Amandla anjalo anzima phezu kwamadoda angcono kakhulu!
Futhi abafazi babuthakathaka, babheka ukungafi okubonakalayo,
Ngamandla, ukubaluleka nokubusa okunesibindi! "
(Cornel Pierre)
Amadoda afana nokulala ocansini futhi athande abesifazane abathanda ucansi. Lona i-axiom. Omunye wabalaleli bami ngandlela-thile ekuqeqeshweni wahlukanisa abesifazane bonke ngezigaba ezintathu - izimbiza, amabhilidi kanye nabesifazane abanenhlamvu enkulu. Kuqondene nabesifazane abanombhalo omkhulu futhi kuzoxoxwa ngakho. Mayelana nalaba besifazane. Owesifazane wangempela ngeke avule izikhwama zomhawu nomfanyana phambi komuntu, ngeke ahambe ehamba egqoke izingubo ezingcolile nezingubo ezipholile ezungeze indlu. Ngeke amnqume indoda yakhe yonke into eyiphutha futhi axoxe ngemininingwane esondelene nayo ngocansi lwango izolo nabangani bakhe. Futhi uzokwenzenjani?
Ubulili buphela embhedeni, kodwa luqala ekhanda. Owesifazane uyazi ukuthi ufuna ukuthini. Uzama, uzizwe noma aziqagele. Futhi isenzo samanje sefashini "fuck" singabonakala kuphela kulabo abashadile abangakwazi ukwenza uthando. Kuyinto Uthando. Ngayo yonke imfanelo ehambisanayo.
Ngisho nama-geisha awazi izindlela eziphelele zothando lokupenda - ukukopisha izenzo zamadoda abo, ukubukisa. Manje le nqubo isetshenziswa yibo bonke abamabhizinisi abaphumelelayo. Lapha ngempela imithetho efanayo yokusebenza kwengqondo - ebhizinisini nasethandweni. Uma ukopisha isenzo kanye nesivinini senkulumo ezingeni elingenasisekelo, lo muntu ubhekwa njengeyakhe. Kungcono uzwe lo mlingani futhi, ngenxa yalokho, uhlangabezane nokulindela kwakhe.
Owesifazane onenhloko enkulu ngeke azame ukuphishekela indoda yakhe, umkhathaze ngezingcingo zokusebenza noma i-SMS-kami. Lokhu kuyomenza abeke esimweni esibucayi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, lona wesifazane uhola ngempumelelo ikhono lomdlalo. Ukuzithoba nokuhle. Into esemqoka ekusebenzelaneni nendoda ukunikeza konke onakho - ukubekezelela, ukukhathalela, ukukhathazeka, ukucabanga ngakho. Bese uthole ama-akhawunti kathathu. Lokhu kwenzeka kanjani. Yilaba besifazane abangalokothi bakhohlwe.
Owesifazane wangempela ngeke abambelele embuzweni othi: "Sizophinde sibonane nini? Uyongibiza nini? "Noma emva kobusuku bokuqala echithekile:" Sizoshada nini? ". Owesifazane uhlale engumfihlakalo esimweni saso, kodwa yimiphi imfihlakalo engase ibe yinkimbinkimbi? Indoda kufanele ihlale izwa njengenkosi. Futhi yilo Mfazi ongamnika ithuba elinjalo. Ngowesifazane owenza indoda ibe indoda noma indoda.
Amadoda angathandi ukuphoqelelwa ukwenza izinqumo. Baqala ukusheshisa futhi ngokuvamile benze izinqumo ezingenangqondo. Ingabe udinga ukuhlola imizwa yabo ngamandla, uma lezi zindlela zingasetshenziswa ukudala ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo? "Wamshaya." Wezwa okungaphezu kwesisodwa. Yebo, akazange apepule, kepha wakwazi ukuthanda naye ngokuhlukile kwakhe, wakwazi ukudalula isithunzi sakhe sesilisa, amandla akhe wesilisa. Laba besifazane abahambanga. Mayelana nabantu abanjalo bhala ubuciko futhi badumisa ngamakhulu eminyaka.
Abantu banenkolelo enjalo yokuthi amadoda abathandi abantu abahlakaniphile. Abathandani labo besifazane abahlakaniphile kunabo, kodwa labo abamba amaphuzu abo ngobuthakathaka babo kanye nokuhluleka kwabo. Owesifazane ohlakaniphile ngempela ngeke abonise ingqondo yakhe kumuntu. Ungalokothi ukhombise ubukhulu bakhe kunoma yini. Uzokwazi ukudala insimu yakhe yothando, lapho okhethiweyo wakhe ezoba yinkosi kanye no-shah. Abesifazane abanjalo bahlale bekhetha amadoda abo abanenhlanhla nabanamandla. Ngakho kungani badinga izimfundiso zokuziphatha zabesifazane? Masihlale kubazali bakhe.
Wonke owesifazane uyazi ukuthi umuntu wesaba kakhulu ukusebenzisa. Uvame ukukhathazeka ngombono wokuthi owesifazane ngamunye ufuna ukumngenisa kumanethiwekhi abo, ukuphanga futhi "ehamba e-Afrika ukuqala." Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke umuntu ovuma lokhu. Ngakho-ke, i-mercantilism ebuhlotsheni ingaphazamisa konke. O, uma uvula inetha, ubabethe ukuze umuntu ngokwakhe ephakamise uhambo lwangaphandle kwezilwandle kanye nejazi lamabhande e-chinchilla. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lesi yisinqumo sakhe.
Lo wesifazane uqiniseke ngokuphelele ukuthi nguye kuphela futhi oyingqayizivele, akalokothi akhiqize mayelana namakhilogremu ambalwa noma amentimitha. Futhi uyazi kahle ukuthi into esemqoka ayiyona isayizi yesifuba, kodwa ukungabi khona kwezinkimbinkimbi. Indoda ayigijimi kusukela ekudleni noma emanzini, kepha ngokungaqondakali, engaqiniseki futhi ephoqelekile. Uqonda ngokugcwele ukuthi abesifazane abanjalo abanobulili obugcwele ngeke basebenze.
Hlalani i-ode Abafazi bangahlala njalo. Futhi ngamunye wenu, bangane bami, uzothola okuthile kuwe futhi uzokwazi ukuqhubeka lolu hlu. Siyazi kahle ukuthi iNdodana yethu idinga!