Kodwa ungazami kakhulu ukushintsha umuntu wakho, ngakho-ke zama ukulinganisa othandekayo wakho kusuka ekuzijabuliseni kwakhe. Izazi zengqondo zisho amagama mayelana nalokhu, ukuthi umuntu onomsebenzi ozithandayo, izinto ezithandwayo, ukuzilibazisa kuyoba yimpumelelo, umuntu ozethembayo futhi ophumelelayo. Futhi abesifazane abaningi abazi nje ukuthi kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kwezinto ezinjengobhiya, umkholo nezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa zamadoda kanye nokuthandwa kwabesilisa ngokobulili. Phela, noma yikuphi ukuzilibazisa kungenza kucace kowesifazane ukuthi yikuphi okukhethayo kowesifazane nokuthi ubani ongakwazi ukumthatha.
Shish kebab, i-BBQ . Indoda engabonakali impilo yakhe ngaphandle kwalezizinto ngokwemvelo inesifiso esihle. Mayelana nala madoda ungasho ukuthi ayithandi abantu abancane kakhulu, abathandekayo, kodwa ngisho namantombazane "okuphuza umlomo". Indoda ithandana nabesifazane abanamaqabunga amaningi, okubazisa ukuthi bayakwazi ukuthwala futhi babelethe ingane enempilo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke lokhu, kungenzeka ukuthi la madoda anelutha kwezinye izinhlobo zotshwala, ikakhulukazi ubhiya, i-cognac, njll. Nakuba abantu abaningi abadumile bekhetha ukuzithokozisa okunjalo, lokho akusho ukuthi kukhona okudingekayo kokuphila okungalungile.
Ukudlulela ngokweqile . Umuntu onjalo akafaneli impilo yakhe ngaphandle kokuthola inani elithile le-adrenaline empilweni yakhe, okumangalisayo, okumangalisayo. Uzoba cishe yonke impilo yakhe ekufuneni izinzwa ezintsha, ikakhulukazi abesifazane abasha. Kodwa lokhu akukabikho isigwebo. Intombazane, ukuze ukwazi ukuzama ukuhlukumeza umuntu onjalo, umuntu kumele alungele izinto ezingalindelekile, ezingalindelekile empilweni yakhe. Phela, ngisho nohambo olulula ukuya e-cinema lungabonisa ukuguquka okungalindelekile ngesimo sobulili obuqhakazile ophahleni lendlu ahlala kuyo. Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo ngokweqile, ukuzilibazisa kwabantu kungasho ngomuntu ukuthi uyakwazi ukuqala ngesivinini, engozini kanye nokucindezela. Intombazane enquma ukuhlanganisa impilo yakhe nomshayeli onjalo kuyodinga ukukwazi ukuqiniseka ngokugcwele ukuthi nayo iyokwazi ukuthola konke okukufunayo. Ngokuyinhloko, intombazane kufanele ivumele lowo muntu ukuthi ubulili naye bungcono ngaphezu kokuzilibazisa kwakhe okwedlulele.
Umqoqo omncane . Indoda ayidingi ukuqoqa izitembu, izincwadi nezinto ezinjalo, angakwazi futhi ukuqoqa noma yini, noma yini. Mayelana "nombukiso" onjalo ungasho ukuthi uma ukhetha owesifazane oyithandayo, uzoyifunda ngokucophelela kuqala, ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthatha isinyathelo esinqunyiwe. Uzobaluleka kuzo zonke imininingwane yowesifazane, ikakhulukazi, nezingubo zangaphansi, okuzoba yizintambo ezikhethwayo nezingavamile, ikhanda lamantombazane, ikhanda eliyinto engokwemvelo nokushayela i-crazy kanye nezinto. Umgomo oyinhloko womuntu onjalo uyoba nesifiso sokuthola kumuntu othile wesifazane injabulo yokuzijabulisa. Angakwazi ngisho nokuhlola owesifazane njengekhophi evamile noma engekho eqoqweni lakhe. La madoda afisa ukutadisha kahle, cishe ngamasentimitha, isidumbu sowesifazane omi phambi kwakhe.
I-getter eyintandokazi . Izenzo zokuzilibazisa zamadoda ezihlobene nokuzingela, ukudoba nokunye okunjalo, ziphakamisa ukuthi zisetshenziselwa ukwelapha konke okuzungezile ngokusola noma ngokuqapha. Futhi, njengomsebenzi ozithandayo, lo muntu uzothatha isikhathi sakhe futhi afunde ngokucophelela owesifazane ngamunye ngaphambi kwakhe ngaphambi kokuba aqale ukusebenza okusebenzayo. Ngokuqondene nobulili, khona-ke indoda enjalo ngeke isheshe kakhulu kulo msebenzi ozithandayo. Indoda izokuzama ukukhumbula zonke izindawo zowesifazane ozobonakala ehluleka kakhulu kuye, ukuze "azisebenzise" uma kudingeka. Amadoda - i-getter izoqaphela ngokucophelela, itadishe ukuziphatha komuntu okhethiwe. Kuwesifazane ongasetshenziselwa ukusheshisa izenzakalo ezisathuthuka, lowo ozobhalwa nguye uyokwamukeleka kakhulu. Kodwa kufanele akhumbule ukuthi ukulala kakhulu embhedeni akufanelekile, ngoba lo mfana uthanda lapho "umdlalo" ulinde ngesineke okwamanje. Ngokufanayo, lapho indoda ibamba futhi ifuna ukuyithatha.
Umshayeli wezimoto . Ngokujwayelekile amadoda abakhetha izimoto, ukugijima okusheshayo, isivinini akakwazi ukuqonda konke ubuhle bemvelo nemvelo. Abanye babo bakholelwa ukuthi isibhubhu esincane ngeke silimaze umuntu oye wakhanga inani elikhulu lamadoda. Amadoda anjalo, ngokungaqondakali, yilabo besifazane abanama-eyelashes angamanga namabhiliksi amabele, noma izipikili zokufakelwa. Intombazane efuna ukuzibandakanya namadoda anjalo, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukutholakala kwesikhashana sobulili: izintandokazi zokudlala amathoyizi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuntu kufanele acabangele okungakaze kube ngaphansi nangaphansi kwezimo akufanele kubhekiswe ekukhulumeni ngobukhulu bayo besithunzi, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ngejubane lokwakhiwa.
Umthwebuli wezithombe. Izenzo zokuzilibazisa ezifana nezithombe, zingasho ukuthi umuntu onjalo uthanda ukwenza ngokukhetha ngokuhambisana nomzwelo wakhe. Ngokuvamile amadoda anjalo adala kakhulu emvelo, futhi athanda ukuzama ukuthatha isithombe umlingani wakhe ngisho nalapho elele embhedeni nentombazane. Baqala ukubheka okuhlanjululwe kakhudlwana, okufanelekile ukudubula kwefreyimu. Ezimweni ezinjalo, intombazane idinga nje ukuyibeka kusengaphambili ngaphambi kokuthi i-museum ingaphezu kwe-photomodel yakhe. Kwezinye izimo, kufanelekile ukucabangela isidingo sobuhlobo obunjalo.
Izinto eziningi zokuzilibazisa zomuntu wakho zingamcindezela ngandlela-thile owesifazane ezinyathelweni ezifanele, izenzo ezidingekayo. Kumele nje uzame ukutadisha ukuzilibazisa okuthandayo futhi wenze ngokuvumelana nehlelo eliboniswe kulokhu.