Ukubamba kwangempela, okuhle futhi okuthakazelisayo, kungakulindela nomuntu owenza inhliziyo yakho ikhalele okungaphezulu, ophethe imicabango yakho imini nobusuku, okuthinta okukushayela. Nguye kuphela futhi. Ukumanga kwakho kokuqala kuyoba okuvamile, akukho okuvelele, uma ungenayo imizwa ekhethekile kumlingani wakho. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, ubani owaziyo: mhlawumbe ukuqala kokuqala kusalindele wena phambili? Futhi mhlawumbe uzobe naye lo muntu lapho imizwa yakho iqina.
Futhi manje umzuzwana usufikile. Isondela ngokusondelene, kuba nzima kuwe ukuba uphefumule, ikhanda lakho liqala ukuchofoza, umzimba wakho awulaleli, futhi inhliziyo yakho iphuma esifubeni sakho. Awukwazi ukusho lutho, kodwa amehlo akho azivale ... Izindebe zakhe zizithoba futhi zithinte ngothando. Isikhathi esincane umhlaba wonke uyanyamalala. Hlala wena kuphela, futhi akukho okunye okungakukhathaza ngalesi sikhathi. Akukho lutho, nguwe kuphela nawe. Umzuzwana - futhi ngokuzumayo uyaqaphela: nansi, lokho kumanga kuqala ukuthi awusoze ukhohlwa.
Ungaziqagela kanjani umzuzu?
Ukuthandana nomthandekayo wakho yisikhathi esihle sokubamba kwakho kokuqala. Lokhu, mhlawumbe, yilokho okulindeleke komunye nomunye. Ukumanga kulokhu kuzoba uphawu lokubonga ngokuhlwa okumangalisayo kuphela.
Ngosuku lokuqala, mhlawumbe, futhi ungasheshisi izenzakalo, ngisho noma konke kuqhubeka njengokujwayelekile. Kodwa ungalibali, ngoba okhethiweyo wakho kungenzeka abe nobunzima, hhayi ukuqonda ukuthi ngabe lokhu kungumngane noma uthando. Kuhle uma uhlala wedwa, ukuze kungabikho muntu okuphazamisayo. Ngithi ngiyabonga ngobusuku obumnandi. Uma, ekuphenduleni, umlingani wakho uqala ukudlala ngothando, ukuphoqa endaweni, ukubuka ngqo emehlweni akho noma ukuhleka usulu, khona-ke ubala ngokumanga kokuqala. Futhi wena, mhlawumbe, kufanele umsize.
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi manje uzokwenqatshwa ukuwanga, kepha noma ngabe lokhu kwenzeka, ungathukutheli, isikhathi esifanele sisazofika. Akubona bonke abantu abakwaziyo ngesikhathi esifanele ukuqeda ukwesaba kwabo futhi banqobe amahloni.
Ungamanga kanjani?
Ake siqhubeke nezincomo ezisebenzayo.
Uma ungabaza, uma insizwa yakho ilungele ukumanga, ungambuza ngokuqondile lo mbuzo: "Ngingakukhumbula yini?" Uma ufuna, tshela enye inkulumo, echaza iqiniso: "Ngifuna ukukuanga." Kodwa, yiqiniso, lokhu akuyona into enothando kakhulu. Noma mhlawumbe kufanele wenze ngaphandle kwamazwi?
Ngakho, i-oda lakho lesenzo.
- Wena nomlingani wakho nibhekene nomunye nomunye. Wena ukumomotheka kahle futhi uthi ngiyabonga ngokuchitha isikhathi esihle.
- Woza kuye ukuze usondelane kakhulu. Kuleli phuzu, mhlawumbe, uzozizwa udilika futhi "umhlabathi uzoqala ukuhamba ngaphansi kwezinyawo." Okufanayo kuhlangene nomlingani wakho.
- Vala amehlo akho bese ubambelela kancane ezindebeni zakhe.
- Uku kiss kufanele kube kancane futhi kube mnene. Ungasheshi, uhlale kancane ezindebe zakhe.
- Ukuqedela ukuqeda ukumanga - nokujabula okwamanje. Manje ungavula amehlo akho. Mhlawumbe, ukuqhubekela phambili kuzolandela, futhi mhlawumbe hhayi. Ungasheshi nje. Ngemuva kokumanga okunjalo, le nsizwa izocabangela ngawe kuze kube semhlanganweni olandelayo bese ushesha umhlangano wakho omusha.
Manje uyazi ukuthi ubusuku bokuqala kufanele bube bunjani! Ngifisa sengathi uqale ukulibala okungenakulibaleka!