I-PROBLEM: akafuni ukugqoka ikhondomu. SOLUTION: Kukhona into eyodwa kuphela: akukho ikhondomu - ayikho isondo. Ngaphandle kokuxoxisana nezinketho. Ngokushesha nje uma isoka lakho liqonda ukuthi umbono wakho kulokhu uqinisile, ungalwazi futhi awukwazi ukuxoxwa, uzofaka ikhondomu. Mane uthi: "Ngiya ocansini kuphela ephephile." Futhi yena uyakukuqonda, noma uvele waba yisiwula esincane ... Futhi awudingi nje lolo hlobo lwezinto.
2 UKUPHILA: uyakubuza ukuthi ngandlela-thile uguqule ukubukeka kwakho. ISOLUTION: Uma engasiceli okuthile emhlabeni jikelele (izinwele zokulungiswa, ikhadini elilahlekelwa isisindo, ukwenza amabele), bese ugcwalisa isicelo sakhe. Akunzima kuwe, kodwa kumnandi kuye. Ngendlela, uma uzohlangabezana nezicelo ezinjalo zomlingani, khona-ke unelungelo eliphelele lokuziphatha okumele licele okuthile: futhi uma engafuni ukukuthungela, njengoTaylor Lautner, awudingi ukuzitholela yonke indawo ngezingqimba.
I-PROBLEM: akathuli ngesikhathi socansi. Futhi ungathanda amagama abumnene. SOLUTION: Okokuqala, ukufundisa okungcono ngesibonelo. Ngakho ungagodli noma. Hamba phansi, memeza, umhlehle kuye zonke izinhlobo ezingenangqondo mayelana nokuthi uhle kanjani nokuthi uthanda kangakanani okwenzekayo manje. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzophinde aphumule futhi aphule indlu yakhe yokulala ngokuthula.
4 IMPILO: ugxile esifubeni sakho, ukhohlwe ngakho konke okunye. UKUQALA: Uma umtshela okuthile, lapho ethanda kakhulu inqubo, khona-ke angase angayithathi. Mxuse futhi uthi into efana nale: "Ngifuna kuyo yonke indawo." Manje bonisa lapho uthanda khona kanye nokuthi ufuna kanjani.
5 IMPILO: ubeka amarekhodi kuwe. Ngomqondo wangempela. UKUQONDWA: Uma ubulili bakho buphenduka emncintiswaneni - kungakapheli isikhathi esingakwenza, zingaki izikhathi ezilandelanayo, ungaphila, futhi ume, futhi ekhanda lakho - bese uzama ukukuqonda. Yena, njengowe, manje ufunda umzimba wakhe. Ngokuqinisekile futhi uhlola ngokucophelela noma iyiphi idivayisi entsha ewela ezandleni zakhe. Ukuzwa simulator for Wabasaqalayo kuyingozi, kepha kholwa kimi: maduzane inani lizokhula libe yikhwalithi.
6 UKUPHILA: ufuna okuthile okukhonkolo, futhi akaqondi amacebo. Ngisho namacebo angenangqondo kakhulu. SOLUTION: Indlela elula kungaba ukukhuluma ngokuqondile. Kodwa uma kuziwa ekuqapheni okudinga incazelo eningiliziwe ... Lapha, ngokoqobo konke kulahlekile. Kodwa kukhona indlela yokuphuma. Yini engenakusho, ungakwazi njalo ukubhala! Ku-ICQ, nge-SMS ... Mlethele engxoxweni ehlukumezayo bese uchaza ngokuningiliziwe lokho okufunayo. Ngeke abone indlela othuka ngayo, ophaphathekile kanye nesigubhu, kodwa khumbula okufunayo.
I-PROBLEM: ufuna ubulili bomlomo, futhi awungakulungeli lokhu. ISINQUBO: Yisho ukuthi ukuze lo mcimbi ube mnandi bobabili, kuzomele nize nalokhu. Futhi izikhumbuzo eziqhubekayo ngale ndaba ngeke ziphuthumise.
I-PROBLEM: Ubumnene kakhulu. Njalo! UKUQONDWA: Okungavamile, kunzima kakhulu ukuxazulula le nkinga ngomfana onothando kakhulu kunomfana onzima kakhulu. Uma ubuhlungu, ungahlala uthi "Oh!" Futhi "Ay!". Kunzima kakhulu ukuchazela umfana ukuthi unomoya omnene kakhulu kangangokuthi awuzwa lutho, ukuthi ungathanda okufanayo, kodwa kathathu kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi uyakubona njengenganekwane, ehlanganisa i-ether ne-marshmallow futhi esaba ukulimaza, ngakho-ke kufanele wenze ngokucophelela. Ngokushesha nje lapho eqagela ukuhamba ngendlela efanele, ubonise intshiseko ekhukhumezayo, umkhuthaze ngazo zonke izindlela ezitholakalayo, ukuze aqonde ukuthi kulungile kangakanani. Futhi uma ethathwa kakhulu, ungase uthi: "Ay!"
9 UKUPHILA: uyacindezelwa kakhulu ngesikhathi socansi futhi akenzi lutho. UKUQONDWA: Ukuqonda ukuthi kungani engekho. Uma engeyena umphikisi omkhulu kunoma yisiphi isilwane ngaphandle kokuthula nokudabukisayo, ngakho-ke isikhathi esiningi isizathu sokuthi ukwesaba ukukudumaza ngesiphakamiso esingathandeki noma ukunyakaza okubukhali. Ngakho-ke, lapha kuzodingeka uthathe isinyathelo kuqala. Kodwa uzilungiselele ukuthi maduzane uzohlakazeka futhi kuzodingeka ukuthi uphuphe kuphela ngesinyathelo socansi!
I-PROBLEM: akajwayele ukuzishaya futhi akugxeke kakhulu ngokumanga ... ISINQUBO: Myeke athi unesithukuthezi esibi esikhumbeni sakhe, kodwa empeleni akuyona iqiniso ngokuphelele. Uhlakaniphile nje. Ngakho - shaya! Gwema ubuso, sebenzisa i-foam bese uhlambe ngobumnene nangobumnene. Kulula neze.
11 UMTHETHO: Akahambi eshaweni ngaphambi kocansi, futhi kukulimaza. SOLUTION: Yenza ukunyakaza okuhlangene kuyingxenye yeshado yobulili. Ngokushesha uzoba nomkhuba omuhle: kuqala ukugeza, bese ucansi.
I-PROBLEM: ufuna ukulala nawe emcimbini nabangani. Futhi awuthandi ukukwenza endlini zangasese eziseduze noma embhedeni womama womuntu. INQUBO: Eqinisweni, ubulili buyinto enjalo, lapho omunye wabalingani unelungelo lokuvota. Le nkulumo ithi: "Angifuni lokhu, ngoba ngeke ngikhululeke, ake sihle ekhaya?" -kuvame ukubonakala kahle ngomfana ovamile. Futhi okungavamile ... Yebo, wena ngokwakho uyazi.
UKUSEBENZA: Ufuna ukwabelana ngemininingwane ebuseduze nabangani bakhe. SOLUTION: Buza ukuthi uzoyithanda yini uma uxoxa nazo zonke izintombi zakhe ezibonakalayo nezingabonakali nezintombi zakhe? Ngaphezu kwalokho, cacisa ukuthi uzojabula yini uma bonke abangane bakhe bezohlanganyela emphakathini wakho obuseduze.
14 UMTHETHO: ufuna ukulala kaningi kunakho.
SOLUTION: Funa ukuyekethisa. "Uma engithanda, uzohlupheka" - lokhu kuyilungelo lokuphila, kodwa hhayi isinqumo esiqotho. Kuyinto eyodwa uma ungazizwa sengathi uthanda ngosuku oluthile. Okunye - uma ungafuni ukuhlala njalo. Kuhle kakhulu ukuba "indlovukazi yeqhwa", ongenza futhi axolele ngelilodwa igama. Kodwa akumnandi kakhulu uma wenqatshwa - usuku nosuku, inyanga emva kwenyanga. Ubuhlobo obunjalo bungeke buholele kunoma yini enhle. Ngakho-ke inkulumo. Xoxa, bheka izinketho, vuka ... Futhi khumbula ukuthi ukudla kuvela nokudla.