Sichaza izinkinga
Eqinisweni, njenganoma yisiphi esinye isimo, ungesabi ngokushesha. Mhlawumbe umyeni wakho usenenkinga noma izinkinga emsebenzini. Awu, yini embi kunathi? Kulokhu, kubalulekile ukukhuluma, thola isizathu. Mhlawumbe amadoda akho othandekayo kudingeka akhulume, ahlanganyele nawe, futhi uzoba usizo lwakhe oluhle kanye nomvuzo. Noma mhlawumbe umyeni wakho, ngokuphambene nalokho, akafuni ukwabelana nawe ngobuhle kakhulu. Yebo, yebo. Futhi ungamangali. Kuyimfihlo. Amadoda amaningi asetshenziselwa ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokwawo futhi, ngokuphambene, kithi besifazane, ngezinye izikhathi nje ukuzwakalisa, ukwabelana ngokwawo, kubonakala kungamukeleki.
Ubumnandi ngaphakathi = ubuhle baphandle?
Kungenye indaba uma umuntu wakho eqhuba kahle futhi esebenza, futhi enempilo, kodwa awutholi ukunakekelwa okufanele kuye. Izimbali ziphindwe kabili ngonyaka, ngosuku lokuzalwa nangomhlaka lwesishiyagalolunye kaMashi, kanti abanye abanalo ngisho. Ayikho into eyodwa, ayikho igama elifudumele, ukubukeka okungenangqondo okuncane. Futhi bheka u-Isex waba yinto elula, njengoba ethi, ngaphandle komkhuba. Kutheni kulokhu kwenzeka owesifazane? Ngifuna ukukhuluma, ngikhulume. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bayaphuma ngaphandle kwebala elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi bangasho kumyeni wabo: "Ngiyaxolisa, kungani uyeke ukungenza ngikuncoma? Futhi uyangithanda? Futhi ngimnandi? ", Nokunye okunjalo. Cishe, lokhu ngeke kuholele kunoma yimuphi umphumela omuhle. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi indoda izokuphendula, ukuthi ayikuthandi noma ukuthi uyisibi. Kuleli qophelo, kubalulekile ukuthi "uhlanganise" lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukuhlakanipha kwabesifazane noma ngisho nelungelo lokungasho, ngobuqili. Okokuqala, hlala phambi kwesibuko uphinde ubheke ukucabangela, ngitshele ngokucacile, ubona lapho ucabanga khona umfana, leyo ntombazane enhle, ejabule lapho umyeni wakho ayekuthanda kakhulu. Noma yikuphi owesifazane ohloniphayo onothando, kudingekile ukuba kubonakale kulungile. Ngisho nasekhaya. Ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eyishumi yokuhlala ndawonye. Izambatho zangaphansi zezintambo ezinhle nezembatho entsha enhle azikaze zilimaze noma yiliphi owesifazane. Ngikholelwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani lapho, futhi noma yini abakushoyo, ngisho nalapho emhlabeni wesimanje owesifazane engekho ophansi kunomuntu, isiqalo esinamandla asikalele emantombazaneni. Ngamanye amazwi, emadodeni, akekho owabulala labo bazingeli esasizwa ngabo sonke. Zizenzele futhi wenze umuntu angathandeki! Ngikholelwa, bobabili niyothanda!
Abesifazane abaningi kaningi abakwazi ukuziqaphela, ukugqugquzela ukuthi izingane, ukuphila, azikho isikhathi. Futhi noma kunjalo, uma ethanda, khona-ke kufanele abone futhi athande uhlobo lwakhe. Ungumfana, kungenangqondo futhi kungenangqondo. Ngakho-ke sonke masibhukude ngamafutha, sizohamba emakhethini futhi sigqoke izingubo zokugqoka nxazonke zendlu futhi sizibuze, futhi kungani le ndoda idumisa ubuhle obushisayo ebhodini eboniswa ku-TV?
Ukufaka kancane
Ngaphezu kokuhleka nokuzilungisa kwangaphandle, ungakhohlwa futhi ufunde ukuziphatha. Ezimweni zokuphila kwasekhaya, sivame ukukhohlwa mayelana nokubonakaliswa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwe-caresses nozwela, kodwa sifuna amadoda afanayo. Ziyizingane ezindala, ukuthi izidakamizwa futhi zinamandla zingabonakali kanjani. Futhi zonke izingane zidinga ukufudumala nokunakekelwa. Akumangalisi uma owesifazane eyeka ukuwunika umyeni wakhe, ngokubi nakakhulu, uhlala esika njalo, ukuthi umyeni wakhe ngeke afune ukunikeza noma yini ngokubuyisela.
Ngokuvamile, ngemva kokushada iminyaka eminingi, lo mbhangqwana nawo unomuzwa wokuthakazela. Ukuphila okuvamile kulala nabantu abashadile. Uzoletha izinto eziningana ekuhloleni kwakho okusondelene. Ngaphandle indoda ayithandi ukuhlolwa kocansi. Lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukuthenga esitolo socansi bese uthengela khona izinto ezingenakuqondakala nezindleko. Eqinisweni, konke kulula kakhulu. Shiya izingane ngogogo nomkhulu, thatha iholidini bese uchithe kuphela. Ukushintsha imvelo akugcini nje kukuvumela ukuba uphumule futhi uphumule, kodwa futhi kukubuke ubuhlobo bakho ngokubukeka okusha, okusha. Khumbula njengangaphambili, dozamuzhestva? Uhambe ngezinsuku, ugijime nomyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo usuku, wabanga bonke ubusuku ngaphansi kwesibhakabhaka esinezinkanyezi. Ngakho-ke, yini eguqukile? Ngitshele, iminyaka ayifani, izingane, sebenze. Eqinisweni, ngezindlela eziningi thina ngokwethu sakha izinkinga futhi senza ukuphila kwethu nokuphila komunye nomunye kube yizimpunga. Akufanelekile ukuzakhela umthetho, isibonelo, njalo ngoMgqibelo kusihlwa noma olunye usuku, uhambe nomyeni wakho othandekayo edolobheni lasebusuku, uphonsa endaweni ephephile noma uthathe ibhodlela lewayini ekhaya futhi ujabule. Kulula, ukukhanya kancane kwenhliziyo, ujabule. Futhi uzithanda wena. Amadoda azizwa. Uma umuntu nsuku zonke eyobona eduze kwakhe, hhayi umfazi othukuthele, othakazelisayo, kodwa owesifazane ohlotshiswe kahle, ojabule nothando, ngokuqinisekile uzokubuyisela okufanayo.
Madoda othandekayo! Naphezu kwazo zonke izinkinga ezisizungezile, ukukhathala, impilo yansuku zonke ... Ake sihlale sikhumbula ukuthi singabesifazane.