Okudingayo ukwazi ngomntwana ezinyangeni ezingu-7


Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi wazi konke mayelana nengane yakho: lokho akuthandayo noma engakuthandi, lokho akufunayo ngomzuzwana othize, lokho esaba ngakho. Kodwa kunezinto ezithile ezimangalisayo ongazi nakancane ngazo. Futhi bayabakhathalela intombazane yakho. Mayelana nalokho okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nengane ezinyangeni ezingu-7, ungafunda ngezansi. Funda futhi umangale.

1. Baba ngabantu abanesandla sokunxele noma abanesokudla ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa

Kubonakala sengathi ingane yakho enenyanga enezinyanga eziyisikhombisa ayikhathaleli ukuthi uhlobo luni lwesandla lokubamba ithoyizi noma isipuni bese ukhomba izinto ezithakazelisayo. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo. Futhi nakuba ingane ingashintsha "okuthandayo" ngaphambi kwesikole, ukudweba ngakwesobunxele noma kwesokunene - ngaphakathi "ohlelweni" lwangaphakathi sekuvele kwacaca ukuthi yisiphi isandla esiholayo. Futhi ngokushesha ingane iyoqala ukusebenzisa "isandla sokunene" somsebenzi.

Ngokwezifundo zamuva zesikhungo se-fetus saseRoyal University eBelfast, ingane yakho yesokunxele noma kwesokudla ikhula ngokushesha ngeviki leshumi emva kokuqala kokukhulelwa.

2. Bangabiza ngokuthi "ubaba" noma yimuphi umuntu kuze kube unyaka

Lokhu kungase kubonakale kungajwayelekile, kodwa ingane encane ezinyangeni ezingu-7 ayiqondi ngempela incazelo yamazwi. Ekuthuthukiseni kwakhe kunomzuzwana obalulekile lapho eqala "ukuzama" zonke izihloko ezifundweni ezihlukene, aze aye "ngakwesokudla". Okufanayo negama elithi "ubaba". Ngesinye isikhathi, ingane ingashayela noma yimuphi umuntu oza endlini yakho njengobaba. Lokhu akusho ukuthi akabazi abazali bakhe. Ukusho nje kwamagama okufanele bawabize kuyatholakala kuye kamuva. Kodwa okumangalisa ukuthi lokhu akuvamile ukuthi kwenzeke ngegama elithi "umama". Ngokuvamile leli gama elithi izingane libizwa ngokuqondile ngokuthi umama, futhi akulona omunye umama. Mhlawumbe, uxhumano olukhethekile lwemvelo ludlala indima? ..

3. Abangane babo babaluleke kakhulu kubo

Mhlawumbe unomuzwa wokuthi ingane yakho ayizinaki ezinye izingane ezihlezi esiteshini esiseduze. Noma yena, ngokuphambene, uxabana nawo wonke umuntu, ezama ukukhetha amathoyizi ngisho nokulwa. Futhi unquma ukuthi abangane kule minyaka ayidingi nje kuphela. Uphutha! Ngisho nje ukuhlala eduze noontanga lwabo, ingane ezinyangeni ezingu-7 isivele isiziqhelanise neqembu. Futhi lesi yisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu sokuthuthukiswa kwayo - udinga ukwazi noma yimuphi umama! Futhi ngisho nezingxabano ezivame ukuxabana, ukuphikisana nokudabuka "ekuhlanganyeleni" kwezingane kuyadingeka ekuthuthukiseni phambili kwezingane, ekwakheni ubuntu babo.

Abacwaningi basanda kubona ukuthi isimo sengqondo esibaluleke kakhulu sokuthi "okungezona umzali" kubantwana. Bavele nje badinga okungenani ngezinye izikhathi baphume ekunakekeleni kwamamama abo ababonayo futhi bazame ukwakha ubudlelwano nabangane babo. Noma okungenani nje ube nabo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kubo.

4. Ungakwazi ukubala kusengaphambili ukukhula kwabo esikhathini esizayo

Ososayensi baye bahlela uhlelo oluthile, ngokusekelwe kulo, ungakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela ukukhula kwengane yakho kumbuso omdala

Umfana: [(ukuphakama komama + ukuphakama kwamapayipi + 13 cm): 2] + 10 cm

Ngentombazane: [(ukuphakama komama + ukuphakama kwamapayipi -13 cm): 2] + 10 cm

5. I- TV ayiyona imbi kubo

Yilokho okudingeka ukwazi ngezingane ezinyangeni ezingu-7 kubo bonke abazali. Eqinisweni, ukubuka i-TV kungasiza ngempela ingane ukuba ikhule ngokushesha - abacwaningi bathi. Kodwa kuphela uma izinhlelo zivumelaniswa ne-teleman encane (futhi manje kukhona eziningi zazo eziteshini zezingane ezikhethekile) futhi "zondliwe" zizobe zikhishwe. Ngendlela efanele, i-TV ingaba ngumsizi ekuthuthukiseni ingane ezinyangeni ezingu-7, hhayi imbangela yezinzwa nokuhlukunyezwa kwasekusaneni.

6. Umculo uyabasiza ukuba bathuthukise amakhono wezibalo

Abacwaningi eYunivesithi yaseCalifornia bathola ukuthi izingane ezazivame ukulalela umculo we-classical ngaphambi konyaka zibonisa imiphumela engcono ekuvivinyweni kwesikhathi sokucabanga nokucabanga. Bayaqonda futhi izinto eziyisisekelo zezibalo ngokushesha nangaphambili kunabangane babo abangenandaba lutho nomculo.