Vula ngokushesha
Bathi abesifazane bashesha ukushada. Kodwa kukhona namadoda alungele ukuhoxisa owesifazane kubhalisi emva kokuvakashelwa okumbalwa. Ungathengi uthando lomlingisi onjalo, kungcono ukukala ubuningi nobuqili. Ulungele ukutshela impilo yakho kumuntu ongamazi? Ingabe uqinisekile ngobuqotho nokuhlonipha kwakhe? Ingabe zikhona izizathu ezifihliwe ukuthi kungani eshesha kangaka? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, umuntu ohamba naye ukudala umndeni, kungcono ukwazi isikhathi esincane kunamalanga ambalwa noma amasonto.
Akusizi ngalutho
Owesifazane, ekhetha umyeni, uthemba ukuthi unomvikeli onokwethenjelwa nokusekela. Kwenzekani lapho umuntu onokuhlukumezana okufanayo ebheka ukugaya nokukhala okukhulu lapho ebona igundane? Futhi into elandelayo yenzeke: uyabona ukuthi akuyena lowo obesilisa ebuhlotsheni bakho. Ingabe usukulungele ukwenza wonke umsebenzi wesilisa osendlini, sibhekane nezinqola zokugwedla futhi uxazulule izinkinga ngokulungisa imoto - kufike kuwe.
Ayisebenzi
Omunye umphumela ophawulekayo wendoda ukungabi nendawo yokuhlala unomphela. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani umyeni, kungenzeka ukuthi unesithakazelo ekuqineni ebuhlotsheni, ukuzinza kwemali engenayo. Indoda evame ukushintsha imisebenzi noma ngeke imbheke nhlobo ayiyona umsizi wakho. Ngenkathi uhamba ngokuzama ukuthuthukisa isimo sakho sezezimali, uzothatha yonke imizamo yakho, elele embhedeni.
Uma umuntu ethembisa ukuthola umsebenzi, kodwa emva kwezinyanga ezintathu isimo asishintshi, ngakho-ke, cishe ngeke sishintshe.
Umhawu
Yiqiniso, kuhle ukuqaphela ukuthi indoda yakho ayikukhathaleli, ayikwazi ngisho nokwethula umuntu ongumfokazi eduze kwakho futhi ilungele ukukuvikela kunoma yikuphi ukungenelela ekuhlonipheni kwakho. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi umona udlula yonke imingcele evumelekile, futhi ukuphila nomuntu onjalo kungenakubekezelelwa.
Njengomthetho, umhawu unamandla okukhula ube yi-control ngokuphelele. Lokhu kuyoholela ekutheni awukwazi ukuphuma endlini, indoda yakho izobe ihlale ishumayela efonini yakho nase-e-mail, futhi noma yikuphi ukulibaziseka emsebenzini kuyoba yisenzakalo sokugxekwa. Ngendlela, lesi sikhwele esibuhlungu sivame ukukhombisa ukuthi lo muntu uqobo unezono noma uzimisele ngokuziphatha. Lokhu kwenza ukuba acabange ukuthi ubuqotho abukho, futhi uyayishintsha.
Kuxhomeke
Akukhathaleki ukuthi indoda ixhomeke kuphi - utshwala, izidakamizwa, imidlalo yama-computer noma umama. Lokhu kuzophazamisa ubuhlobo bakho futhi ngokuqinisekile kuzoholela ekukhungathekeni. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani umyeni ongafaki izinkinga empilweni yakho, shiya amanoveli nabantu abangenakuqeda noma yikuphi ukuxhomeka okukhulu. Akudingekile ukuba nethemba lokuthi umshado nothando lwakho luzokwenza isimangaliso. Cishe, i-naivete enjalo iyoholela eminyakeni yokuzama ukuxazulula inkinga yendoda ngaphandle kokuqinisekisa ukuthi yimpumelelo.
Ulaka
Yiqiniso, amadoda ayelokhu ehlukumeza kakhulu kunabesifazane. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukuziphatha kwethu kuthinteka ngamahomoni ahlukene. Kodwa imingcele evunyelwe yokuhlukunyezwa ikhona. Uma umuntu ethanda ukudiliza izandla zakhe, kuphazamisa amahloni, ukuhlambalaza ngokokuziphatha, kuvame ukungasho ukuthi uyangena futhi uzama ukulimaza ngamabomu, ngakho-ke ubala izinkinga ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo.
Ngendlela, lezi zinkinga aziphathwanga ngomshado kanye nemizamo yomfazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakhe. Kule minyaka, ukungalaleli kubangela umqondo wamanga wokuvumela, okungaholela enhlekeleleni. Ingabe udinga umyeni onjalo - kungcono kuwe.
Ngamunye wethu akasenazo izinkinga. Ezinye zazo kufanele zilwe, ezinye zingabekezwa, futhi ezinye zingahle zifinyelelwe. Uma indoda inezimfanelo ezithile ozicabangelayo ezingamukeleki, akunangqondo ukuthemba ukuthi uzokwazi ukufundisa kabusha umuntu omdala osetshenziselwa ukuphila ngendlela efanayo, futhi kungenjalo. Ungashadi owokuqala ozokwenza umnikelo futhi uphenduke amehlo kulezo zinto ezingathandeki kuwe. Indlela yokukhetha umyeni kulokhu? Kulula kakhulu - themba inhliziyo yakho futhi ungakhohlwa ngomqondo ovamile.