Cishe kuwo wonke umndeni wesibili, abazali babhekene nokuphazamiseka kokulala ezinganeni - balala ngokulala. Lesi simo sikhombisa ukuthi kwezinye izimo zangaphandle ingane ingalali kahle futhi lo mthetho, futhi akuyona into ehlukile. Kodwa-ke, akusizi ngalutho ukugijima ekhemisi ngemithi yengane, cishe, azikho izizathu zalokhu nokulala kungalungiswa ngaphandle kokusebenzisa imithi engeke izuze impilo. Ukwenza lokhu, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ingane ingalali kahle ebusuku.
Isizathu sokuqala yizici zonyaka
Kunombono wokuthi izingane ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila zilele kanzima futhi zide. Izinsana ezinjalo, kunjalo, kodwa azizona eziningi. Inani elikhulu lezingane, ezihlukaniswe nabazali bazo, ungalala kahle kuze kube izinyanga ezintathu kuya kweziyisithupha. Lokhu kuhlobene nokwakhiwa kokulala. Ezinganeni ezingalesi sikhathi asijulile, futhi iphupho elingenangqondo likhona, ngakho-ke bavame ukuvuka. Ukuziphatha okuqhubekayo kuncike ezicini zomuntu ngamunye: umuntu angakwazi ukulala futhi, futhi omunye udinga usizo. Ukwengeza, umzimba wezingane ezithile unyaka wonke, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izingane ezindala, zidinga ukubeletha ngesikhathi sokuhlwa - lokhu kuyimbangela yokuvusa (lokhu akusebenzi ezinganeni ngokudla okufakelwayo).
Kodwa kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi uma ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila ingane ingenayo izinkinga zokulala, lokhu akuqinisekisi ukuthi khona-ke ngeke kuvele kahle. Isikhathi sesibili esinzima sihambisana nokuphazamiseka kokulala ezinganeni ezineminyaka eyodwa nesigamu kuya eminyakeni emithathu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izingane ziqala ukuvela ukwesaba okuhlukahlukene (ubumnyama, izinhlamvu ezinhle, njll), ezingase zibonise njengezibusuku ebusuku. Lokhu kungabangela izinkinga zokulala ebuntwaneni, ngisho noma izingane zivame ukulala kahle.
Isizathu sesibili yisimo sengqondo somntwana
Uma umntwana ejabule kalula, ngokushesha "ekhanyisa" futhi "eside" ahlala isikhathi eside, ehlala nabazali ezandleni zakhe, efuna izimo zangaphandle, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi ingane enjalo ihlanganiswe eqenjini "ngezidingo ezikhulayo" (igama lika-William Serza - waseMelika) . Lawa bantwana adinga indlela ekhethekile kunoma yimuphi ubudala: ngenyanga, ngonyaka, nangeminyaka eyisikhombisa. Izingane ezinjalo zijwayele ukubhekana nezinkinga zokulala: lapho zisencane, azikwazi ukuphumula futhi zilele, bese izinkinga zivela ekuzweleni ngokweqile nasebusweni obubi.
Isizathu sesithathu yindlela engafanele yokuphila
Uma ingane ingalali kahle ebusuku, kungenzeka ukuthi isizathu sokusebenzisa imali encane emini. Ngakho, ingane ingapheli nje. Ngokusho kwezingane zase-Ukraine uVeveny Komarovsky, lokhu kuyimbangela eyinhloko yezinkinga zokulala ebuntwaneni. Mhlawumbe abazali bakholelwa ukuthi ihora nesigamu ukuhamba nokudlala amadonsa noma izimoto zanele ukudla wonke amandla, noma kunjalo, lo mbono uvela kumuntu omdala. Izingane zihamba kakhulu futhi zisebenza, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ezinye izingane zingakwazi "ukuzulazula" kuphela ngemva kwemidlalo ende kakhulu emgwaqweni nasemakhaya.
Isizathu sesine yizimo ezingathandeki zokulala
Ukunganaki kungakhipha izinto ezihluke ngokuphelele. Kungaba ama-pajamas noma ama-linens obukhuni kakhulu. Mhlawumbe abazali bafaka ingane eningi kakhulu, noma mhlawumbe unomsila ongathandeki, kubanda noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyisicefe. Uma isizathu singesinye salokhu, ke ukuyiqonda, kubalulekile ukuhlaziya zonke izici kahle, mhlawumbe kuzodingeka ukuthi ushintshe okuthile esimweni salokhu. Uma lesi sici siphelile, ukulala kwengane kuyobuyela ngokushesha kujwayelekile.
Isizathu sesihlanu inhlalakahle
Ngisho nomuntu omdala uzolala kabi uma engazizwa kahle: amazinyo akhe aqoshwe "ngokuhlakanipha" noma isisu sakhe sibuhlungu. Ezinganeni ezineminyaka eyodwa noma ezimbili, "izinkinga zempilo" ezinjalo zivame ukuhlangana futhi zingabangela izinkinga zokulala.
Isizathu sesithupha - izinguquko empilweni yengane
Ukubiza izinkinga ngokulala kungabonakala nezinguquko ezibalulekile empilweni, izinkinga - ukusabela kwengane kulezi zinguquko. Isibonelo, uma umndeni wathuthela endlini entsha noma indlu, ukubuyiswa komndeni noma umntwana waqala ukulala ngokwahlukana nabazali. Konke lokhu kungabangela imizwa yengane, okuba yimbangela yokuphazamiseka kokulala.