa evikelwe. Ngendlela, izingane, ezihlala zihlala zihlala zikhala, zikhala kakhulu futhi zikhule nabantu abanokuzethemba.
Ngiyaphatha
Ngesikhathi emini umntwana ehambisana nezenzakalo eziningi (ugogo wayevakashele, umama wayethatha izivakashi nami) nemizwa ehambisanayo, akakwazi ukuzola futhi alale ngokuthula. Ingane ayiqondi ukuthi kwenzekani kuye, futhi iqala ukukhala. Ungagcini umntanakho njalo nge-irritants amaningi, ngoba isimiso sezinzwa somntwana sisasanda kukhula: kunzima ngaye ukubhekana nemizwelo.
Ngingumuntu omkhulu!
Ingane yokukhala, ukusayina ngesifo, inamandla kakhulu, ngokuvamile iwubuhlungu. Ingane ikubukeka emehlweni, kanti ngesikhathi sokudla ngokuvamile kuvimbela (uma umphimbo ubuhlungu noma ubeka umuthi) bese uphinde ukhale. Kulesi simo, kufanele uthintane nodokotela ngokushesha ukuze uthole usizo. Konke okudinga ukukwaziswa uma umntwana ekhala isikhathi eside futhi engaphumelelanga ukumnciphisa ngezindlela ezisebenze nakanjani ngaphambili.
ISITHOMBE SIKHULU
Izinyanga eziyisikhombisa kuya kwezinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili, umntwana uqala ukuqhuma amazinyo okuqala. Ngokuvamile le nqubo ihambisana nezinyembezi. Qaphela izinkinga "zamazinyo" zengane. Ukuze ukhulule ubuhlungu bese ulalisa umntwana, unike itheleti-teetotal efakiwe (ithengiswe ekhemisi) noma usebenzise amazinyo i-gel yokubulala, okuyinto udokotela wezingane ayincoma.
Ngifisa ukuba nakho!
Lokhu kubakhathalela izingane ezikhulile kakade - emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, ngubani ongakwazi ukuzibamba futhi aziqonde okuthile. Awukwazi manje ukunaka ingane, uyishiye esitokisini, unikeze amathoyizi akho ozithandayo, futhi ngokushesha uqala ukungena kuma-hysterics bese ememeza, efuna ukunakekelwa okufisiwe. Ingabe isimo siyazijwayele? Into eyinhloko ukuthi uhlale uzolile futhi ungazitholi ukucasulwa komncintiswano omncane. Ikakhulukazi kusukela i-karapuz manje ayikwazi ukulalela ukuziphatha kwakho - lokhu kuzomane kukhulise ukufutheka kwakhe. Lindela isiphepho. Futhi lapho umntwana ehlisa kancane kancane, mambambe futhi ngomusa uthi konke kuhlelekile. Zama ukushintsha ukunakwa, isibonelo, ukunikeza ukudlala ngezintambo. Uma lokhu kwenzeka okokuqala, zama ukungaqhubeki ukuqhuma okunjalo ngokomzwelo esikhathini esizayo - ungashiyi ingane yakho yedwa isikhathi eside.
Nginesizungu!
Ngokuvamile umntwana uyakhala ngokudabuka. Ungashiyi ingane yedwa isikhathi eside kulesi sikhala, ngisho noma kukhona amathoyizi amaningi azungezile. Ukuze imicucu ikhulume futhi idlale nomama iyathakazelisa kakhulu futhi iyasiza. Uma udinga ukuphumula, faka ingane (yenza lokhu, kusukela ezinyangeni ezinyangeni ezintathu) kumathuluzi okwakhiwa okhethekile. Ukunamathiselwe kuye amathoyizi aqhakazile ngeke avumele ingane ukuba ibuhlungu! Futhi izakhi ezihlukahlukene ezigcizelelwe zihlakulela ngokugcwele amakhono emoto amnandi.
LOKUPHAKATHI UKUTHANDA!
1. Ngisho noma ungazizwa kahle, akufanele uphonsa imizwa yakho emibi ngenxa ye-crumb.
2. Ungamemeza ingane, ngoba kuye kuyinkinga enkulu. Ukukhala kwakho kuzomethusa nje.
3. Ungayigxili. Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu kwengqondo yengane ngisho nokuphila kwakhe. Zilawula ngokwakho!
4. Ungashiyi ingane yedwa ekhaya. I-crumb kumele ihlale ingaphansi kokunakekelwa kwabantu abadala.
5. Ungazami ukunikeza ingane izidakamizwa! Isistimu yakhe yezinzwa ayisakhiwanga, futhi ungalimaza ingane!
ISIPHUMA EMITHETHWENI YOMNTWANA
Izinyembezi zokuqala zengane esanda kuzalwa zinezincazelo. Izinsana azikwazi ukuxhaphaza abanye abantu. I-crumb ekhalayo idinga induduzo, ngoba ngenxa yobukho bakho ingane iqonda into esemqoka.
• Uzwa uphephile. Ingane iyaqiniseka ukuthi ingakwazi ukuhlala ilindele usizo lwakho futhi ngeke ishiywe yodwa ngengozi yakhe.
• Uthola ukuzethemba. Uma usabela lapho ekhala, khona-ke ubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
• Ukwakha ubuhlobo bakhe nezwe elizungezile. Uma kucatshangwa ngezidingo zakhe, izwe liyakuthandeka kuye.
• Uqonda ukuthi bayamthanda. Umntwana obizwa ngokuthi, futhi weza kuye, ngenxa yakhe, ushiya yonke ibhizinisi lakhe.