Abantu ngaso sonke isikhathi bazizwela ubuhlungu futhi ngaleyo ndlela bazibekela ubumpofu, bacabanga ukuthi ukuba abacebile "akupheleli." Omunye ukhala ukuthi wazalelwa owesifazane, omunye ukhononda ngesibalo sakhe esigcwele, omunye ukhononda ngokukhula, umbala wesikhumba, ubuzwe. Zibuhlungu wena nomsebenzi ophansi okhokhelwayo kanye nokuphila okudabukisayo onikeziwe.
Isibalo semali sinquma impumelelo. Ngokuvamile lokhu ukubunjwa kuba yisinqumo ekuphileni kwethu. "Ngingumuntu ompofu, kodwa uma nginemali eningi, ngingajabula." Kodwa lena yiphutha eliqine kakhulu. Ukuphumelela empilweni akunqunyelwe kwizinyunithi zemali, kodwa ngenjabulo, okuyiyo noma ekhona, noma cha. Futhi umuntu ompofu kuphela oqinisekile ukuthi ukuba nesibalo esithile ebhange kuzomlethela injabulo. Kulokhu, ngisho noma unezimali ezithile, umuntu ompofu ngeke abe ocebile. Kubalulekile ukususa uphawu lokulingana phakathi komqondo wengcebo kanye nenani lemali kwi-akhawunti. Ingcebo yangempela yikhono lokwenza imali, ukubakhanga, ikhono lokuhlela izinhlobo ezintsha zebhizinisi.
Esinye isici esivela kubantu abampofu yisifiso sokuthola ngokushesha nakho konke, futhi, mhlawumbe, ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Abantu abanjalo abaqondi kahle iphethini ebonakalayo - uma uhlezi enkampanini eqinile futhi usenayo isamba semali, bese eminyakeni embalwa uzothola okuningi uma uzama ukufeza impumelelo, kunokuba uboshwe ukuthi uzothola kangakanani ngenyanga. Abantu abampofu abaqondi ukuthi kubalulekile ukutshala esikhathini esizayo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi kukhona umehluko omkhulu ekuchithweni kwemali - ukuthatha isikweletu esiyingozi ngokuthenga imoto engaphandle yamazwe angaphandle noma isikweletu esiwusizo sokuthuthukiswa kwebhizinisi.
Ngokuvamile asikho into eletha umuzwa wokwaneliseka, kodwa okudingekayo. Omunye akakwazi ukuma imibiko yekota - kodwa akekho noyedwa wabaphathi bakhe abangayenza. Omunye wesifazane uyakuzonda ukuhlanza, kodwa akekho ofuna ukumsiza. Okwesithathu kubangela umuzwa wokudelela umsebenzi wabo - kodwa kuphela ukuze bakhokhe imali yokuthenga imoto. Isidingo sokwenza izinto "ezingathandeki" kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi bonke laba bantu sebekulungele ukungakwazi ukuhluleka nokuhlupheka. Futhi okwamanje, kwanele ukuthola izinhlangothi ezinhle kulokho esikwenzayo, futhi umsebenzi ongathandeki uyoba mnandi futhi ukwanelise. Ngoba kulokhu kuphela singakwazi ukufeza okuthile.
Ukulondolozwa kuhle kuphela eminganisweni enengqondo, lapho ingaguquki ekuhaha. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi: "Ukukhokha ngokubi kabili." Kungcono ukukhokha izindleko zangempela zento enhle, esikhundleni sokuthenga into eshibhile - yilokho okushiwo isicebi. Yiqiniso, ukuthenga into ngesaphulelo noma ekudayiseni kunenzuzo enkulu, kodwa ungenzi inkolo kuyo, ube umuntu ohahayo.
Ukuze ungabi umsizi ompofu, kwanele ukulandela lemigomo elandelayo. Okokuqala, ungazami ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu. Futhi vumela umngane wakho abe nabalandeli abaningi kunakho, futhi ngokungafani nabangani bakho, usebenza eholidini lehlobo, khumbula - ungcono. Futhi owesibili - akakaze, ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo ungashiyi emndenini wakho. Phela, abantu abanamahloni ngemindeni yabo bavame ukuceba. Phela, ngumndeni ongumthombo wokwesekwa okungcono kwangaphakathi ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ngakho-ke ungacabangi ukuthi uyampofu, ungajabuli. Vumela ukuzonda, ubugebengu, inkohlakalo nokubandlulula - awusona isisindo esingahle futhi ngeke usibekezelele. Futhi uzohlala uthola indlela yokudala ukuxazulula noma iyiphi into engenzi inzuzo kuwe futhi uzophuma kuwo njengomuntu onqobayo !!!