Ngizokunikeza isibonelo. Enye intombazane yahlangana nesoka layo iminyaka emibili, kodwa yayihlala emadolobheni ahlukene. Babhalana cishe nsuku zonke, kodwa bahlangana kanye ngesonto. Unyaka ngemva kwemihlangano enjalo, baqala ukulala ngokocansi. Wayesevele enamantombazane ngaphambi kwakhe, kodwa akenzi. Ngesikhathi bebajwayele babevame ukungqubuzana nokubuyisana, waze wazwakalisa izikhathi ezimbalwa naye. Ngokushesha wayeka ukumvakashela ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, njengoba esho. Futhi wayekholelwa ukuthi wamthanda ngempela. Lapho ezwa ukuthi unina akayithandi, futhi unomngane othile wepeni. Akaphenduli imibuzo, futhi wayefuna ukuhlukanisa. Kodwa ngokushesha wafika futhi wanikeza izimbali ezinhle zama roses. Uthethelele. Futhi konke kwaqala futhi ...
Futhi abanye banquma ukuphendukela kunengqondo yezokwelapha. Isazi esihle asikwazi ukukunikeza njalo impendulo yalo mbuzo, kodwa uzokuzama ukukuholela esinqumweni esifanele, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, uzokusiza ukuba uqonde isimo sakho. Ngezinye izikhathi asazi ukuthi umbuzo owuwubuze ukuze uthole impendulo efanele. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga isazi sezengqondo oyokwenza. Uzokutshela okufanele ukwenze uma ubuhlobo buphelile.
Yini engayiphendula isazi sezengqondo? Ngabe angasiza ngempela? Abantu abaningi bakhathele kakhulu ngezinkinga abacabanga ukuthi zimbi kuphela, kodwa abavame ukukholelwa ekuhle. Kodwa kukhona njalo indlela yokuphuma, kungcono nje ukuthi kuhle futhi akuhle kakhulu!
Lesi simo siyinkimbinkimbi futhi sidideka, akulula ukuyixazulula. Kunzima kakhulu ukusho okuthize uma ungazwileki, uzama ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani, futhi kunzima ukuhlukanisa nomthandekayo wakho, noma ngabe ubuhlobo bakho bufinyelele ekupheleni kokufa. Kudingeka siziqonde thina: yini ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe - ukuba ube nalo mfana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi konke, noma, naphezu komqondo wokulahleka, ukwamukela isikhundla sakho?
Kodwa sihlale sikhohlwe ukuzibuza ukuthi yini esiyilindele ebuhlotsheni obuqaliswe ngaphezulu kusuka ohlangothini lwabesifazane kunokuba avele kuye? Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngokuvamile ubuhlobo obunjalo bufinyelela ekupheleni kokufa. Kulesi sibonelo esingenhla, isimo sinjalo ukuthi umfana ubonisa isithakazelo ekuphileni kwentombazane ngezikhathi ezithile. Futhi lokhu kubonisa ukuthi uyathandeka ukunakekelwa kwakhe, uthando lwakhe ngaye, kodwa ngokuningi akakulungeli. Uthando lubusa kuphela enhliziyweni yakhe.
Intombazane icabanga ukuthi ayiyithandi. Kodwa ukhohlwa ukuphendula omunye umbuzo obalulekile: uziqhenya kanjani? Ngoba ukuze sithande, kumelwe sizithande!
Uma kunezikhathi ezingaqondakali nemibuzo ebuhlotsheni, kufanele ixazululwe futhi ibuzwe ngokushesha! Ungabambeleli, kungenjalo kuyoba sekwephuzile kakhulu, ubuhlobo bubekwe eceleni, futhi isikhathi sichithwa. Kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umuntu omusha emoyeni, ngakho-ke kudingeka uzithole ukuthi yini esilindele kulobu buhlobo bese ubuza umfana wakho ngendlela efanayo. Ngokuvamile asibuzi imibuzo, futhi lokhu kuyinkinga yamabhangqa amaningi. Abavele baxoxane ngalokho okubakhathazayo. Futhi lokhu kuholela ngokungaqondakali nokuhlukana kobuhlobo. Futhi umsebenzi wethu ukuwugcina nokuwazisa. Lona umsebenzi womlingani ngamunye ebuhlotsheni.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ubuhlobo buphelile? Ayikho impendulo engavamile, ngoba zonke izimo zikhethekile. Futhi umthwalo wokwenza lokhu noma leso sinqumo ukhona kuwe futhi kuphela nawe. Kufanele uqonde ukuthi uzimisele yini ukubekezelela noma cha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuqhubeka noma uhambe kangcono ... Futhi lokhu konke kudinga amandla okuziphatha nokuzimisela kwakho. Kungaba khona amaSoviet amaningi, kodwa isinqumo siseseyakho. Lalela izwi lakho langaphakathi bese uziphendulela ... Futhi ungesabi lutho! Ukuphila kuqhubeke njalo, ngisho noma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi konke sekuphelile, futhi izikhathi eziningi zizokunikeza izimanga ezimnandi!