Eqinisweni, uma umehluko phakathi kwabashadile kukhulu, ukuphikisana kwangaphakathi kubonakala. Kodwa umndeni uyingqayizivele eyodwa, ngomqondo wokuthi imicabango yabantu abashadile nezifiso zabo ziyingxenye eyodwa. Uma kungenjalo, isimo esiphambanweni somndeni sihlukile, njenge "swan, umdlavuza kanye ne-pike" yaseKrylov endala, ngeke ukwazi.
Leli gama elibi - yobudala ...
Imibhangqwana enomthelela omkhulu eminyakeni ethile (futhi eside kakhulu, kumele ngithi) isikhathi asikho nje okuhle - kodwa esihle kakhulu. Into yukuthi umlingani osemusha (noma oshade naye) ngokungenakuphikisa unomsebenzi omkhulu wokunikeza futhi ulungise. Ophakeme, hhayi obaluleke kakhulu, owesifazane noma indoda - ukulawula, ukuxazulula izinkinga eziyinhloko futhi "ukhuphuke" "omncinyane."
Kulo mbhangqwana kulula kakhulu ukuwela esimweni sobuhlobo bomzali wengane. Futhi baqhaqhazela izinwele zabo, bebonisa indodana yabo ukuthi umfazi kufanele abe mnandi futhi omncane - kodwa lokhu akusizi. Phela, indodana yabo ithola "umama" olandelayo, obuye ukhangele embhedeni. Manje ukusekela impilo akudingeki ukuba ulwabalale - futhi akudingekile ukuthola ukuthi ubani oyinkosi yendlu. "
I-skirt yamamkina
Akudingeki kakhulu, noma izidingo zayo kulula ukwenza. Akagcini nje ukuzungeza indlu - ngokuvamile akadingi usizo. Umfazi okhulile usuvele "ushise" izikhathi ezimbalwa, ngakho amehlo akhe avaliwe ukulungele ukushintshanisa "i-macho" yezingane ezinjalo ezithandekayo nezithandekayo, ezithandekayo, ezithambileyo nezingenangqondo ... indodana encane.
Emva kwakho konke, umfazi kufanele abe mnandi futhi omncane - okungenani hhayi ukuze angabuyiseli ubuhlobo "nomama wamama" kuze kufike ngesikhathi sokuzala. Futhi akuyona indoda enamandla kakhulu kuleli zwe, ngezinye izikhathi ngakho ufuna ukufihla "i-Mamkina skirt!"
Kodwa esimweni esihlukile - uma umyeni ekhulile ngeminyaka engu-5-7 noma ngaphezulu - kunethuba eliphezulu lokuthi intombazane ifuna ukuba "indodakazi". Ukuphila okungenazinkinga ezinhle, ukukhathazeka okuningi nokunakekelwa kwemali, inhlalakahle yezezimali - futhi ngenxa yalokho, eminyakeni engama-40 owesifazane angaphansi kokuqondiswa komyeni okhohlisayo futhi abhekane nalesi simo esingenakuvikelwa. Futhi yingakho umfazi kufanele abe ohlakaniphile, hhayi nje encane.
Ezempilo nokubeletha
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi owesifazane usanda kuzalwa noma kamuva kufanele abelethe! Ngakho-ke, esikhathini sethu, lapho imibhangqwana enezibulo ingasheshi, futhi ukubaluleka kokubeletha kwasekuqaleni kuncishisiwe kuye, cishe umfazi kufanele ahlale enempilo, enamandla, egcwele amandla isikhathi eside. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzalwa kwezibulo ngaphambi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu kulungiswa ngokomzimba. Futhi kamuva kuzodingeka sizinakekele abazali bethu ...
Ngakho-ke, kunikezwe ukuthi uma amadoda "evuthiwe" ngaphambi kokubeletha, ngokuqinisekile umkayo kumelwe abe mncane kunokhethiweyo wakhe. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuzimela, ukuzimela nokuphumelela kwalesi "mthwalo" - injabulo engathandabuzeki yokuba ngumama - izofuna ukufuna?
Izinwele zide - ingqondo ifushane?
Umehluko emfundweni yindaba ebalulekile. Kodwa lapho la madoda ezokhokhiswa "izinwele ezinde", engaqapheli "ingqondo emifushane" - asheshe aphule. Ngakho-ke, imibhangqwana eminingi ephumelelayo yilapho umuntu, naphezu kwayo yonke impumelelo yakhe yemisebenzi, "engqondweni" kunomkakhe ekuphileni kwansuku zonke nokuphila kwansuku zonke.
Yini engasiza kakhulu kunokukhukhumeza izindebe zakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma ukukhononda kumyeni wakho nge-nail ephukile? Futhi indoda, ibulala izindiza noma ilenga ishalofu, iyabonakala iyadingeka futhi ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho, owesifazane okhaliphile ohlelweni lwezwe ngumcebo wangempela. Futhi uma enhle - ngakho-ke akanamahloni okuthethelela kakhulu, kakhulu ... Yingakho inkolelo yokuthi umfazi kufanele abe mnandi futhi omncane aphikelele.
Kodwa nokho ingqondo ihlukile. Futhi umfazi uyi-Ph.D., futhi "unomthelela omkhulu ...," okungenani kufanele ahlukanise phakathi kombuthano ekhaya, lapho enomusa futhi enothando, nomsebenzi wakhe, lapho osebenza nabo (mhlawumbe) abangaphansi.
Umndeni: uphile futhi uphumelele!
Izinkolelo mayelana nokuthi yiminyaka yobudala nokuthi iyiphi i-social strate yokukhetha umbhangqwana, zisaphila. Kodwa, ngokumangalisa, ngezikhathi ezithile kwenzeka ukuthi abaphathi bashade nabalobi, nabesifazane bezamabhizinisi - kulabo abangaphansi kwabo, isibonelo, abaphathi bezokuthengisa. Noma kunjalo, bambalwa abantu abaphila kulokho buhlobo.
Futhi ingabe kufanelekile ukufaka ingozi, uma uthando luhlala isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka, futhi uthando (hhayi ukudideka nothando oluvuthiwe) - iminyaka emithathu. Kwanele ukubeletha ndawonye ndawonye futhi usakazeke ... Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukulalela futhi futhi ukuhlakanipha ukungahambisani nemvelo ...