Ungasheshi ukuphendula ngokufutheka "cha!" Lokhu kuzoba ngamanga nje. Kulinganiselwa ukuthi umuntu omdala ohlala e-megalopolis uhlala cishe kabili kungakapheli isigamu sehora. Ngokwezibalo zengqondo, ikhono lokukhuluma amanga lingenye yezinto eziyisisekelo zomuntu njengezinto eziphilayo ezihlukanisa naye kuzo zonke izidalwa eziphilayo. Ngaphandle kokuba adlulisele esiteji esisha sokuziphendukela kwemvelo futhi esebenzisa inkulumo ehambisanayo, umuntu ohlakaniphile ngokushesha wafunda ukwehlukanisa ngosizo lwamaqiniso. Noma, uma ukhetha kakhulu, ungacabanga ukuthi amanga afundiswa yinyoka engacabangi eyakhohlisa u-Adamu no-Eva. Kodwa iqiniso lihlala: umuntu uqamba amanga kusukela ngesikhathi esesendoda. Futhi wena? Uthanda amanga - ngitshele ngobuqotho? ..
Ah, kodwa akunjalo? Futhi awuzange uhambe ngaphandle kwekithikithi empilweni yakho? Akuzange yini bathi umlingani wakho akahlali ekhaya lapho elala ngokulala embhedeni phambi kwe-TV? Awuzange yini uchazele abaphathi bakho ukuthi ucela usuku olubi ngoba ugogo wakho ugula? Awuzange yini utshele umshana osanda kuzalwa ngethoni yethenda ukuthi inqwaba ebomvu enekhanda elibomvu ngamehlo angcolile yintsana enhle kunazo zonke owake wazibona? Futhi umntwana mayelana neGrey Wolf noMalume onesikhwama, naye, akakaze atshelwe? Mhlawumbe, phakathi kwethu, kunommeli oyedwa noma ababili besizwe esiphephile sabathandi beqiniso abaphendule ngobuqotho "cha" kuyo yonke le mibuzo. Labo abaphendula umbuzo othi "Ungubani?" Ngokuningiliziwe mayelana nazo zonke izinkinga zokuphila kwakhe okunzima; ngobuqotho futhi ngokuzithandela utshele iziphathimandla zonke izinkinga zenkampani; kusukela phansi kwenhliziyo yakhe uyoba nesihawu nomngane engakaze ambone isikhathi eside, ukuthi "ukhule kakhulu"; umtshele umakhelwane wakhe ngokuqondile ukuthi akhethe isitayela somkhonto, okulungele kangcono ukufika emilenzeni ekahle; ngeke ukufihla kumama onzima ukuthi, ngokuphambene nesitatimende sikadokotela, akusiyo isisu esisodwa ...
Yiqiniso, abalandeli beqiniso ngalezizathu ezithile abathandeki emphakathini ohloniphekile, bebabiza ngokungenangqondo, ezibuhlungu, ezimbi, ezikwazisa. Kodwa akusibo abathandekayo beqiniso manje, kodwa ngathi, abantu abathandayo, abavela kulo, abakwazi ukuphila isikhathi esingangxenye yehora ngaphandle kokuqamba amanga. Sichitha isikhathi nabazali nezingane, osebenza nabo nabalingani bocansi, abahloli nabahamba nabo abangahleliwe. Kodwa-ke, amanga amanga ahlukile: angaba engenacala futhi athethelelwe ngokuphelele futhi akhuthaze, futhi angakwazi - futhi asonakalise, ayingozi kakhulu kumuntu ngokwakhe nakwabanye. Kodwa umugqa phakathi komunye nomunye umncane kangangokuthi akusizi ngalutho ukuwuwela. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi liphi umugqa, ngemuva kwalokho okuvela ezindleleni ezivamile zokuxhumana kwabantu okuba izinto ezilimazayo.
IZINTU NAMALUNGA.
Esinye sezimbangela ezivame kakhulu zamanga asekhaya - isifiso sokukhawulela isikhala sabo sengqondo somuntu siqu kusukela ekuhlaselweni okungavunyelwe. Kunokuba konke okwenzekayo empilweni yethu, kufanele kube yindawo yabantu abaseduze kakhulu. Kungani utshela umama ngxabano nomthandekayo wakho? Kuphela ukuze uphinde uzwe: "Ngempela, ngikuxwayisile! ..?"? Akulula yini ukusho ukuthi konke kuyamangalisa? Tshela umngane wakho mayelana ne-romance esivunguvungu ekuqaleni kwentsha encane? Uma izinhlelo zakho zingabandakanyi kuzo zonke izingxabano ukuze zilalele izinsolo ngalokhu - kunoma yikuphi. Abazange bathande noma ubani, bafuna impilo yabo yonke, balinda futhi balindela.
Isifiso sethu esihlala njalo sokubukeka sihle kakhulu, sincane, sincane kunalokho esiyikho, empeleni, akusilutho nje kuphela isifiso sokwakha uhlobo lomngcele. Eqinisweni, ngubani okhathalelayo, ukuthi singakanani ngempela, singakanani ubuchopho esinalo nokuthi ububanzi bethu buyoba bunjani, siyeke ukuzikhandla ngokweqile nokuzidla?
Ngesinye isikhathi, umuntu umane nje udinge ukuhlala yedwa, aphumele ngaphandle kwesigqi esivamile sokuphila. Emsebenzini, uthi ugula, oshade naye - ukuthi emsebenzini akuyona into enkulu. Ngakho-ke akekho owaziyo lapho ukhona, ukunethezeka okungenakufinyeleleka ngezinga lokuphila lanamuhla. Ukuze ushiye ekuseni ekuseni, ususe ucingo futhi ... uye e-cinema, cafe, esitolo sesitolo, nje ugijime emigwaqweni, into eyinhloko ukuthi akekho owaziyo ukuthi sikuphi. Awucabangi ukuthi kubonakala sengathi uzama? Futhi asikho isidingo sokuhlukumeza unembeza wakho ukuthi indoda enethembayo nomphathi wezintandane ziye zawa isisulu sokukhohlisa! Uma usuvele uthathe isikhathi esingagunyaziwe - ujabule impilo yakho yonke. Kodwa umngcele wesikhala sakho sangasese awuvikelekile kuphela kuwe: ohlangothini oluphambene - umlindi onamandla, ogama lakhe lingumhlahlandlela webhizinisi. Emsebenzini, sonke siphoqeleka ukuba senze ngokwezinga elithile: ukumomotheka kubantu abangathandeki, bathandeke ezintweni ezingathandeki, tshela okulungile, hhayi lokho okufunayo, gqoka ukuthi yini eyamukelekile, hhayi lokho okuthandayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sifuna noma cha, siphoqeleka ukuba silalele lesi simiso, futhi ngenxa yezizathu esizibhekene nazo, kanye nezithakazelo zomsebenzi wethu. Ikakhulukazi inokwethenjelwa ingasho kuphela indima yabendlukazi.
BHEKA UKUPHILA.
Cha, cha, asikhulumi ngelungu leKomsomol uZoya, owasindisa izwe lakubo. Siphinde futhi ngathi, bathandekayo. Ukukhohlwa mayelana nekholi yefoni, cishe sizokhuluma ngebhethri eliye lahlala isikhathi eside, seliphuthumayo emsebenzini, sithi siphila emgwaqweni wezimoto. Esikhundleni sokuvuma ukuthi bavele baqede. Njengoba sesilahlekelwe ukhiye noma amadokhumende, cishe, sizokhononda kumama wendlu esiye sakhukhulwa kuwo. Kungani? Yebo, ngakho-ke, ukuze ungalimazi umsebenzi wakho (i-traffic jam edolobheni elikhulu yisizathu esizwakalayo sokuphumula, uma singasetshenzisiwe). Ungamcasuli umngane noma umlingani webhizinisi: ngubani ojabule ukuzwa ukuthi awunandaba necala, okumele ucelwe, ukuthi ungakhohlwa ngakho? Kungcono hhayi indaba eqinisekisayo kakhulu ngebhethri eliye lagubha, Ekugcineni, hhayi ukuba yinto yokuhlekwa usulu nokuhlambalaza: nansi umfana, uphinde walahlekelwa isikhwama!
Ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyisifo esijwayelekile? Yebo, ungasho njalo. Kodwa isimo sokuzigcina silondolozwe kuzo zonke izinto eziphilayo, futhi noma yimuphi umuntu, azi ukuthi unenkinga, uzozama ukuwagwema ngazo zonke izindlela. Kunezimo lapho kufanele uqambe amanga futhi usize izihlobo zakho. Uyabona yini ukuthi umntwana usebenza ngokugcwele esikoleni futhi ufuna ukuhlala usuku noma ezimbili ekhaya? Yiqiniso, noma yimuphi umama onokuqonda ugijimela ingane ngeholide elinjalo. Futhi-ke, ngaphandle kokuzwa noma yikuphi ukuzisola ngokuqamba amanga, ubhala phansi ngombhalo uthisha wami: indodana yami ilahlekelwe izifundo ngenxa yekhanda. Cishe, uthisha uyazi ukuthi utshele amanga: unabantwana abafuna ukweqa izifundo ngezikhathi ezithile ... Uma umyeni womngane omkhulu ebuza kusihlwa, uma ungenayo, ngengozi, thina , ngokushesha wagijima ukuze alondoloze injabulo yakhe futhi, ethi: "Yebo, kunjalo! Wavele nje ephethe umusi emgodini! Manje phinda ubuye! ", Sizogijima ukubiza umngane kuselula.
KUPHELA PASSAGE IN LIE.
Ngisiphi isikhathi, amanga angamakhaya angenabungozi, ukusiza ihostele nokunciphisa izimpikiswano, kuphenduka amanga aphansi ngempela? Mhlawumbe, lapho umuntu eqala ngenjongo yokufuna inzuzo nokucebisa, lapho amanga akhe angabangela abanye ukulimala noma ukulimala. Ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kungabantu abangcolile abahlukanisiwe abangesibo emphakathini ohloniphekile? Uphutha! Kuyinto engavamile kubantu abazicabangela ukuthi bahloniphekile futhi bahloniphekile, ngezinye izikhathi besebenzisa lesi "sikhali" kokubili kwebhizinisi nokuphila komuntu siqu. Hlanganisa inhlebo engcolile mayelana nomngani wakho webhizinisi noma umncintiswaneni, unikeze isithembiso esingenangqondo sokuthola izinzuzo ngokushesha, "ukuboleka" umqondo womunye umuntu, ukuboleka imali, ukwazi ngokuqinile ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke ukuyibuyisela, ukukhohlisa kancane ngemibhalo yezimali - abaningi beza ngakho hhayi kanye, ngenkathi eqhubeka nokujabulela idumela labantu abathembekile, abahloniphekile. Kukhona ama-virtuosos wangempela abaphatha ukuhola ngisho nokuphila okuphindwe kabili kodwa okuyisithathu: baphila kanyekanye nabalingani abaningana, basebenzela amafemu okuncintisana. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abaningi abaqamba amanga bayakwazi ukugcina idumela labo iminyaka namashumi eminyaka. Ukubamba umqambimanga onjalo akunakwenzeka: ekhanda lakhe, kubonakala sengathi ikhompuyutha eyakhelwe ngaphakathi ebala yonke imidwebo yomdlalo wakhe odizayo. Uma uhlangabezane nomlingisi onjalo endleleni, hlala kude naye, bese uzama ukungasebenzisi lezo zindlela ngokwakho. Ngisho noma ngaphandle ama-virtuosos amanga abheka kakhulu ngenjabulo, abatholi induduzo yangaphakathi. Ukuzizwa unecala njalo (futhi noma ubani onamanga uyazi kahle ukuthi uyaphula umkhawulo walokho okuvunyelwe) futhi ukwesaba ukudalulwa kubangela ukucindezeleka, izinzwa. Futhi uma umgomo ofisayo ufinyelelwe, ngeke ulethe injabulo noma ukwaneliseka.
IZINGANE ZESIKHATHI SESVRUNGEL.
Izingane esiyikho, ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuthi kungani senza lokhu. Kungenxa yokuthi wonke umuntu uyakwenza. Ngoba kulula. Kungani ukukhohlisa, ukuphazamisa, ukukhohlisa, uma ungakhohlisa kancane! "Ngeke kulimaze," sitshela ingane esivumelwaneni sikadokotela, nakuba siyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kuzokwenzekani. "Ngizobuya maduzane!" - sithembisa futhi siyanyamalala usuku lonke. "Uzofunda kahle, ngizokuthenga inja!" - simemezela ngesibindi. Futhi lapho ingane iveza idayari ngokuziqhenya "ezinhlanu", siqala ukuchaza ngokucacile ukuthi inja iyoyodingeka ilinde kuze kube phakade: i-puppy ngumthwalo onjalo. Sisabisa uBaba Yaga noMkhulu ngesikhwama, sitshela izindaba mayelana neNtombazane engaphansi kwepuleti kanye neSorkork eseza izingane. Futhi asicabangi neze ukuthi ngenye indlela ekude nengane ephelele ingane izoqonda ukuthi uhlala endaweni yemanga. Ukuthi umama, kuvela, uphuma ezitebhisini ukuthi angathathi udoti nhlobo, kodwa ukubhema ukuthi ugogo akahambanga kwelinye idolobha, kepha wafa, ukuthi iSanta Claus inesilevu ngentambo, kanti ugogo wesibhakabhaka awusalethi abantwana.
Akukubi neze ukuthi ingane, ejwayelekile kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ekuqambeni amanga, izogcwalisa ibutho labantu abaqamba amanga ngesikhathi. Okubi kakhulu omunye. Ingane ingazizwa iphephile kuphela uma iqiniseka ngokungaqiniseki ngokuphelele kwabazali bayo. Uma umama esho amanga, khona-ke ufihle okuthile kuye. Okungukuthi, kusukela ekubukeni kwengane, kukhona ekuphileni kwakhe okuthile okuyimfihlo, okunqatshelwe, okuyihlazo. Ngengane, lokhu akuyona nje ukuhlambalaza, kodwa inhlekelele, inhlekelele yokulinganisa jikelele, ngoba konke kuqubuka, okukhona kuwo umhlaba omncane kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, indlela eyodwa yokuphuma: ukuze ungaphumi ezimweni ezimbi futhi ulalele ukuhlambalaza okulungile kwezingane ezikhulile, ungalokothi uqambe amanga ezinganeni. Ngisho noma uqamba amanga ngokwengeziwe. Ngisho noma ungazi ukuthi ungatshela kanjani iqiniso. Ngisho noma wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi iqiniso lilimaza ingane. Ngoba ngisho namanga amancane kakhulu abuhlungu izikhathi eziyikhulu ngaphezu kweqiniso elibi kakhulu.
Ngiyajabula kakhulu ukukhohlisa mina ...
Kodwa inkohliso yamanga kakhulu futhi eyingozi iyamanga. Asisebenzisi isikhathi esiningi nanoma ubani omunye. Isikhathi esithandayo indlela yethu yokuphila, umsebenzi, sibalo. Ukuthi umphathi uyasihlonipha, futhi uma kungenjalo, akusiyo ngoba sisebenza kabi, kodwa ngoba uyisiwula futhi asikwazi ukusiqonda. Ukuthi umyeni wakhe waya kolunye ngenxa yokukhohlisa kwakhe kanye nokuthambekela kwamadoda isithembu, hhayi ngenxa yezinkathazo zobusuku bonke nokulala ocansini kanye ngesonto. Iyini le nsizwa encane ezwela ngaphansi kwengalo yakho eyayisithi njalo futhi ayizange ikhule ngenyanga eyedlule. Ukwenza amanga abonakale ekholisayo, sibheka kwabanye, sibanika imininingwane emisha, siza nezizathu ezintsha zokuhlupheka, sithola abantu abaningi abanecala ezinkingeni zethu.
Kodwa amanga afana nomuthi. Ukuqamba amanga kuphazamisa izinzwa, kuhlale kunesimo sokuthakazelisa, kukhuthaza ukukhululwa kwe-adrenaline, okuyinto ezindaweni zayo ngezindlela eziningi kufana nezinto ezidakayo. Futhi liyalutha. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umuntu akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwamanga, ngisho noma lokho kumenza kube nomonakalo osobala. Uhlasela noma yimuphi umxhumanisi - umlingani wakhe, umngane, umakhelwane emgqeni kumdokotela wamazinyo - futhi uqala ukudweba kuye imininingwane emangalisayo yokuphila kwakhe okungenakwenzeka, ngokuphindaphindiwe agxilwe emhlabeni wakhe oqanjiwe futhi kancane kancane alahlekelwe ukuthintana neqiniso. Ngenxa yalokho, amanga abe yiwona owesibili, kodwa owuhlobo lokuqala, abhubhise ubuntu futhi ahlukumeze i-psyche. Abangane kuqala balalela ngentshisekelo, bese bengakholwa futhi, ekugcineni, ngesihawu. Futhi emva kwesikhathi esithile umuntu uzithola ehlanjululwe ngokuphelele: abangane bakhe bahlubuka kuye, izihlobo zakhe zihlazeka, iziphathimandla ziyeke ukwethemba ezinye izinto ezibalulekile. "Ngokwemvelo," ucabanga ukuthi, "Kuningi elingenalutho, akekho othanda ukuqonda futhi angiqonde, enhle, enomusa, ohlakaniphile!" Akekho okufanele uvumele ukuwela kulo mgibe, ngoba ayikho indlela yokuphuma kuyo. Ngakho-ke, sizofunda ukwethembeka nathi ngokwethu. Siyazivuma ukuthi akuyona yonke into emiphilweni yethu ephephile, futhi ekuphenduleni hhayi labo abaseduze kwethu, kodwa thina ngokwethu. Kodwa asiyikufafaza amakhanda ethu ngomlotha, kodwa sibeke imisebenzi ecacile ukuze siphumelele lokhu: ukubeka amaphepha okuhlela, ukudlulisa umbiko, ukuvakashela udokotela wamazinyo, ukwakha umama nomyeni wami, uqale ukuya ejimini, uyeke ukuqamba amanga kwabanye. Futhi okokuqala - kithi.