Umshado ukuqhubeka kahle kweveli, ngakho-ke lolu suku kufanele lube yilokho okungakhohlwa, olujabulisayo futhi olujabulisayo empilweni yabathandi ababili. Ukuhlengwa komlobokazi, ukubeka izimbali ezikhumbuzo zomlando, ukugibela emishadweni yomshado ezungeze umuzi, incazelo yomnikazi womndeni ngosizo lwe-caravane, izinyembezi zokuthandana zothando "Zezinhlungu!" Futhi izivakashi ezijabulayo ezihlanganyela emincintiswaneni yomshado yizo zonke izinto ezenza umshado. Kodwa kunezinye izindlela zokuba nomshado omnandi, okwenza kube umshado wamaphupho akho!
Izihloko zomshado
Yiba nomshado ojabulisayo labo abacabangela phambili yonke imininingwane yomkhosi. Kungani ungaqale ngalokhu? Kumelwe nakanjani uthathe isinqumo ngesitayela somshado nezindikimba zawo. Kungaba yinkampani eqoshiwe efomini, i "Gangsters", "Dandies" noma umshado emasikweni ekhulu lokugcina. Njengoba unqume ukuthi yiliphi isihloko ofuna ukugubha, ungakhohlwa ukuxwayisa zonke izivakashi kusengaphambili ukuze zilungiselele. Khumbula ukuthi umshado onjalo, njengombuso, uqala ukuhlelwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Ifomethi yosuku
Uma usuqedile isihloko, udinga ukucabanga ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani lolu suku. Kudingeka ucabange ukuthi ungaphila umkhosi omnandi nonokulibaleka. Ungafaka isicelo ku-ejensi yomshado bese uthola mayelana nenkonzo enikeza "ukubhaliswa kokuphuma". Ngokusekelwe kwesicelo sakho, le nhlangano ikuhlela umdwebo hhayi ehhovisi lokubhalisa le-banal, kodwa nomaphi lapho umphefumulo wakho ufisa khona. Isibonelo, ungangena ngemvume endaweni engakhohlwayo umbhangqwana osanda kushada (indawo yokuzijwayela kwabo, ukubanga kuqala, ukunikezwa kwesandla nenhliziyo) noma emagqabeni anambala agxile olwandle, njll.
Ngemuva kwesigaba esisemthethweni, udinga ukuya emkhosini omkhulu futhi lapha futhi udinga ukucabanga ngendawo yesidlo somshado. Indawo yokudlela - lesi yisisombululo esihle, kodwa siyazijwayele. Kungani ungabambeli idili (uma umshado uthatha ehlobo) esikebheni? Ufuna iholidi elinokuthula ngaphezulu? Susa indlu yonke yokudansa kwamahhala wezivakashi kanye nedili elihlukumezayo. Uma ukhetha noma yikuphi okukhethwa kukho, ungakhohlwa ukucabangela izintandokazi, inombolo nenani lezivakashi.
Imininingwane yokugubha
Qinisekisa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lolu suku alukho kwimemori yakho kuphela kanye nenkumbulo yezivakashi, kepha futhi mayelana nakho kubonise ubufakazi obubukwayo ngezindlela zezithombe namavidiyo. Kuze kube sekugcineni, mema umdwebi wezithombe zokudala. Xoxa naye kusengaphambili ukuthi yini i-photoshoot ofuna ukuyibamba. Yebo, uma ufuna ukunikeza iseshini sesithombe ingxenye ebalulekile yesikhathi, ungathatha isithombe sosuku ngaphambi komshado.
Ungaba kanjani nomshado ojabulisayo ngaphandle kwe-toastmaster ehlakaniphile eyokusiza wena nezivakashi ezimenyiwe? Ukukhethwa komphathi wezinsizakalo kufanele kusondele kakhulu, ngoba kuzoxhomekeka kuyo yonke imikhosi yomkhosi. Lolu hlelo kufanele lukhethwe, lulungise bonke, ngenkathi kucatshangelwa isigaba seminyaka kanye nemisebenzi yezivakashi. Uma kukhona abantu abasha kanye nabantu asebekhulile ohlwini lwababamemile, cela umgqugquzeli ukuba afake ohlelweni lokuvimbela izizukulwane zombili.
Ngomshado kunconywa ukuba unake ngamunye wezivakashi ezimenyiwe. Ngokuqinisekile izivakashi zizothanda, uma okungenani imizuzu embalwa zizoba isikhungo sokunakwa. Ngalesi sizathu, cela umphathi wezinsizakalo ukuba abhale i-couplet encane kulabo abakhona ngalowo nalowo. Yazisa ulwazi oludingekile mayelana nalabo obakhethayo kubo bonke, kulokhu ngamunye izivakashi zizoqonda ukuthi leli vesi libhekiswe kuye.
Ufuna ukuzijabulisa, uhlele imincintiswano nemidanso - into ebalulekile yomnandi. Cabanga kanye nabalungisi abasha, abangaziwa ngaphambili kumncintiswano noma izabelo zabahlanganyeli. Cabanga ngokucophelela ukukhethwa komculo womkhosi. Umculo kufanele ujabule, uqotho futhi ungamcasuli noma ubani. Ungakhohlwa ohlelweni lwe-mini kusuka kumethuli ukuphonsa isixha somshado kanye ne-garter.
Kuyinto ejabulisayo kakhulu futhi umkhosi uzokwenzeka, emva kwalokho ungaya ku-honeymoon yakho yokuqala kanye nohambo lwesikhathi sokuqala lomndeni!