Ukushayela imoto kuthinta kanjani impilo yowesifazane?

Njengamanje, imoto ayiyona indawo yokunethezeka, kodwa indlela yokuthutha, futhi abaningi bamane bacabangi ngokuphila ngaphandle kwalo. Ngaphezu kokuthi uthola kalula ukusebenza ngaphandle kwezinkinga ezikhethekile, yenza ukuthenga okukhulu ezitolo, uphume edolobheni, ungahamba wonke umndeni ngesikhathi sokuvakasha, futhi uyeke uvakashele izindawo ofuna, hhayi okuhleliwe ngu-opharetha wezokuvakasha.

Futhi maduzane, abesifazane abaningi nabaningi bangahlangana emotweni yemoto, futhi lokhu akukona okungajwayelekile, kodwa kuvamile.

Ngokwezibalo ze-DGDD, umshayeli wesifazane uqeqeshwa kakhulu kunomuntu, futhi kwenzeka ukuthi izingozi zomgwaqo ezihilela abesifazane ziphansi kakhulu kunezingamadoda. Futhi konke lokhu, ngoba owesifazane, unezici eziningi:

Kodwa ukushayela imoto yakho akudluli ngaphandle komkhondo wabesifazane. Ake sikhulume ngokuthi ukushayela kuzothinta kanjani impilo yowesifazane?

Abashayeli bamanani abalingana basheshe bekhulile kunabesifazane abasebenza ngokuzimela. Lokhu kuthinteka ukucindezeleka okungokomzwelo okuqhubekayo, ukuhlala komzimba ngesikhathi sokushayela, umsindo oqhubekayo nokudlidliza.

Ukuphila kwanamuhla kuholela ekutheni umuntu owake waqhuba imoto akanakwenzeka ukuwuthengisa ukuthutha umphakathi noma ukuhamba, okuyinto engathinti nje kuphela isimiso sezinzwa, kodwa futhi isimiso sokuqapha, isimiso senhliziyo,

emaphethelweni emathunjini, futhi ekugcineni indlela yokuphila yangasese ingaholela ekudleni ngokweqile. Ngiphakamisela ukucubungula izici ezithile ngokuningiliziwe.

Okokuqala, ukushayela imoto kunomthelela okhethekile ohlelweni lwezinzwa, ngoba umshayeli uhlale ephikisana. Futhi uma kungenakwenzeka isikhathi eside ukuphumula nokuphumula, kubhekene nokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo, ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, izinzwa, okungaholela ekufweni kwezifo ezingathí sina zesimiso sezinzwa kanye ne-psyche. Ngokungafani namadoda, abesifazane bakhathele ngokushesha.

Okwesibili, umgogodla uhlupheka, futhi, njengoba kuyaziwa, izifo eziningi zibangelwa ukugqithiswa komgogodla, lezi zikhanda, nokuphazamiseka kokulala, nezinhlungu ze-coccygeal, ne-ischemia yenhliziyo nokunye okunjalo. Ukuze unciphise umthwalo emgodleni, kudingeka nje uhlale ngemuva kwesondo, futhi lokhu kuzomele ufake kahle isihlalo somshayeli. Ezimoto, indawo yokusebenza yomshayeli, njengombuso, yenzelwe indoda, futhi ngokufanele owesifazane kuyodingeka asebenze kanzima ukuze alungiselele yena. Ngokujwayelekile, ukuqala, udinga ukuphakamisa isihlalo, ukuwuqhube kancane, ukuze imilenze isesimweni esincane, izinkalo kufanele zibekwe eceleni. Isondo lokuqondisa, iphaneli yokulawula, i-knob gearshift kanye nezinyawo kufanele zifinyeleleke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukusebenzisa izembatho zokugcoba ezihlalweni, ezenziwe ngamabhola amakhulu amapulangwe akhiwe ngendlela ethile. Uma isihlalo singenalo i-backvex backrest ezingeni lomgogodla, ungabeka umcamelo ojwayelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kukhona isifiso, khona-ke ungakwazi ukufaka nokuzivikela, okuzosiza ukuphumula izandla. Uma ibanga ukusuka phansi kuya ezinyaweni liphakeme kakhulu, khona-ke ungasebenzisa umbhede we-foam, noma umthamo omkhulu uma kunesidingo. Kodwa ngisho nesimo esifanele se-trunk ngenkathi ushayela, ungayisebenzisi kabi, unike umgogodla ikhefu. Uma kungenzeka, yimisa ngasendleleni, phuma emotweni bese uhamba kancane.

Endaweni yesithathu, isifuba sivame ukuhlupheka. Phakathi nokulawulwa komshini, abesifazane bavame ukubhekana nenkinga enjengokushaya isifuba ngokumelene nesondo, ukubonakala, kubonakala sengathi ukulimala okuncane, kodwa ukuphindaphinda kwabo njalo kubangela izifo ezingathí sina, njenge-mastipathy futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuvusa ukwakhiwa komdlavuza.

Kodwa, ukukhuluma ukuthi ukushayela imoto kuthinta kanjani impilo yowesifazane, asikwazi ukukhuluma ngokukhona kwama-pluses omzimba wesifazane. Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezocansi, abesifazane abaphethe abashayeli abanesiqiniseko, njengombuso, banalo ubudlelwane obuseduze kakhulu. Kusukela abesifazane abaningi, ukuthenga imoto, ngaleyo ndlela bakhulise ukuzethemba kwabo, futhi bazizwe bezethemba futhi bazimele, okujabulisa kakhulu amadoda. Noma kunjalo, ngokusho odokotela, endaweni yezintambo kukhona ukujikeleza kwegazi okusebenzayo, okungeke kube ngcono kobulili besifazane. Leli qiniso elilodwa, futhi, lihlanganisa yonke imiphumela emibi eminingi yokushayela owesifazane emzimbeni, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuyeka izimoto ezinjalo.