Ekuphileni okuvamile, ngokuvamile ukuqonda ukuthi unenhlanhla noma unenhlanhla kuwe kuxhomeke kuphela ekubukeni kokubuka. Omunye kufanele asebenze ngosuku lokuphuma, kanti elinye lisemakhaya namaphupho ngomsebenzi. Kodwa labo abangenalo inhlanhla empilweni, empeleni abamhawu. Yebo, awukholelwa kuwo noma nje ungayinaki, kodwa emhlabeni, ngokungangabazeki, kukhona abantu ababi kakhulu kunabanye. Abantu abanjalo babizwa ngokuthi "izinhlekelele ezingu-33" noma "ingozi yomuntu."
Enganelisekanga ngenhlanhla
Kukhona abantu abadonsa izinkinga yizo kanye izithombe. Abantu abanjalo abanenhlanhla nhlobo ngenxa yokuthi abanenhlanhla. Bavele bathole lokho ababekulindele.
Isibonelo, uma ufika ekuphumuleni okufanelwe kahle futhi uhlala ehhotela, kuyohlale kukhona umbhangqwana okhubazekile ekuqaleni kokubona kukho konke nakuwo wonke ama-nukes. Abantu abanjalo sebevele bevela emngceleni bathi bahlangana nabo kakhulu, ukuthi umqondisi uyisigxobo sangempela, ibhasi lihamba kahle, lixazulula izinombolo ezihamba phambili, kuyo yonke indawo izinkolelo zikhona kulowo moya. Futhi ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, njengokungathi ngenhloso bathola inamba embi kunazo zonke, lapho isimo se-air conditioner singasebenzi noma amacompu agijima, bahlale bekhohliwe ukushintsha ithawula bese beba ikhamera yevidiyo noma isikhwama.
Ngenkathi abantu abathokozile, abanohloniphekile nabanobungane emhlabeni wonke, ngaphandle kokuzikhandla kwabo bazuze ngandlela-thile amakamelo amahle emahoreni, bahlangabezane nezikhulu ezingenabungozi, odokotela abanekhono, abaholi abakhazimulayo noma omakhelwane abaqotho ababuyisela indandatho yedayimane elahlekelwa yizinyathelo.
Kodwa lapha akusikho isiphetho noma isiphetho, njengoba kubonakala kimi, akusho neze ukuhlobana nalokho okwenzekile.
Uma ungenalo inhlanhla empilweni, futhi uphatha ama-dents agciniwe, ke:
- cishe, awuboni lokhu nhlobo;
- uma kuqaphela, khona-ke lokhu kunqoba;
- ziqede izinto ezilindelekile; awuzange uqale, ulungiselele kusengaphambili "ukuchithwa kwegazi", ungenzi noma iziphi izibikezelo (akukho okuhle, akukho okubi);
- bafunde, baxoxe nabantu, bahlole ukuzwelana okuqotho kakhulu;
- futhi nje ukumomotheka kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi umhlaba, naye, uzomomotheka.
Umpofu uLucky Boy
Kukhona abantu abangena enkingeni abayingxenye yendlela yokuphila. Kuhlanganiswa ngendlela efanayo nendoda. Ngenkathi izindaba zezinsalela zabo nezinkinga ezivela ngaphandle zizwakala njenge-saga mayelana nokungabi nabulungisa kokudala, akukho lutho olumangalisa kulokhu ukungabi nabulungisa.
Lokho akunenhlanhla ngempela, akusilo inhlanhla, bathi ngabantu abanjalo. Ngaya ekhaya-ngikutholile ekhanda. Ngavele ngigijimela esitimeleni ngisuka emsebenzini, ngisindise kakhulu - bangithatha esiteshini samaphoyisa futhi bengingazi ukuthi babhala yini. Ngifike ngosuku lokuzalwa lwangumfana wami futhi ngidonsa izinyo zami. Futhi konke akuyona inhlanhla kuye, bonke bahlukunyezwa futhi bacindezelwa, bahlawuliswa futhi baxoshwa.
Futhi ngani? Yebo, ngoba lokho kuyimvelo. Abampofu. Cha, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi angizange ngibuyele ekhaya, kodwa ngakwazi ukuphuza futhi ngilwa. Yilokho enginakho. Ukuhamba esitimeleni futhi angabonisi ithikithi kumlawuli, ngoba lokho akuzange nje kusho. Le mpi kancane kancane yaba yinto yokulwa. Ngakho amaphoyisa awathatha. Futhi kanjalo ekuphileni.
Kukhona futhi uhlobo olukhethekile lwamantombazane ahlale ehlukene nezinkinga zobulili. Bahlale behlupha amadoda, bazama ukumthatha ngemoto, ngenxa yomhawu othile ongumngane ubulala, khona-ke banamafu ahlakaniphile ngemimese noma into efana nayo. Futhi abaqondi ngobuqotho isizathu senhlanhla enjalo.
- Ngangihamba emini ebusweni. Umfana onomusa wahlala kimi, waqala ukukhuluma, wahlangana. Saya e-cafe, sahlala futhi siphuza ikhofi. Khona-ke i-champagne encane. Futhi-ke uzoyibamba lejaja ... izinyawo! Ake siye emnyango nami, usho. Futhi ubani owayengacabanga ukuthi lo mfana wayengumuntu onjalo omubi? Ubani ngempela?
Ngakho-ke, uma unenhlanhla empofu empilweni, ke:
- cishe, uyazi lokhu, kodwa awunazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalokhu;
- kwenzeka, ngoba ngaphambi kokuthi uphathe ukungena enkingeni, uhlale ucabanga ukuthi: uhlezi nje isigamu sehora; uzophuza ingilazi eyodwa; bonisa umbono wakho, khuluma nomuntu omnandi, njll;
- yenza uhlu olucacile wena, okungafanele ukwenze futhi ulifunde njengekhodi yakho ye-PIN yekhadi lasebhange, uvuselele njalo ememori. Futhi ungenzi lokhu ngaphandle kokunye.
- Buza abangani (uma kukhona) ukubasiza, njengoba bethi, "inyoka" futhi, naphezu kokumelana kwakho, babezogcinwa bangangeni ekuzibophezelweni.
Inani elilahlekile
Ukuxhumana nabantu abalahlekile, asiyithandi futhi sivame ukuphikelela ukuthi zonke izinkinga zabo - kuphela amaphutha abo.
"Uzwile ukuthi uManet ohluphekile wayengubani!" Bangixosha emsebenzini wami, ngaphandle kokukhokha izinyanga ezintathu. Kwakunomunye onabantwana abathathu, futhi wayenezinyosi ezigcwele ama-pimples!
Khona-ke sikhwehlela, senza isikhashana, futhi sisho ngokucacile ukuthi uManya uqobo uyasola, ngoba ukuvuma ukuthi akuyona iphutha lakhe ukuvuma ukuthi kungenzeka kunoma ubani. Futhi nami nami! Kodwa abantu abangenalutho abanenhlokodolobha ayinakuguqulwa ngokuphelele kuzo zonke izinkinga zabo. Noma yikuphi ukuxhumana nabantu abampofu kanye namagugu angajabuli akuholeli kunoma yini enhle. Isidingo sokuqala sokusekelwa kanye nosizo futhi kuzokwenza wonke umuntu azungeze osizini lwakhe. Usizo nokusekela abantu abanjalo ngokuvamile kuthatha njengento efanele. Futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka futhi ushiye abantu bodwa abacabangi. Lezi zinsuku zenza umqondo omubi we-discordant morale yethu.
I-Unlucky yangempela ayiyingozi futhi iyinhle. Bona, ngaphezu kwalokho, balethe inhlanhla. Lezi yi-uszunchiki enjalo, ezinkingeni zayo ezingenakulungiswa kwi-logic. Abantu abanjalo bafana namaqhawe kaPilbert Richard. Bayohlale bengakhethi ngokungahleliwe isihlalo esinomlenze ongekho.
Abantu "izinsalela ezingu-33" zithandeka kakhulu, zijabule, zinekhono futhi zigcwele izintelezi, futhi azijabuli nhlobo. Futhi izinkinga abanye abazithola nokuthi ziyakhathaza kakhulu, kubonakala sengathi zizungezile kakhulu kubantu abakuzungezile. Ukuxhumana nabantu abanjalo kuphakamisa isimo sengqondo. ukuphonsa ezinye izingozi ezingenangqondo kumuntu, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukukhetha abantu ngenhloso efanayo, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ithemba, bazokwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo ngalokhu kuphazamiseka okukhulu, kuvele ukuthi basuke bexoshwa nathi.
Uma ulahlekile ngokuphelele ekuphileni, akukho lutho kuwe kanye neseluleko. Qaphela, thandaza, ukuba uthathwe.