Izinzuzo nokuqeda ukuhlala ngaphandle kwedolobha


Ngokuvamile, omama abasha nabasasa bazocabangela izindlu kuleli zwe ngokubheka izinto ezibucayi nezindleko. Izimo okumele zikhulise izingane edolobheni kungukungabikho kwenkundla yokudlala noma ukufana kwayo okubi (futhi ngeke uthole ama-nightmares!)

Izinkimbinkimbi zokuhlala edolobheni, izimo (noma kunalokho, ukungabi khona kwabo) ukuhamba futhi akukho ndlela yokushiya izingane ezingalindelekile egcekeni lendlu yazo zenza ucabange ngokuhlala ezweni.

Futhi akudingeki ukuthi kube yindlu yokunethezeka - nje indlu ehlelekile, eyofudumala ebusika futhi lapho ukuxazulula, ukugeza noma ukugeza, indlu yangasese kanye nokuthuthwa kwamanzi okudoba sekuvele kuxazululwe. Emadolobheni ama-dacha noma ama-cottage engekude nomuzi, isitolo "somsebenzi" kanye ne-intanethi seba yinto evamile yokuphila. Ngokuvamile, kubonakala sengathi kunezinhlanganisela eziningi zokuhlanganisa. Kodwa kukhona ukungalungi ...

Impahla ezweni: ukuba noma kungabi khona?

Ukusiza ingane ezimweni eziphuthumayo eziphuthumayo, ezenzeka ngokungajwayelekile, ngaphandle komuzi kunzima kakhulu. Futhi uma ungacacisi kusengaphambili ukuhlanganiswa kwendawo yendawo yokuhlala yasemadolobheni, ungakwazi "ukugubha" nengane encane esibhedlela sesifunda kude nendawo yokuhlala, lapho, njengoba abadala bekusho ukuthi, akukho lutho kodwa uboya kanye nemvelo ...

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amaphupho angajwayelekile enza bazizwe. Phila ngaphandle kwedolobha, uphefumle umoya ngaphandle kokungahlambuluki kanye nokungcola kwezezimboni, ujabulele ukucula izinyoni ekuseni futhi ujabulise ukuduma kwezulu phezu kwehlathini ... Awukwazi ukuthola isithombe esingcono. Futhi manje, ucabanga ngezemvelo kanye nodumo, imindeni emisha ijwayele ukukhetha ukhetho lwe-suburban.

Ngezinye izikhathi basacabanga kakhulu ukuthi kufanele kuhlelwe kanjani izinhlelo zokuhlinzeka ngamanzi, ngabe ugesi uzosebenza kahle yini, ukuthi ungafika kanjani endlini yakho uma imoto iphinde isetshenziswe, nokuthi ngabe kungenzeka yini ukuba ufinyelele esikhathini sekwindla lapho yonke imigwaqo iphenduke ... Kodwa nokho, ngisho nokulalelisisa, ngezinye izikhathi kumangaze ngaye.

Izinzuzo nezindleko zokuhlala ngaphandle kwedolobha azibonakali njengoba kubonakala. Imikhiqizo ingabonakala iminyaka njengemvelo (ingabuyiselwa yomoya omusha namanzi ahlanzekile). Kodwa konke ukungalungi ubunikazi bezindlu zasemadolobheni ngezinye izikhathi ngokuzumayo kulindeleke ngisho nabazali abanakekelayo.

Ukucela udokotela ngisho nasesigodini sakwa-cottage kuyinkinga. Futhi uma umbuzo wokuphila uxazululwa yilokho isigamu sehora, okudingeka ukuthi ufike emzini? Uzosho ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka nakanjani esikhathini esizayo, futhi kungenzeka "ukuthwala". Kodwa uma, ake sithi, umbuzo awusiwo ngawe, kodwa mayelana nento ebaluleke kunawo wonke umuntu omkhaya anayo - izingane?

Enye inkinga yokuphikisana yizinzuzo zokuhlala ngaphandle komuzi ngesizukulwane esikhulayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngenhlonipho ehloniphekile, singabanikeza okufana nontanga yabo "yasezindaweni zasemadolobheni" - i-inthanethi, i-TV, izingcingo, ukuxhumana, imfundo ezikoleni nasemayunivesithi ... Kodwa kungcono kuwe ukukhipha ingane esikoleni, itholakala emgwaqweni olandelayo, kanti enye-ukuchitha isigamu sehora-hora ukubiza ngemuva kwakhe ensimini yomuzi, bese nje ususe ingane ngaphandle kwedolobha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona omakhelwane nabangane babo edolobheni abangeke banikeze icala lomntwana noma baphinde (ngenkathi uMama bephazamiseka okwesikhashana), bayomxwayisa ngemoto yokuhamba. Mhlawumbe ngezinye izikhathi yilolu sizo olungavamile olusindisa izingane. Futhi ukuxhumana nabangane, ngaphezu kwesikhathi lapho ingane echitha esikoleni, kuyisidingo esingokwemvelo sezingane.

Wonke "imibuthano" engaba khona kanye nabafundisi bangaphinde banikeze usizo lonke ekuthuthukiseni ingane. Emaqenjini amaNgisi noma ama-macrame, izingane zijabulela ukufunda ngesikhathi sabo samahhala ezifundweni. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali bayaphikisa kangakanani, bephikisana ngokuthi bayakwazi ukufundisa ingane, kusadingeka ukuba banakekele othisha abangekho lula ukuthola esikhathini sethu. Izifundo zepiyano noma ukuthunga nokuthunga zonke zilula kakhulu ukuthola emzini, kodwa kunzima - ngaphandle kwedolobha. Imisebenzi kanye nenhlalakahle yokuhlala ngaphandle kwedolobha nasedolobheni ayinakuqhathaniswa - abazali bakholelwa, futhi bamane bakhethe inketho abayithandayo, kusengaphambili ukubuyisana nazo zonke izinsizakalo zomsebenzi.

Ngakho-ke, ukunciphisa izingane zokukhula endaweni enobungane futhi ephephile kubo, futhi uhlale edolobheni, naphezu kwezindlu eziphakeme? Cha nakancane. Kodwa ukuze ucabange ngekusasa, mayelana nesikhathi lapho umndeni unesizukulwane esilandelayo, kufanelekile ukuthola zonke izinketho ezizoba lula kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni.

Ithuba lokuthola kalula emakhaya ase-suburban esitimeleni, esitimeleni noma ehamba njalo ibhasi - lokhu kuhlanganisa okucacile. Enye inzuzo yizindlu, eziseduze nanoma yimuphi umasipala noma esibhedlela. Ngezimpelasonto kufanelekile ukuhlela ukuya enkundleni yaseshashalazini, i-cinema, ukuthola amathuba okunikeza izingane ukuthi zikhulume neontanga zabo futhi ngaphezu kwezifundo. Futhi kuphela, njengoba unikeze zonke izici zokuphila kwezwe, ungathenga ikamelo elenziwe ngomumo noma uqale ukwakha ipharadesi lakho esifubeni semvelo.

Ukucabangela zonke izinzuzo nezingozi zokuhlala ngaphandle kwedolobha, ungahlela indlu futhi udale impilo ophuphayo ebusheni obude. Isibonelo, ukuba nobaba nabantwana abaqhuba umnsalo owenziwe ngezandla zabo. Kuwe ekuseni wabingelela umsindo wezinhlanzi nokucula kwezinyoni. Ukuze ukwazi ukuya kumakhelwane ekuseni, futhi sijabulise izingane ezinobisi olusha, olusha, hhayi isitolo kusuka kuphakheji.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugcwalise amaphupho akho kufike kuwe. Futhi uma ukwesaba kakhulu wena kanye nempilo yezingane zakho, emgwaqweni nasezinkambeni - akekho ophazamisa ukugcwalisa izifundo zezingane noma ukubhalisa eqenjini le-aikido, ukugcina isitifiketi esihle sokusiza endlini futhi ungavumeli umyeni angenayo imfundo efanele yamathuluzi amandla :)