Okokuqala imizwelo yabesifazane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, owesifazane uhlale ecabanga ukuthi uyisisulu ngezinga eliphindwe kabili. Okokuqala, wadumala umuntu owamkholwa, okwesibili, uqala ukuzihlazisa. Kukhona isifiso esingaqondakali nesingaqondakali sokufa, ukuze ungazizwa ubuhlungu. Kukhona umuzwa wokuthi uqothulwe futhi izingxenye ezimbili, futhi ubuhlungu obuye baqhubeka buya enhliziyweni njengomcibisholo. Abesifazane abasabela ngokukhala okukhulu, izinyembezi - baqinisile, ngakho bathululela imizwelo emibi. Ungavumeli intukuthelo, intukuthelo ithinte wena. Kusukela kulobu buhlungu kanye nemizwa yokukhwabanisa ufuna ukukhipha kokubili izingubo ezibophayo. Ngakho kancane kancane uqala ukubulala ngaye lowo wesifazane ohlakaniphile, othakazelisayo, omuhle, owazi ukwenza imali, umama omuhle kakhulu nomfazi omuhle kakhulu. Futhi ukuze ubuyisele le ntokazi esinyathelisiwe yesifazane ingadinga okungaphezu konyaka owodwa.
Ukwedlula ubudlelwane - ungazami ukusinda le nkinga yedwa, ukuze intukuthelo nokudumazeka kungakushiyi. Khumbula ukuthi kunoma yisiphi isimo udinga ukuhlala. Uma kunokwenzeka, yabelana nomuntu othile ofuna futhi angakutshela usizi lwakho. Uma wabelana, ubukhulu besifo sakho buba mncane, futhi ungakwazi ukubuka isimo kusuka kolunye uhlangothi.
Enye indlela ukuthatha iphepha, lihlukanise zibe izingxenye ezimbili bese uzama ukuchaza impilo yakho entsha kusukela esikhathini esidlule. Ukuphila ngaphambi nangemva kobudlelwane. Kungenzeka ukuthi ungena esiteji sokuphila esisha futhi awuqondi ukuthi kuyoba ngcono. Dlulisa isimo sakho esibi kweshidi, bese usishisa. Vumela umlilo ususe konke okubi kakhulu.
Uma uqonda ukuthi ungagcina imizwa yakho ingaphansi kokulawula, udinga ukuqonda ngokucacile: ufuna ukusindisa umndeni? Kusukela kulo mzuzu lapho uphenduka waba sorceress: okubi noma okuhle - kungcono kuwe. Umusa - endleleni yokuthatha isinyathelo sokudala, ukulondoloza umndeni. Inkohlakalo enonya - eqhubeka nokubhujiswa okwaqala ngumyeni wakhe.
Ngeke sicabange ngemilingo kanye nezenzo zezintambo ezimbi, ngoba kuzo zonke izindaba zezinganekwane nezinkondlo kuphela amaWindi amahle athola.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuphazamisa, akusho ukuthi udinga ukuba nomthandi, ngokusobala ukuphindiselela kumlingani wakho. Lena akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kweso simo. Uma bobabili abashadile bekhona kule ndlela eyingozi - kulokhu, uthando kufanele lukhohlwe. Zama ukuphazanyisa - kusho ukuhamba uhambo, ushintshe isimo endlini. Izimali ekubukeni kwakho ziyasiza. Noma yiziphi izinguquko ziyasiza. Kubalulekile ukwakha isithombe somfazi ozolile futhi othembekile. Vumela umyeni wakho enze ukubonakala ukuthi uphume kangcono kakhulu. Amacebo anjalo azoletha imiphumela oyifunayo.
Asikwazelisi ukuthi uxhumane nabanqunu abahlukahlukene nabamalingo, abazikhangisa kakhulu emithonjeni yezindaba. Okokuqala, uzolahlekelwa imali ehloniphekile (kungcono ukuyisebenzisa le mali), futhi okwesibili, ukuhamba ngezindawo ezinjalo ngesistimu ephazamisayo ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle.
Akunandaba ukuthi ubudlelwane ohlangothini lube bunzulu, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi injabulo yowesifazane isezandleni zakhe kuphela. I-classic yathi: ukuphila kuyisimo esifanayo. Futhi indima eyinhloko emidlalo yaseshashalazini yenziwa owesifazane. Futhi injabulo yalowo nalowo wethuwewe, ngisho nalapho kubonakala ingabanjwanga kulobu buhlungu nenjabulo ngesikhathi esifanayo.