Kuzo zonke izinto azikho igama elilodwa lapho umuntu ezwa khona kaningi kunegama elifanele. Umsindo wegama uthinta kokubili inkosi yakhe nabantu abawuzungezile. Amanye amagama azwakala kanzima futhi kunzima (isibonelo, u-Anatoly, uDmitry, u-Ekaterina, uJeanne), abanye bathambile (Natalia, Svetlana, Alexey, Sergey), okwesithathu abahambisani nango (Artem, Roman, Anna, Olga). Kudingekile ukukhetha igama elizobizwa kahle futhi libizwe kokubili ngokwehlukile kanye ne-patronymic.
I-patronymic iqala ukuthonya umuntu lapho ekhulile. Uma ukhetha inhlanganisela efanele yegama kanye ne-patronymic, uma beqaphele, bese bephila emdala, lapho ingane yakho izohlonishwa ngegama kanye ne-patronymic, yona kanye nabanye bayoba umculo kuphela. Futhi uma izingcweti eziningi egameni elithi-patronymic, ikakhulukazi ekuhlanganiseni kwamagama, ukubiza amagama kunzima, futhi igama lizovame ukuphazamiseka.
Kodwa kuphela ukuhlanganiswa komsindo akwanele. Ukukhetha igama, abazali bavame ukwenza iphutha - abacabangi ukuthi igama kanye negama elibizwa ngokuthi i-patronymic lithinta kanjani isiphetho kanye nomlingiswa wengane, amandla akhe kanye nekhono lakhe. Kudingekile ukutadisha ukuchazwa kwamagama acatshangelwa ithonya lomuntu obhalwe phansi.
Kungcono ukunikeza amagama anamandla ekuphetheni okunciphisa, futhi kuya kunzima - ithambile.
Isikhathi sonyaka lapho ingane yakho izalwa, futhi kuyindaba lapho ukhetha igama. Labo abazalelwa ebusika, kungcono ukunikeza amagama enomsindo futhi athambile ukuze akwazi ukubhebhethekisa ubunzima bemvelo, engokwemvelo. Labo abazalwa entwasahlobo banokuguquguquka, ngakho ingane inganikezwa igama eliqinile. Lokhu kuzongeza kubo ukuzithemba nokulungisa umlingisi. Izingane ezazalelwa ehlobo zikhuthele, zinesibindi, ziziqhenya, zibekezela. Labo abazalwa ekwindla bavame ukuziphendulela, abangenakho ukucabanga, abanengqondo ecacile, abalingiswa abazolile, bahlakaniphile, bayaphumelela.
Nazi ezinye zezibonelo zamagama afaneleko wokuzalwa okuhlukileko.
December: Alexey, Andrei, Artem, Mikhail, uSergey; UVera, u-Irina, u-Natalia, u-Polina.
NgoJanuwari: Vasily, Victor, Vladimir, Grigory, Eugene, Ignat, Ilya, Peter; Anastasia, Asya, Irina, Lily, Love, Lyudmila, Natalia.
NgoFebruwari: u-Alexander, u-Arkady, u-Valentin, u-Vitaly, u-Georgi, u-Ivan, u-Maxim; Alisa, Anna, Asya, Vera, Jeanne, Irina, Milena, Natalia, Rita, Svetlana, Emma.
NgoMashi: UBogdan, uGregory, uPavel, uPetru, uTaras, uFiliphu, uFedor; Antonina, Ruslan, Rostislav, Serafim, Stanislav, Stella, Sophia.
Ngo-Ephreli: uCyril, uConstantine, uMarku; U-Alexandra, uDaria, uKarina, uLidiya, uMaria, uSabina.
May: Anatoly, Herman, David, uCyril, Makar; U-Alana, u-Alexandra, u-Irina, uFaina, uJulia.
NgoJuni: U-Valery, uDmitry, u-Igor, uConstantine, umRoma; U-Elena, uMaria, uSerfima, uSimon, uStanislav, uTamara.
NgoJulayi: u-Anatoly, u-Vyacheslav, u-Georgy, uMakar, no-Nikita; U-Alexandra, u-Alla, u-Antonina, u-Valeria, u-Daria, u-Elizabeth, uKaleria, u-Lyudmila, uSophia.
Ngo-Agasti: u-Alexander, uGleb, uZakhar, uNikolay; U-Anna, u-Anfisa, uMaria, uMargarita, uTamara, uTatiana, uJulia.
September: Anatoly, Gennady, Gleb, Denis, Zakhar, Ivan, Myron, Pavel, Roman; U-Anna, u-Ariadne, u-Vera, u-Elizabeth, Uthando, uLyudmila, Hope, uSophia.
Okthoba: u-Alexander, uVladimir, uVladislav, uHerman, uGregory, uCyril, uMark, uMikhail, u-Nikita, u-Oleg, uSergey, uFiliphu; U-Alexander, Vasilisa, Zlata, Olga, uSophia.
November: Artem, Bogdan, Valery, Valentine, Victor, Grigory, Constantine, Maxim, Mark, Michael, Philip; UVera, u-Eugene, u-Elena, u-Elizabeth, u-Efrosinya, u-Irina, u-Maria, u-Natalia.
Lokhu, akunjalo, akulona uhlu oluphelele lwamagama afanelekile ngenkathi ethile yonyaka.
Uma igama nosuku lokuzalwa lingavumelani, umthelela wegama ekupheleni kuzoba mncane. Kunombono wokuthi igama liqala ukuthonya isiphetho kanye nomlingiswa womuntu kusuka eminyakeni emihlanu nangokwenza impilo. Futhi uma kungenzeka ukuthi kuncike egameni, kungcono ukwazi ukubiza izingane zakho ngokufanele.
Isinyathelo sakho esilandelayo ukukhetha igama ngenani, kuzonikeza umqondo wokuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwesiphetho elulindele ingane, uma uyibiza ngenye indlela.
Indlela yokukhetha igama lomntwana elilungile? Ukukhetha igama labazali kangcono ngokuzimela, ngaphandle kokubandakanya enkambweni yabangane nabangane abaningi, ngoba lokhu kuzokudibanisa kuphela futhi kukuhoxise egameni elidingekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile abazali abayithandi izinketho zabanye abantu.
Okokuqala, unqume ukuthi yimaphi amagama angabhekwa njengezizathu ngezizathu ezithile (isibonelo, amagama abantu abavusa izinkumbulo nemikhuba emibi), bese wenza uhlu oluthile lwamagama oyithandayo, futhi kusukela kulokhu, yakha.
Manje sekuyisimfashini ukubiza izingane ngamagama angavamile. Ngaphambi kokuba unikeze igama elinjalo, thola incazelo yalo, yehla, uyibeke kanye ne-patronymic yakho ngisho nangesibongo, ukuqonda uma kuzwakala kuvumelana.
Ngezinye izikhathi ekubhapathizweni komntanakho umpristi ukhombisa ukubhapathiza ngegama elihlukile, tk. ayitholi igama lakho ngoKhisimusi. Kulokhu akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo. Ngaphambili, izingane zabizwa ngamagama amabili. Lelo gama, lapho umntwana abhapathizwa khona, lagcinwa ngasese kubantu abangabazi, futhi igama lesibili lalibizwa ngokuthi liphila.
Kodwa lokho okungafanele ukwenze ukunikeza igama ingane ngokuhlonipha umcimbi noma usuku, igama elingekho. Amagama kaningi ayengekho amahle futhi awahle, angabangela ukulimala kuphela futhi aphazamise impilo yengane esikhathini esizayo.
Omunye kufanele aqaphele lapho ebiza ingane ngokuhlonipha izihlobo eziseduze, ngisho nokuhlonipha okhulu nogogo. Ingane ingaphinda isiphetho kanye nomlingiswa walo muntu, futhi ifa elibi lilula. Kungadala futhi ukuguqulwa kwegciwane.
Akunconywa ukunikeza izingane amagama ezihlobo eziye zafa, ikakhulukazi labo abafa ngokudabukisayo.
Akudingekile ukubiza izingane ngokuhlonipha amaqhawe amafilimu, uchungechunge lwethelevishini, abantu abadumile kanye nobuntu, ikakhulukazi uma isibongo ne-patronymic zihambisana.
Ungabiza ingane ngomthetho wamaKristu - ngokuhlonipha omunye wabangcwele abazalwa ngalolu suku. Uma ungathandi amagama alolu suku, thatha igama lomsanta owazalwa ngosuku olulandelayo, kodwa hhayi ezinsukwini zangaphambilini.
Indlela yokubiza ingane, unquma. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi igama lidlala indima ebalulekile. Vumela ingane yakho ibe negama elihle, futhi myeke ukuba akhe ukuphila okujabulisayo naye!