Lo mthetho wobuthakathaka, esivame ukuwubona njalo ubonakala kuyo yonke indawo, hhayi kuphela ebuhlotsheni. Uhlangana nomaphi lapho sifuna khona konke kube kuhle, konke kuhamba kahle, uma kukhona okubaluleke kithi, futhi sicabanga ukuthi okungenani kuzosebenza, sithandaza kuNkulunkulu, futhi akaphumi, futhi masinyane sicabanga ukuthi lo ngumthetho wobungqabavu noma kungani Ngingumuntu ongenangqondo kangaka? Ihluke kanjani umthetho wezinhloso ? Umthetho wobuthakathaka, ngumthetho wenhlanhla, ngumthetho kaMurphy, ngumthetho wes sandwich. Omunye wabangane bami wathi udinga ukuphatha konke "ngesandla esilula." Kodwa ngokuqinisekile akunakwenzeka, uma okuthile kubalulekile kuwe, akunakwenzeka ukuyiqonda kalula. Isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa awucabangi ukuthi: "Angiyikunikela namhlanje, ngizokhokha ngenye isikhathi." Noma bafuna ukuxoxisana, indawo enhle eneholo elihle kanye nethemba elihle lekusasa futhi angicabangi ukuthi uzocabangela: "ngeke bangithathe lapha, ngizohlala kwenye indawo". Kuzobaluleka kuwe nganoma isiphi isimo.
Futhi yimuphi umthetho wobuthakathaka? Uvelaphi, futhi ubani owasungula? I-Furrow ubukhulu be-intanethi, inqwaba yonke indawo efika emehlweni ami, angizange ngithole impendulo yombuzo wami. Lezi siteshi zabuza umbuzo ofanayo engizibuza wona manje. Ngithole umlando, ukuthi lo mthetho waba kanjani, owawusungula, ukuthi lo mthetho wangena kanjani empilweni yethu. Kodwa angizange ngithole impendulo yombuzo wami ukuthi uhlobo luni lwamandla oludonsela ukwesaba kwethu, kungani lokho okungafuneki kwenzeke kumzuzwana ongathandeki? Uma usheshe ukuhlangabezana nendoda yamaphupho akho, uma uletha ubuhle, futhi uma usuka endlini, amajuba ahamba phezu kwakho futhi anelise izidingo zomzimba wakho endleleni, bese kuthi lokhu kukwaneliseka kubonakala kwi-blouse yakho entsha, ukucabanga ngokuzenzakalelayo komthetho wezinkinga kubonakala ekhanda lakho , ngumthetho wenhlanhla. Pho kungani amajuba ahamba ngaphezu kwakho namuhla? Futhi kungani bafuna ukulungisa izidingo zabo ngaleso sikhathi? Wena nsuku zonke uphuma endlini, nsuku zonke uya endaweni ethile, kodwa ubaluleke kakhulu kunalo mhlangano.
Izwe liyathandeka kakhulu. Kukhona ukucabanga okuhlukile mayelana nesakhiwo sezulu nendawo yonke, lapho kuthiwa i-cosmos iheha zonke izifiso zethu nokwesaba. Kulokhu, uyesaba, ukhathazeke, ukuthi konke kwahamba kahle. Okusho ukuthi, uqondisa ukwesaba kwakho endaweni, futhi i-cosmos iyabenza ngendlela yamajuba, noma ingilazi yewayini iguqulwa kwisketi sakho esisha endaweni yokudlela ebiza kakhulu. Phela, isikhala asihlukanisi okuhle nokubi, futhi asiqondi amahlaya, ngakho-ke udinga ukucabanga kahle ngokuhle. Yiqiniso, konke lokhu kuxhomeke ekungeniweni kokufunayo nokungathandeki. Okusho ukuthi ufuna kangakanani noma ungafuni ukuthi lesi simo senzeke kuwe.
Kodwa kanjani ukuthi ungacabangi ngokubi? Emva kwakho konke, ngokungaqondile ulokhu ucabanga ngento embi, bese-ke, uqaphela ukuthi wenza lokhu, uyaxosha lezi zinkinga ezimbi kusukela ekhanda lakho elikhanyayo. Mhlawumbe sekudingekile ukuthi benze imfundo yabo kanye nezindlu zokuhlala ukuze bangacabangi ngokubi. Ngokuvamile, ukuba umuntu omuhle ngamaphesenti ayikhulu namashumi amahlanu angaphezu kwekhulu.
Lokhu kungenye into, lapho umuntu ekuqaleni ebhekisela kukho konke "ngesandla esilula." Mhlawumbe, kuncike kwimfundo, ngombono, ngesimo sengqondo somuntu ekuphileni. Kodwa lapha imfundo ekuqaleni ivela eminyakeni encane noma kusukela ebusheni, lapho imibono yethu ishintsha kakhulu futhi abanye babo bahlala nathi kuze kube sekupheleni kokuphila. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, isisekelo senziwe "konke okuvela esandleni sokukhanya". Konke lokhu kuvela ebuhlotsheni obungathandeki phakathi komuntu nezwe elikuzungezile. Konke lokhu kwenzeka ngokungaqondile, okungukuthi, umuntu omncane wenza iziphetho ezithile ezifanele embonweni wakhe futhi uqala ukunamathela kubo. Kanti nabazali abadala abathintekayo ezinkingeni ezikhulile, aboni izinkinga ezincane zenzalo yabo encane, bese lezi zinkinga ezincane ziphenduka izinkinga zabantu abadala nabancane.
Yiqiniso, kunezici ezinhle kulokhu. Ngokwezinga elithile, umuntu uqala ukuphatha konke "ngesandla esilula". Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi noma ngabe umuntu ungubani, akunakwenzeka ukuphatha yonke into ngesandla esilula, kuzobe sekubhekwa njengenye uhlobo lokugula kwengqondo okudinga ukunakwa ngokushesha kanye nokwelapha okuphuthumayo.
Kodwa mhlawumbe sithatha konke into? Futhi kuthiwani uma lo muntu engekho kahle njengoba sicabanga? Sibheka konke ngokusebenzisa "izibuko ezinama-rose" futhi sizikhuthaze ukuthi lokhu kuyinto engcono kunazo zonke engaba khona, futhi uma sishisa, okungukuthi, umthetho wezinzwa uphazamisa ukuphila kwethu okubonakala sengathi kuhle, sibonakala sinompilo omuhle, sisusa izibuko ezinemibala enhle futhi siqala ukusola umthetho ka-Murphy konke. Futhi kamuva siqala ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu akuyona into engcono kakhulu. Futhi siqala ukubuka ngokucophelela nokuhlola umhlaba kanye nakho konke okusizungezile. Mhlawumbe umthetho wobuthakathaka ulungile kithi? Akusivumeli ukuba senze lezo zephutha esingazenza, sibheka izibuko ezimibalabala. Futhi mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukubonga ngenxa yamajuba ngenxa yokuthi, ehamba phezu kwakho, eyanelisa izidingo zabo ezingokwenyama, ngenkathi ugijimela osukwini nosomuntu omkhulu noma ngokuxoxisana nomsebenzi omkhulu.
Bheka izwe ngokucophelela futhi uhlolisise konke ngokucophelela, khona-ke ngeke uphethwe yinoma yimuphi umthetho wobunene.