Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi umkakhe ngeke ahambe noma kuphi, ngoba uyindawo. Futhi indoda ingenza noma yini nayo. Bheka eduze nabangani bakho, ozakwabo emsebenzini. Uqaphele ukuthi ufihle ngemuva kokumomotheka emsebenzini? Kungani intombi yakho igqoke izibuko zelanga namhlanje, kanti intombazane evela emnyangweni olandelayo ayizange igqoke isiketi esifushane esaziqhayisa ngalo izolo?
Ake sibheke inkinga ngaphakathi futhi sizame ukuthola ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze kule simo.
Ngokwe-2009, cishe amaphesenti angama-80 emindeni yaseRussia abhekana nobudlova basekhaya ngendlela ehlukile. Futhi, okungukuthi, isibhamu sokuhlasela sithatha indawo yokuqala. Owesifazane oye wahlaselwa umyeni wakhe akafuni usizo kunoma yikuphi. Futhi, empeleni, kuphi ukubiza? Nge-hotline yocingo kuphela, futhi uxoxe no-opharetha, ngubani, ngeshwa, angeke asize futhi angenzi lutho.
Ukuvimbela udlame lwasekhaya, kubalulekile ukufeza izinyathelo ezihlose ukusekelwa kwezenhlalakahle nokuvikelwa kwabesifazane. Usizo lwezokwelapha, ngokomthetho nangokwengqondo kufanele lucatshangelwe. E-Russia, okwamanje, ayikho insizakalo enjalo.
Okumangalisa ukuthi, okuhlangenwe nakho okuphumelele kakhulu ekuvinjeni ubudlova basekhaya kukhona e-United States. Noma yimuphi umMelika oye wahlukunyezwa ngumyeni wakhe angase athuthe isikhashana esikhungweni sokusekela umphakathi lapho angathola usizo olufanele futhi azifihle kumyeni wakhe onobudlova. Bayosiza ukulungisa iqiniso lokushaya, ukunikeza wonke amadokhumenti adingekayo. Umhlali wase-United States akayena yedwa enkingeni yakhe, unokuningi okuzokwenza. Futhi yini okufanele abesifazane baseRashiya benze?
Okokuqala, kunengqondo ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi ingozi kuwe nabantwana bakho enikezwa ngumyeni ohlukumezayo, nokuthi unganciphisa kanjani ukubethwa, futhi ngisho nakakhulu, ubayeke ngokuphelele. Ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zeengozi zamadoda ezikhona.
I-animator.
Ngaphandle kuyindoda enomndeni enhle, ihlale ikhubaza, ihle futhi ivulekile nabangaphandle. Akekho owake wakwazi ukukhuluma ngomuntu onjalo ukuthi uyakwazi ukuhlukumeza ekhaya. Abangani bakho banomona ngesibindi ukuthi ushada nomuntu onjalo omuhle. Indoda emsebenzini iyona mholi, enkampanini yabangane - ifoni enkulu. Inomusa omuhle, ilandelela yona ngokwayo.
Ukushaya umkakhe ngesimo esibucayi. Ukuze uphume kuye, igama elilodwa lezwi lakho elingalungile lwanele. Ukungaphumeleli ngencazelo, uqinisekile ukuthi uyakujezisa ngokufanele, ngemuva kwakho konke, "uyasola."
I-Despot.
Umhlukumezi ovamile. Ulawula emndenini, uziphatha ngendlela afunayo. Uhlangana nabangani, ungadakwa ekhaya. Usebenza ngezibhamu zokuhlasela njengaleyo, akadingi isizathu. Njengomthetho, ngesikhathi sokushaya umuntu udakiwe. Ekuseni ngeke akhumbule okwenzekile, futhi akasoze axolisa. I-psychology ye-despot ilula kakhulu: "ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukushaya umkakho ukuze azi indawo yakhe."
Ukulahleka.
Indoda enjalo ibhekene nokuzithoba okukhulu, inokuhluleka okuningi empilweni yakhe, futhi uzama ukunganeliseki kwakhe emhlabeni futhi ngokwakhe ekushayweni komfazi ongenacala. Umuntu onjalo, njengombuso, ngezinye izikhathi uphuza, angaya "ngakwesokunxele". Uzama ukubonisa amandla akhe kumfazi obuthakathaka. Bala isilawuli ngezimpawu zangaphandle kunzima kakhulu.
Ukuhlubuka.
Ungumuntu omuhle kakhulu womndeni, uthanda umkakhe nezingane. Emsebenzini kuyakwaziswa, ngenkampani yabangane - bahlonishwa. Usiza nxazonke zendlu, ngegama, indoda ephelele. Uqeda izandla zakhe kuphela ngokuphuza okujulile nasezikhungweni ezinkulu. Ngezenzo zakhe, bese uxolisa, futhi uzoba nosizi kakhulu ngalokho okwenzekile.
Njengomthetho, emindenini enjalo owesifazane ngokwakhe uqala ukushaywa, ekholelwa ukuthi angatshela umuntu noma yini ngokuphepha okuphelele kuye. Khumbula ukuthi ungathola umuntu ngaphandle kwakhe ngegama elilodwa nje.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma impilo yakho yokuguga iphendukela esihogweni, uyesaba yini umyeni wakho? Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi usulungele yini ukuqhubeka uhlala nomuntu onjalo. Khumbula ukuthi uma kwenzeka ukushaya, kungenzeka futhi.
Endabeni yeDespot noZhivader, ungabiza ngokuphepha amaphoyisa, ngokuqinisekile uzofika futhi athathe umyeni ohlukumezayo okwesikhashana. Futhi ungesabi imibono yomakhelwane, izihlobo nabajwayele. Unenkinga futhi udinga usizo.
Kukhona izinsizakalo ezikhethekile zokusekela umphakathi, ukuxhumana nabo, ungathola usizo lobuchwepheshe nezeluleko. Ama-psychologists abanolwazi bayokutshela indlela yokuziphatha nokuzivikela ekuhlukunyezweni kwasekhaya.
Yiba yiqiniso ukuthi wena, kodwa owesifazane akafanelanga ukushaywa futhi akaphoqelekile ukuba ahlale nendoda ethintekayo. Mhlawumbe indlela ewukuphela kweqiniso yilehlukaniso.