Kungani igazi liphupha ngokuya esikhathini?

Ngokuvamile, amaphupho lapho kutholakala khona igazi kubangelwa imizwelo emibi. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ukuchazwa kuyoba kubi. Isibonelo, iphupho lapho ubona khona igazi kusukela esikhathini ukuya enkathini linenani elikhulu lamanani kuye ngokuthi isakhiwo noma ubulili bomphuphi.

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Ukukhulelwa kwanyanga zonke kubonakala ngathi Uma igazi liphuma emaphilweni omuntu

Abesifazane bangabona amaphupho anjalo, lapho bekhona futhi kufanele baqale ukuya esikhathini. Akukho mqondo othize wombono ongathwali, kepha ukhombisa kuphela ukuthi le ndoda iyesaba kakhulu futhi ingaphansi kokucindezeleka.

Encwadini yokuphupha iVanga kuthiwa kwabanye besifazane amaphupho anjalo aphenduka izifo zezinkinga zesifo somzimba.

Uma uphupha njalo ngenyanga, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bafika ngokoqobo, bese ubambelela ukubaluleka kulolo phupho akufanele kube. Kodwa kulabo abalindele ukuqala kokuya esikhathini, lo mbono ovela endaweni yokucabanga kwengqondo kusho ukuthi intombazane ikhathazekile kakhulu ngalokhu, esaba ukukhulelwa okungafuneki noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ilindele kulo.

Uthini owesifazane okhulelwe wanyanga zonke ubonakala?

Njengoba uyazi, abesifazane besimweni esithakazelisayo basuke bevame ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo futhi basolisa kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, iphupho mayelana nokuya esikhathini lingamcasula umama ozayo. Sigijimela ukuqinisekisa ukuthi imibono enjalo ayithwali ukubaluleka okungalungile.

• Okhulelwe, obonile iphupho lenyanga, angathula, ngoba lokhu kuyisignali enhle kakhulu. Okusele kokukhulelwa kuyoba lula ngokumangalisayo, futhi ukubeletha kuyoba okusheshayo futhi kungabi nobuhlungu.
• Intombazane eyibona igazi ngaphambi komcimbi obalulekile njengomama kufanele yazi ukuthi impumelelo "yomcimbi" iyoxhomeke ngokuphelele ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni kwayo.
• Bona indlela leyo nyangazonke eyabanjwa ngayo ngokumangala phakathi kwesixuku, ithi empeleni, ukudideka kwakho kulindeleke. Mhlawumbe, imbangela yayo iyoba yindoda yangempela, eya endaweni engalindelekile noma ezinye izenzakalo ezihlazisayo. Futhi, uma uzizwa ubuhlungu ephusheni, izenzakalo ezingokoqobo kuzoba mnandi kakhulu.
• Uma ubona igazi ezembathweni zezintombi noma isihlobo sakho, kufanelekile ukubuza ukuthi izindaba zala muntu ziphi. Mhlawumbe udinga usizo lwakho ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezithile.
• Uma uphupha wendlu yakho, uchitheka ngegazi kusukela esikhathini, qaphela abantu abasha ababajwayele. Bangakunikela futhi babangele izinkinga eziningi.

Uma igazi liphuma endodeni amaphupho omuntu

Incwadi yephupho kaMiller, isibonelo, ayihlanganyeli amaphupho anjalo nabesilisa nabesifazane. Kunoma yikuphi, kusho ukuthi isifo sifinyelele.

Indoda ebona igazi ezembathweni noma emgqeni kufanele ibuye ibuke ngokuziphatha kwayo. Abantu abakuzungezile bacabanga ukuthi kunesidingo esikhulu futhi kuzohamba kancane kancane.

Umfana ophupha intombazane enezinsuku kufanele abe nesaba ukuchitha imali kanye nezinkampani zezimali ezingathandeki. Futhi uma lona wesifazane engumngane, iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu lokuthi insizwa ayihloniphi kakhulu lo mmeleli wesifazane obuthakathaka.

Ngokusho kwezincwadi eziningana zephupho, oshade naye angathola ukubukeka okufanayo uma engasenaso isithakazelo kumuntu akhethiweyo noma umhawu wakhe.

Njengoba ubona, ukuhumusha kwamaphupho anjalo akufani kakhulu futhi kuncike ezintweni eziningi. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukucabangela hhayi nje isakhiwo sephupho nemininingwane yayo, kodwa futhi isikhathi nesimo sangaphakathi sephupho. Kuphela kuleli cala ungakwazi ukuhumusha kahle umbono wakho ebusuku bese uthole isixwayiso esifanele mayelana nezenzakalo zesikhathi esizayo.