Ukuhamba ngesitimela: indlela yokuziphatha

Ukwenza uhambo lwakho lukhululekile futhi luhle, udinga ukunamathela emithethweni elula kakhulu futhi eyisisekelo ye-label. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi uzoba isikhathi esingakanani emotweni noma esitimeleni. Cabanga ukuthi ungenzi izimo ezingqubuzana nomakhelwane bakho, ususe isimo sakho sengqondo futhi uhambe hhayi kubo kuphela, kodwa wena. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ngenxa yokwazi imithetho yokuziphatha ngeke ukwazi ukugcina imizwa emihle, kodwa ubudlelwane hhayi nje kuphela lapho uhamba ngesitimela, imoto noma indiza, kodwa futhi ngesikhathi sokuphumula.


Khumbula ukuthi uma uhamba ngesitimela, ungabeki umthwalo wakho emgodini wemithwalo, ushiye konke okudingayo nawe. Ngokuvamile itholakala ekupheleni kwemoto yakho. Yebo, uma kunjalo ngeke ukwazi ukuthola izikhwama zakho futhi ngeke ukwazi ukusebenzisa izinto zakho, kodwa uzobe uzikhathaza ngezikhwama zakho ezinkulu, uzihambise ukusuka endaweni eyodwa kuya kwenye. Uma unquma ukusebenzisa izinsizakalo zesikhwama esiteshini, sicela ubonge naye nge-tip (njengokusho kwesabelomali sakho kukuvumela).

Khumbula ukuthi umuntu wokuqala emotweni yesitimela kumele abe ngumuntu noma omncane, kodwa hhayi ingane. Lokhu kwenziwa ukuze kusize izingane, abesifazane nabasebekhulile ukuba bavuke emotweni, futhi futhi baphakamise bese bebeka yonke imithwalo.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, wonke umuntu, ngisho noma enomndeni wakhe, kumele ahlole ipulatifomu ngokucophelela futhi asize labo besifazane okungabikho muntu ophazamisayo, nakanjani kufanele abasize ukuba bawacwilise amaswidi. Futhi abesifazane akufanele bahlazeke, ikakhulukazi uma imithwalo ikhulu futhi udinga ngempela usizo lomuntu. Zizwa ukhululekile ukubuza ngakho, indoda enhle futhi ehloniphekile ngeke ikuphike.

Uma uzobona umndeni wonke, akudingekile ukuba ume ngaphambi kokuhamba esiteshini kuya emotweni, uvimbela indlela yabanye abantu.

Uma usuvele uzinzile endaweni yakho, bese ulalisa bese ulinda isitimela ukuba uhambe, akudingeki ukuba uhlukumeze abantu sraussprosami mayelana nokuthi ninikeza umbhede wendwangu, uma beletha ukudla okunye okunye, njll. Ungabuza ngokukhululekile mayelana nalo kusuka kumqondisi wakho. Uma udinga amashejuli wesiteshini, khona-ke ungayibona emnyango wemoto (njengomthetho, ku-vishittam). Ngakho-ke, le nkinga izoxazululwa ngaphandle kwezinkinga ezikhethekile.

Uma unombuzo, khona-ke kufanele ucacise umqhubi wemoto yakho, hhayi umgibeli ohamba eduze ne-swami. Futhi khumbula ukuthi udinga kuphela ukukhokhela lezo zinsizakalo ezingashiwo ithikithi lakho. Uma uthanda, ekupheleni kohambo, ungabonga isiqondiso somusa, umusa nokukhathalela kwakhe.

Uma uhamba egumbini, bese ufaka, qiniseka ukuthi ubingelela abangane bakho. Amadoda kufanele asuse ikhanda lakhe lekhanda. Uma unendlela ende yokuhamba, khona-ke ungakwazi ngokushesha ukwazi wonke umuntu, ubiza igama lakho. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi lokhu akudingekile.

Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwenziwa uma umuntu ebona ukuthi kukhona umuntu othakazelisayo oseduze futhi ngifuna ukuqhubeka ngijwayelene naye. Uma ungahambi wodwa, kodwa nabangani noma izihlobo, bese ukhuluma ngezwi eliyingxenye, ukuze izingxoxo zakho nezingxoxo zakho zizwakale kuwe kuphela.

Uma unesithukuthezi, ama-apopotents afana, khona-ke ungaqala ingxoxo nabo. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukuxoxisana nabantu obaziyo noma othile ngaphandle kokuba khona kwakhe. Uma uqale ukukhuluma ngomuntu osezingeni eliphezulu, ke ungalizwanga igama lakhe noma ushayele umbandela ohlukile ngokuphelele.

Akufanelekile ngenkathi ukhuluma nabantu obabonane nabo, beziqhenya ngezenzo zakho, impumelelo yezingane zakho, ukukhuluma ngokujwayela izifo nokucasula abantu ngezinkathazo zakho, izinkinga kanye nezindaba zomuntu siqu.

Khumbula ukuthi lapho ukhuluma, kudingeka uhlale uqaphele. Uma abahamba nabo abahamba nabo bekhuluma, ungaqhubeka futhi uthuthukise isihloko, kodwa uma konke kungabonakali kahle, kungcono ukuthi ube nokuthula kancane. Kukhona izimo lapho uhamba nabangane abangenalutho, abangeke bavale imilomo yabo, futhi ungakhululekile ukulahla. Kukhona indlela yokuphuma! Qala ukufunda umagazini noma incwadi. Ungamema umakhelwane wakho ukuthi afunde okuthile, kodwa emva kokuba uyenzile ngokwakho. Uma i-interlocutor yakho ifundwa, khona-ke ungabheki kahle encwadini noma umbuze kulo mzuzwana. Lapho omunye ohamba naye eseqedile ukufunda, kuphela lapho ungacela khona izincwadi uma enesithakazelo kakhulu kuwe.

Uma uqoqa ukudla esitimeleni, uma ungahle uhlele endaweni yokudlela-vvagon, cabanga ngendlela ongayifaka ngayo ezingxenyeni. Qinisekisa ukuthi uthatha ama-napkins akho nawe, ukuze izandla zakho zingaboni izihlalo egumbini nasetafuleni.

Konke ongakudli, ukuqoqa ngokucophelela esikhwameni sokulahla ubeke esikhwameni esikhethekile sokulahla, okuvame ukuphela noma ukuqala kwemoto.

Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula!

  1. Akudingekile ukuba uthathe itafula elivamile endlini ngoba isikhathi eside. Kungenani kubi.
  2. Uma umakhelwane wakho eqala ukudla, yiba nesineke futhi ungenzi umbhede ngalesi sikhathi.
  3. Uma uthenge ithikithi eshalofini eliphezulu, khona-ke hamba lapho ngokushesha, ungahlali phansi endaweni yangaphandle.
  4. Uma unquma ukushintsha izingubo, cela ngokuzithoba ukuthi ushiye omunye uhambo, akudingeki ukuba uyenze naye.
  5. Ungaphonsa izinyawo zakho eshalofini elilandelayo, noma ngabe yindawo yomngane wakho noma isihlobo.
  6. Uma ufuna ukuvula ifasitela, bese uyihlola ngamakhuphoni wokupheka kwakho.
  7. Ungangenisi igumbi lomgibeli labanye abagibeli-izivakashi.
  8. Uma ubona ukuthi isitimela sesifinyelele esiteshini, bese uqoqa zonke izinto bese ulungele ukuhamba.
  9. Uma usuka ekamelweni, tshela abanye omakhelwane bakho futhi ubafisele inhlanhla.
  10. Ngaphandle kokungena, ekuphumeni emotweni umuntu wokuqala noma omncani ngeminyaka kufanele ashiye ukusiza abanye abagibeli behla bese bekhipha imithwalo yabo.