Iziphi izimfanelo eziletha impumelelo? Ingabe ikhona igciwane lesempumelelo? - Omunye waseMelika, yena ngokwakhe engumlimi wezigidi, wachitha iminyaka eyishumi empilweni yakhe ukuthola ukuthi yikuphi okuhlanganisa bonke abantu abaphumelelayo nokuthi yiziphi izimfanelo abadinga ukuzidla ukuze badonse izigidi zamaRandi.
Ngokuphelele, uRichard John, umbhali weG-8 (Mann, Ivanov noFerber), wathola izici eziyisishiyagalombili zempumelelo: intshiseko, ukukhuthalela, ukuhlushwa, ikhono lokuzinqoba, ukubekezela, ukuzimela, ukuklama, ukusekela abantu. ikhwalithi iholela ekutholeni injabulo nengcebo uJohane ukhuluma ngesibonelo sama-interview ezingamakhulu amahlanu, asithatha kubantu abadume kakhulu kuleli zwe: uBill Gates, Steve Jobs, uStephen King, uDonald Trump njalonjalo.
Ukukhathazeka
Le yiyona injini ebaluleke kakhulu futhi enamandla eholela empumelelweni. Ubunzima yilokho akuwona wonke futhi angatholi ngokushesha ibhizinisi elibamba umoya kuze kube sekupheleni kokuphila. Kodwa ungadikibali. Thatha iphepha bese ubhala lokho ofuna ukukufeza kakhulu emhlabeni. Makube amaphuzu angu-50. Hlanza ishidi bese ubuyela kuso ngesonto. Manje shiya kuphela izinto ezingu-30 kuwo. Ngemuva kwesonto, kuphela ngu-10 kuphela. Qala ukuthuthela emigomeni oyibonisile ohlelweni lwakho lokugcina. Ngabe ngukuphi lapho inhliziyo ishaya ngokushesha ngokushesha? - UBill Gates wayengumntwana ohlukumezekayo futhi ingane ebesabekayo. Ukuphila akuzange kumthande aze ajwayele izinhlelo. Lokhu kwaba iphuzu elilodwa lenombolo ekuphileni kwakhe.
Ukunyakaza
Abantu abaphumelelayo akuzona izigqila, bangabasebenzi. Umgomo ukhanyisa phambi kwamehlo akho ukuthi ufuna ukuyifinyelela ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ukunqoba, ukubhekana nawo. Kufana nokuthenga imodeli ye-iPhone yakamuva: ukulungele ukuma ngaphansi komnyango wesitolo, ukuze uthole kuqala. Ngendlela, isiphetho sikaSteve Imisebenzi nayo ayilula futhi ayizange iphule itsize ukukhuthala okungavamile nokunyakaza ekufinyeleleni umgomo - ukwakha ifoni kanye nekhompyutha engakabi khona. Sebenzisa emgomweni wakho, ungawuphonsa, ngisho noma ungakenzi inzuzo. Kholelwa ukuthi ngolunye usuku imisebenzi yakho izovuzwa.
Ukudala
"Yazi indlela" inkulumo eyaziwa ngayo, ikakhulukazi ngolimi lwesiNgisi elithi "wazi kanjani" (wazi-kanjani). Ukuze ufunde indlela, funda ukulalela konke okwenzekayo okuzungezile. Ngakho, omunye wezigidigidi zanamuhla wasebenza kanye njengomlondolozi ogwini. Watshengisa iqiniso lokuthi abavakashi basebhishi bayathokozisa ukuthenga ama-creams of sunblock. Lo msindisi wacabanga ukuthi ama-crams ayengalungile kakhulu futhi ngabe ngabe wenza into engcono ngenjabulo. Ngazama. Kwavela. Esinye icala, lapho indodakazi idangele ukuthi kungani uyise wayo imfwebula, futhi lezi zithombe azikwazi ukubheka kanyekanye (sikhuluma ngenkathi yefilimu yezithombe). Ubaba wasungula uhlelo lwe-Polaroid. Lalela ngokucophelela futhi ubukeze nxazonke, imibono enhle kakhulu emoyeni.
Ukubekezela
Akuyona yonke into efika ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi ukubekezela okudlulele kuphela kusiza ukuqhubeka ukuqhuma. Ukuphikelela kuqakathekile kangangokuthi ukukhombisa le mfanelo kunezivumelwano eziningi: ukubekezela, amandla, ukukhuthazela, ukuzimisela, ukuqina, ikhono lokungashiyi ibhizinisi laqala. Abantu abaphumelele kakhulu bavame ukuphikelela kakhulu. Umsakazi we-TV owaziwa kakhulu uForrest Sawyer, owanikeze umklomelo ka-Emmy, uthi: "Ngiyacasula kakhulu. Abangane bathi nginjengenja enothambo. Nginganikezwa emakhaleni, kodwa ngizobamba leli thambo bese ngiyigqoke, ngiyigqoke. Futhi amaqhinga anjalo ezimweni eziningi asebenza. " Ngaphezu kwalokho, izibalo zomlobi kanye nocwaningo lwakhe lubonisa ukuthi okungenani iminyaka eyishumi yokuphila kufanele isetshenziswe ekufezeni impumelelo.
"Ngicabanga enye yezimfanelo ezibalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi impumelelo ukubekezela. Kufanele ufike emgomweni wakho futhi uqiniseke. Ungavumeli izithiyo zikuphazamise. Zama ukufunda ebunzima, kunokuba uzinikele emseni wabo. " Steve Davis, isikhulu esiyinhloko seCorbis. Kodwa isakhi sofuzo asikho. Ngakho-ke, kusebenza kuphela kuwe, umgomo ocacile nogqozi kuzosiza. Futhi ukuqeda impumelelo yesikhathi esizayo ngeke kusebenze! Ngokusekelwe ezintweni ezenziwe encwadini ethi "The Big Eight". Umlobi uRichard John. (c) iCora Vander