Iningi lethu libukele lesi simo lapho abanye besifazane endaweni yomphakathi kudingeka badonsa iglavu, njengalowo mzuzu inamba enkulu yamadoda egijima lapho ifuna ukuyiphakamisa. Kodwa kukhona abesifazane abazama ukudukisa umuntu abayithandayo, kodwa ngenxa yalokho, abaphuma kulo. Yini ngempela imfihlo? Futhi into yukuthi akubona bonke abameli bezocansi abahle kakhulu abaqaphela kahle ubuciko bokukhwabanisa. Sinqume ukukunikeza izifundo eziyisisekelo mayelana nendlela yokudukisa umuntu endaweni yomphakathi futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ujabule lo mbono, njengomdanso omuhle!
Inzalo
Ngakho-ke, ungamkhohlisa kanjani umuntu ezindaweni zomphakathi ukuze umshaye ucansi? Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuheha umuntu oyithandayo, ukumthakazelisa ngesithombe sakhe, ukuphuma esixukwini. Ubulili obuqine kakhulu buheha isithombe somfazi ohambisana nomzwelo wakhe. Kumele kube okukhethekile, okumibalabala, okukhohlisa futhi okuthandayo.
Amakhono okwenza
Noma yimuphi owesifazane wangempela ngumdlali wezithombe kusukela ekuzalweni. Ngakho-ke, ukudlala indima yokudukisa endaweni yomphakathi kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo. Ukunqoba umuntu ngaphandle kokwenza izifundo akukwanele. Udinga ukukhombisa yonke i-charm yakho nazo zonke izici zokuheha.
Emuva emigqeni yokuqala yalesi sihloko, satshele abesifazane beshiya iglavu endaweni egcwele. Futhi lokhu kwenzeka kude nokulula. Ukukhohlisa okunjalo okungabonakali kwabesifazane sekuyisikhathi eside kuhloswe ukukhohlisa umuntu kumanethiwekhi akhe. Kodwa ngokusekelwe kokulula kwangaphandle ukukhohlisa okunjalo, kuwumsebenzi ongashintshayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uphonse iglavu, udinga ukwenza okuningi ukuxhaphaza futhi uqiniseke ukuthi awubonakali ohlangothini.
Bheka nxazonke umuntu ongenacala, ngaphandle kokusola okungadingekile, ukuba angene endaweni engadingekile ngaphandle kokuphakamisa amehlo ukuze athathe umzuzu futhi ... njengokwemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka ukuthi uphonsa noma yini eyobe isesikhwameni sakho. Kuyinkimbinkimbi kule nqubo - ukubukeka kwakhe okungenacala futhi okumangalisa (ngendlela, kubhekisa kakhulu amadoda) ukukhombisa ukuthi ukungahambi kahle okunjalo kuyaphuma futhi uma kungenjalo ... Leyo yimfihlo yokukhohlisa endaweni yomphakathi. Ngendlela, ukubukeka kwakho okubukeka kuhlanganiswe nobuqili kuyisisekelo sokukhohlisa indoda kunoma iyiphi indawo egcwele. Kodwa khumbula, amacebo anjalo adingekayo kuphela ukuheha umuntu omele ubulili obuqinile. Inhloso yokudukisa indoda yilabo abathandana nabo. Ukudlala ngothando kufaka phakathi izinto eziningi ezingokwengqondo, isibonelo, ukuxhuma. Okokuqala, lokhu kungokuxhumana okubukwayo. Ukubukeka kwesifazane okudlulayo okungena enhliziyweni futhi edumile "ukudubula" kwamehlo kungabulala abantu abangaphezu kweyodwa. Ngendlela, phakathi kwezinye izinto, njalo udinga ukukhumbula ngokuxhumana komzimba. Ukukhanya okungajwayelekile nokungaxhunyiwe ku-intanethi kuthinta ngenkathi ingxoxo ingatshela okuningi ngesimo sengqondo sabesifazane nobulili.
Ukubukeka okwedlulele
Ufuna ukudukisa indoda? Ungesabi ukukhombisa umzimba wakho, ngokuqinisekile, ngokulinganisela. Ukuthi endaweni enabantu abaningi abantu bakunakekele, akudingekile ukuba ugqoke ngokukhululekile. Kubalulekile ukugxila ezintweni ezilodwa. Uma le ndoda ihambise izibonakaliso zakho (bheka), yenza isenzo esingenakuqaphela, isibonelo, faka isandla sakho ethangeni, ubeke unyawo lwakho emlenzeni wakho. Ngokwemvelo, le ndoda izokulalela lokhu. Khumbula ukuthi indlela yokuphuma esixukwini ngosizo lwezingubo ze-sexy akuzona zonke. Ubulili kumele buveze ukuziphatha, ukunyakaza, ubuhlungu kanye nezwi. Kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuthi wonke umuntu angakhohliswa, kodwa akubona bonke abangayenga ngempela.
Futhi into yokugcina, ubuciko bokudukisa ubuciko bokuba ngowesifazane, ubuciko bokuheha imibono yabantu. Futhi lapha akukho lutho olungokwemvelo, ngoba iqiniso kuthiwa empini zonke izindlela zilungile! Khumbula ukuthi akukho lutho olwenzeka ngaphandle kwesizathu, zonke izimpumelelo zakho zixhomeke ngokuqondile emsebenzini wakho kanye nokukhuthaza. Noma yimuphi umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungayinqoba, into esemqoka ukufuna nokusebenzisa wonke amacebo akho!