Umthetho oyinhloko, yiqiniso, ukukhululwa kokubili abalingani ngesikhathi sokuxhumana kocansi embhedeni. Futhi kulokhu akukhathaleki ukuthi konke okushiwo embhedeni kuzothatha incazelo ethile noma cha, ngoba ukuze kuvunyelwe izenzo zomlingani noma ukuveza imizwa yabo kwanele ukusebenzisa amagama amasha noma izitatimende, isibonelo, "ngaphezulu", " mmm ... "," yebo! ". Ezitatimendeni ezinjalo, awuzwa kahle kahle isifiso socansi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi uthando lomngane wakho, injabulo nokubekezela okuvela ku-caresses yakhe.
Okulandelayo, mhlawumbe udinga ukuxoxa ngencazelo ephikisanayo - "ulimi olubi" embhedeni. Izizathu zokwaneliseka ukuthi abalingani bangakwazi ukuzithola uma bezwa ngesikhathi sokulala ngocansi basala esikhathini esedlule. Ukuphila okunzima kwaphoqelela abantu ngaleso sikhathi ukuthi bangakhohlisi ngokukhethekile ukucindezela ngesikhathi socansi. Okusho ukuthi, amadoda ahlala ngaleso sikhathi esesimisweni esisodwa nesisisekelo: weza-saw-won. Babengazicabangi ukuthi bangathini embhedeni, bebengamane nje. Futhi kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi amadoda ngesikhathi socansi azinakuzigwema ezinkulumweni ezinamandla, ezikhuluma ngokuthula nangomdlandla, futhi zingaba mnandi kowesifazane. Kungenzeka ukuthi bobabili abalingani lexicon ezinyantisayo bayodala ukukhuphuka okukhulu kwesifiso sobulili, ngakho ukulala embhedeni yilokho othanda kokubili abalingani.
Futhi-ke, manje, kudingeka ukhumbule ukugabha nokuklabalaza ngesikhathi socansi. Kulokhu, ukuphendula okwanele komakhelwane kuyanele. Kuzo zonke ezinye izici, abalingani bazokwazi ukwenza cishe noma yini. Ngendlela, akudingekile ukuthi ngesikhathi sezocansi, ubuhlungu buzwakala kuphela ngumlingani, kanti lo mlingani, ebambe izindebe zakhe ngesibindi, engathuli, njengabahlanganyeli ngesikhathi sokuphenywa. Akekho obambisene nabo okudingekayo ukuba bazinciphise ngokwabo. Bobabili owesifazane nomuntu bangenza konke abakuthanda ukukwenza embhedeni, okungukuthi, ukukhala nokuhleka noma nje uhlale uthule. Cabanga ukuthi ngesikhathi socansi, hhayi ngomlingani ovamile, kufanele uqale ukumtshele mayelana nezintandokazi zakhe. Uma kungenjalo, ungammangaza. Futhi, mhlawumbe, kuyoba uthando lokuphila nomphefumulo wakho womshado? Futhi ukuziphatha kwakho nje kusabisa injabulo yomuntu siqu?
Umbuzo owodwa owunzima ohilela ukuthi ungakwazi ukubona izifiso zakho zocansi, ngenkathi usebenzisa amagama namazwi kulokhu, isibonelo, "Ngifuna manje!". Ngakho, ukukhuluma embhedeni lezi zitatimende azikwenzeka nje kuphela, kodwa futhi kuyadingeka. Nokho, kubalulekile ukwenza lokhu, yiqiniso, hhayi ngosuku lokuqala emva komhlangano. Kodwa kwezinye izimo uzokwazi ukufuna, uma ufuna ngempela.
Amadoda akudingeki akhohlwe ukuthi umbuzo wabo obumpofu "ulungile?" Ubophezelekile ukuba abe yinto eyodwa kuphela. Umfana kufanele azibonele ukuthi ngabe intombazane yanelisekile yini embhedeni. Nasi owesifazane, isibonelo, angaqonda ngaphandle kwamagama akhulunywe, ngabe umlingani wamthanda embhedeni, nokuthi ngabe uyayithanda yini. Ngakho-ke, amadoda kudingeka alwele okuhle kakhulu!